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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a general question to anyone that can help us understand why so many couples on here turn out to be single males, even after just a few initial messages it becomes clear. Why o why the pretence? Doesn't it just waste their time as well. I can't see they get much of a kick from having to cover everything they type to create the right impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they were single mem in the first place

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"This is a general question to anyone that can help us understand why so many couples on here turn out to be single males, even after just a few initial messages it becomes clear. Why o why the pretence? Doesn't it just waste their time as well. I can't see they get much of a kick from having to cover everything they type to create the right impression. "

I believe a lot of them just get a thrill out of getting a message x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's something some do in the hope of getting someone to indulge in sex chat so that they can get off to it - or alternately in the hope of arranging a meet that on the day the female half of the couple is suddenly "ill" and they hope that the meet will go ahead regardless

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Cos they just sad basrRds atention seekers

Cant provide piccys of their other half

Supposidly

Cos non excistent

Total put off

Mind u there are a lot of couples profiles i find who end up just havin loads of piccys off the female

NON OF THE MALE

So the women ars as bad

Too many fakes i find

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think some used to be couples. They guys just continue with the profile when they split up.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Apparently straight men pretend to be single women here too, so guess it's all part of the wank fodder generation system for some.

It may also be a control thing, where they perceive having more power.

Ultimately, they may have psychological issues too.

It's something that can happen in remote contacts versus clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many couples and even photo verified female accounts are single males. Ive chatted to a "verified female" for a few weeks and then finally took the step to meet. We had swapped multiple face and body pics but after 20mile drive a guy answered the door and stated that he had to use that profile as I would have never of turned up if he said he was a guy. Then said "your here now you might as well let me suck you"....... no thanks.

The worst bit is that i reported it to fab and nothing happened as the profile is photo verified!!!!

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

It's to do with filters, as a lot of people block single men but not couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think 90% of the site is full of retarded village idiots!

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago


"So many couples and even photo verified female accounts are single males. Ive chatted to a "verified female" for a few weeks and then finally took the step to meet. We had swapped multiple face and body pics but after 20mile drive a guy answered the door and stated that he had to use that profile as I would have never of turned up if he said he was a guy. Then said "your here now you might as well let me suck you"....... no thanks.

The worst bit is that i reported it to fab and nothing happened as the profile is photo verified!!!!"

Had this also happen! Literally i read this feeling like I’d wrote it.

I always now insist on meeting in public, since then I’ve had 2 blokes turn up and say their partner couldn’t make it last minute.

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

We've found this wayyyyyy too often and are pretty good at spotting it from the first few messages now. Reading the profiles of some of these so called couples can be a giveaway as well...... Seriously how many 6 foot athleticly built women are in relationships with a guy the exact same height and build and often age as well!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think 90% of the site is full of retarded village idiots!"

I think that's a rather conservative estimate.

I always assumed bi guys would attract more, but I gather straight men have the same issue. There are a huge number of couples who come and go in a 24 hour period nowadays. I'm thinking of a paper sift and interview system in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's these fuckwits who are ruining this site. Had exactly this happen last night. Me and Mrs both got showered and shaved ready for visit and then transpired no female existed. Wouldn't have mattered too much but I had had a bath the day before!

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I had a meet once with a "couple". They were coming to my house. I watched out for them walking down the road as I suspected it was a single bloke. We live just down the road from a co=op. I watched a single male walk past the co=op and then to my door.

I answered it and said "where's your partner?" he said "she's just nipped to the co-op" to which my reply was "well, when you're partner gets here" and I closed the door. I then went to my "observation post" and watched him walk home again on his own.

I blocked the profile after sending a message with a few choice words in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lool as a Single Male they don’t get responses so as a fake a couple profile they hope to get some action and some responses for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet once with a "couple". They were coming to my house. I watched out for them walking down the road as I suspected it was a single bloke. We live just down the road from a co=op. I watched a single male walk past the co=op and then to my door.

I answered it and said "where's your partner?" he said "she's just nipped to the co-op" to which my reply was "well, when you're partner gets here" and I closed the door. I then went to my "observation post" and watched him walk home again on his own.

I blocked the profile after sending a message with a few choice words in it."
what a waste of time it must of been for you two. Like most couples if we want a single male we will look for them. Sadly some pretend to be in a couple profile. X

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh


"It's these fuckwits who are ruining this site. Had exactly this happen last night. Me and Mrs both got showered and shaved ready for visit and then transpired no female existed. Wouldn't have mattered too much but I had had a bath the day before! "
just think of the environment having a bath and shower in two days what's the world coming too lol from a genuine couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've reported so many "single female" profiles who state in their profile or through messages they only meet with their fella who will potentially join in. If your a couple meeting as a couple then just use a couples profile ffs, stop the lies.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

If I had a quid for every time I've been contacted by males who were supposedly half of a couple - message exchanges usually start along the lines of "I'd love to watch you fuck my wife"...

....more often than not, it turns out that the 'wife' or 'girlfriend' is either completely unaware or, in the majority of cases, doesn't even exist...

....conversely, there appears to be an increasing number of single male profiles with female partners who do actually exist, and meet, and play - I've been contacted by a few in recent months who have veris which mention them...

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

Bored losers most of the time, I've had one turn up for a meet and be like oh the mrs cant make it and expect me to be ok with it

Wasnt the deal mate go finish yourself off in a layby you waster !

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

This is why I love going to clubs roll on when they are back to normal x least you will always have a back up plan xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Thats why clubs are so good. Nothing like seeing and taking to people in the flesh. You really get the measure of them then and of course know if its a genuine couple. Sometimes there's people who seem to float our boat online but bumping into them at clubs/events not so much and pleasantly surprising sometimes its the other way round. Also if they dont turn out to float your boat you and just more on to other people in the same night. Dam this virus.

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

Maybe they were in a couple in the first place but then split and just carried on the profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do it in hopes of a meet. They get couples attention and start chatting. Arrange a meet and on the day say wife is ill but he can meet so as not to let them down. I wonder if some couples fall for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just so they can get their rocks off via chat.. That's our experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words... keyboard wankers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally it’s a scam with all the believability of a phone call from a Nigerian prince...

“My wife would find it really hot to know I am meeting you... etc”

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"It's to do with filters, as a lot of people block single men but not couples. "

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Never though of that but you know, you might be right there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amazed at hearing how far some of these singles masquerading as couples actually go. Even keeping the pretence going right up to arrival?!?.. Would be very helpful to have their Profile names on a sort of Name & Shame Board to stop other people having to go through the same ordeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are twitters that name and shame I have seen floating about and there was a fab fails Reddit/chan at one point that did that too . Dunno if it’s still going anymore though .

Occasionally I will post Screenshots of funny messages/abusive / rude messages I get on my Twitter . my fans enjoy the humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a general question to anyone that can help us understand why so many couples on here turn out to be single males, even after just a few initial messages it becomes clear. Why o why the pretence? Doesn't it just waste their time as well. I can't see they get much of a kick from having to cover everything they type to create the right impression.

I believe a lot of them just get a thrill out of getting a message x "
I totally agree and it spoiling thing for genuine single guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a general question to anyone that can help us understand why so many couples on here turn out to be single males, even after just a few initial messages it becomes clear. Why o why the pretence? Doesn't it just waste their time as well. I can't see they get much of a kick from having to cover everything they type to create the right impression. "

They do it for a laugh and a bit of a cheap thrill, you're not the only ones who start chatting with them...

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Boredom maybe.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"So many couples and even photo verified female accounts are single males. Ive chatted to a "verified female" for a few weeks and then finally took the step to meet. We had swapped multiple face and body pics but after 20mile drive a guy answered the door and stated that he had to use that profile as I would have never of turned up if he said he was a guy. Then said "your here now you might as well let me suck you"....... no thanks.

The worst bit is that i reported it to fab and nothing happened as the profile is photo verified!!!!"

OMG! You must have been fuming

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’ve had messages from couples profiles looking to chat or Who want me to have sex with the wife. I always assume it’s a guy . As I’m not going to meet anyway it’s just a chat at the end of the day . No harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many couples and even photo verified female accounts are single males. Ive chatted to a "verified female" for a few weeks and then finally took the step to meet. We had swapped multiple face and body pics but after 20mile drive a guy answered the door and stated that he had to use that profile as I would have never of turned up if he said he was a guy. Then said "your here now you might as well let me suck you"....... no thanks.

The worst bit is that i reported it to fab and nothing happened as the profile is photo verified!!!!

OMG! You must have been fuming"

That’s fucked up, so photo veri’s can’t be trusted either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s clearly some people’s idea of kink. Why would a guy pretend to be a woman (photos etc) to chat to me when we don’t block single guys?! Block, delete, move on x

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By *eat and discreetCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Arranged to meet a couple at Blackpool stay n play party,all pics sent etc,day before

Tells me his wife is poorly so cant make it,but hes still coming lol, .as if you would leave your poorly wife and travel to Blackpool,full of s.,t, obviously hes a single guy trying it on ,far too many idiots on here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s clearly some people’s idea of kink. Why would a guy pretend to be a woman (photos etc) to chat to me when we don’t block single guys?! Block, delete, move on x"

So sometimes when a woman doesn’t reply it’s sometimes not a woman behind the account? I feel less crappy now about not receiving a reply lmao

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

wolves


"This is a general question to anyone that can help us understand why so many couples on here turn out to be single males, even after just a few initial messages it becomes clear. Why o why the pretence? Doesn't it just waste their time as well. I can't see they get much of a kick from having to cover everything they type to create the right impression. "
Because they are dicks and get a kick from it. No couple is ever going to agree to a meet if the female "can't make it " for whatever reason. I've only had this once and it's so fuckin annoying!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nobody just talk to them on the phone or Skype to check them out? Simple check s out the fakers

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