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Friendship, conversation or just sex?

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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

Getting an answer from a lady or a couple is as difficult as teaching common sense to Boris Johnson.

And when I get it, most find strange that I ask for a social and a decent conversation before the fun.

Is it common? Do I make a mistake if I specifically ask for a bit of getting known better before moving on?

If I want just sex I go to a club and join some group fun, but in here I thought it was different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol about Boris.

I enjoy a social aspect too. My usual pattern is - text and message for a few days or weeks, maybe phone or cam (sometimes more than once), meet for sex but spend an hour or two chatting or having a drink/dinner, then fuck.

Of course there have been exceptions. Probably the quickest was after 3-4 messages I then went to his house and had sex the minute I got there. But that was unusual.

Xx

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

You will find everyone is different in what they are looking for. Personally for me, it's about building something with someone before the sex so a quick exchange of messages before meets is not enough for me. Messages, a social and then a play meet. Our ideal is make friends who we can have fun with socially and well as sexually.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasion we've played straight away we find it's a one off. Much better to have a social first to gauge the other parties want needs desires.. The build up is always better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the vast majority of ladies and couples want few decent messages then social with conversation to establish a connection, before moving onto any play, well by and large at least.

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