FabSwingers.com forum: Any regrets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear all, this one is aimed at the couples that have taken the plunge and introduced other men into their sex life, I fantasise about having a partner that would agree to do this, but....

Ladies - did you think your man didn’t love you enough and effected your relationship?

Men - did the sight of your wife enjoying herself with another man fill you with jealously especially if she seemed to enjoy sex more with the other guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things that annoys me most is the assumption that we swing because our relationship is lacking something.

Our sex life is EPIC

we have an amazing relationship. Swinging is, for us, about sharing experiences together. And frankly it's that good, it'd be rude to not share.

So no. No jealousy or insecurities about others...if we felt that way, we wouldn't swing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I agree, I think your sex life has to be epic to move onto the next stage, if it wasn’t then swinging isn’t going to fix it.

"One of the things that annoys me most is the assumption that we swing because our relationship is lacking something.

Our sex life is EPIC

we have an amazing relationship. Swinging is, for us, about sharing experiences together. And frankly it's that good, it'd be rude to not share.

So no. No jealousy or insecurities about others...if we felt that way, we wouldn't swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging won't "fix" a relationship.

It can improve one of course.

But if your relationship is already broken or littered with jealousy and insecurities, swinging will make things worse!

Most couples we know through the scene are the most stable, balanced and in love couple we know, that's why it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the things that annoys me most is the assumption that we swing because our relationship is lacking something.

Our sex life is EPIC

we have an amazing relationship. Swinging is, for us, about sharing experiences together. And frankly it's that good, it'd be rude to not share.

So no. No jealousy or insecurities about others...if we felt that way, we wouldn't swing.

This... All day long

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

No regret from me as a couple but when I was single I met a couple and I was with this guys wife and he was watching and receiving oral and she was really into it and whilst I was having sex with her she squirted.. alot!,

first time apparently as husband had never been able to get her to squirt so he lost his shit and kicked me out

Obviously he wasnt ready for the lifestyle and she was

Met her on her own a couple of times after that which was fun but not proud about that bit as I'm not one to get in between peoples relationships

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"One of the things that annoys me most is the assumption that we swing because our relationship is lacking something.

Our sex life is EPIC

we have an amazing relationship. Swinging is, for us, about sharing experiences together. And frankly it's that good, it'd be rude to not share.

So no. No jealousy or insecurities about others...if we felt that way, we wouldn't swing.

This... All day long "

Snap! Exactly the same with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have loved it every time, and “times” being too many to count!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Dear all, this one is aimed at the couples that have taken the plunge and introduced other men into their sex life, I fantasise about having a partner that would agree to do this, but....

Ladies - did you think your man didn’t love you enough and effected your relationship?

Men - did the sight of your wife enjoying herself with another man fill you with jealously especially if she seemed to enjoy sex more with the other guy?"

Although this an interesting topic op - I think in all honesty the ones who would answer ‘yes’ to this probably aren’t still on fab! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear all, this one is aimed at the couples that have taken the plunge and introduced other men into their sex life, I fantasise about having a partner that would agree to do this, but....

Ladies - did you think your man didn’t love you enough and effected your relationship?

Men - did the sight of your wife enjoying herself with another man fill you with jealously especially if she seemed to enjoy sex more with the other guy?

Although this an interesting topic op - I think in all honesty the ones who would answer ‘yes’ to this probably aren’t still on fab! X"

Well the wife isn’t anymore, hence so many verified couple profiles being run by a single guy

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"One of the things that annoys me most is the assumption that we swing because our relationship is lacking something.

Our sex life is EPIC

we have an amazing relationship. Swinging is, for us, about sharing experiences together. And frankly it's that good, it'd be rude to not share.

So no. No jealousy or insecurities about others...if we felt that way, we wouldn't swing.

You hit the nail not he head here, we are the same. A great sex life but introducing others into that allows us to share different experiences together that we couldn't do on our own.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I've had a few

But then again to few to mention

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What about the couples who have introduced other women into their sex life?

Speaking for ourselves on this one, no regrets, it’s been amazing...looking forward to the time we can do it again!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Dear all, this one is aimed at the couples that have taken the plunge and introduced other men into their sex life, I fantasise about having a partner that would agree to do this, but....

Ladies - did you think your man didn’t love you enough and effected your relationship?

Men - did the sight of your wife enjoying herself with another man fill you with jealously especially if she seemed to enjoy sex more with the other guy?"

Not many people are going to admit to any of that.

There are a lot of couples who experience insecurities, doubts and jealousy. The successful ones discuss it and get through it. The unsuccessful ones (in terms of swinging) realise swinging isn't for them and stop or split up.

Some couples do try swinging to patch the cracks, it usually makes them wider.

We have met couples where it's obvious one of them had doubts and single men who say they could never watch a future partner have sex with another man.

It's not all sunshine and roses for everyone

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Dear all, this one is aimed at the couples that have taken the plunge and introduced other men into their sex life, I fantasise about having a partner that would agree to do this, but....

Ladies - did you think your man didn’t love you enough and effected your relationship?

Men - did the sight of your wife enjoying herself with another man fill you with jealously especially if she seemed to enjoy sex more with the other guy?"

This gets under my sink a bit there are as many reason people try swinging as swingers spot trying to make everything black and white.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Swinging for us has been amazing not just the sex but the great social side it’s opened up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few but to few to mention.

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