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By *urvykate087 OP Couple
over a year ago

North East

Does anybody on here only meet with couples/individuals ‘exclusively’?

I think it’s so difficult to find a couple who

A) you both fancy

B) live within a reasonable distance from you

C) have a mutual level of conversation

I’m sure once you find the suitable person/couple it can be tempting to not explore with others! But equally- isn’t that what swinging is for?!

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I guess it depends what you're looking for in general. C and I don't wanna just shag about with as many people as possible - instead we're really looking to find friends who we play with as and when we all feel so inclined and I guess because of that we're more likely to be exclusive with that person or couple.

Although, saying that, doesn't exclusivity in that way suggest its more of a poly situation we're after than traditional swinging?

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By *urvykate087 OP Couple
over a year ago

North East

Yes exactly!

It’s quite a complex world it seems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual attraction is important for both couples and singles. It's not like it used to be when the clubs were open and you could chat to real people .

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Yes exactly!

It’s quite a complex world it seems! "

Not half. There's more labels now than there's ever been, and still nowhere near enough to cover the breadth of human sexuality.

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