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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How did you find out you was interested in swinging and when. Mine was when i found a naturist beach in majorca. Es trenc. Spent most of our holiday there and saw things that we liked. That was 8 years ago

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's so long ago (20 years), we honestly can't even remember!! More recently we saw a newspaper article about a club and thought we'd give it a go

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My interest in group sex. 6months after i split with my partner a very shy me toddled into a swingers club and have never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always had a craving for debauchery, but also building chemistry with people I'd meet. Swinging hit the spot for me personally.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

A fb recommended this site to me about 18 months ago. I had not long split from a boring 12 year marriage.

I was very nervous and didn’t know what to expect.

I never in a million years thought I was a swinger.......

Well I’m not to be fair but found my inner greedy girl and had a crazy good few months.

Then I met my bf in a club and now I would say we are exhibitionists rather than swingers.

Either way it’s been great fun

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I was cheating on my ex with my fwb, and he used to like it when after I'd had sex with ex I'd meet him,

One day he just said he has somw couple friends who wanted to meet me so I just said yea why not?

Before I knew it I had a strangers dick inside me and a strangers pussy in my face and it spiralled out of control ever since haha xx no regrets though x

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By *E8374Couple
over a year ago

Tipton

Wifey always had a feeling she was bi... Tried it, loved it, and now is just sex mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a swingers club to see what it is was about even before hearing about fab, went on a Saturday night packed full of couples dived in at the deep end came out at 3am a changed person

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Pillow talk about fantasy etc years back...here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A classic tale of...

My wifey was in work and I had a fab round,while we was in full blown hammer n tongs sex my wife walk in as she didn’t feel well and was sent home.

We didn’t hear the door open and was oblivious for about 5 minutes until I looked up and saw her standing there...

Like a electric shock I was up and did know where to put my face while apologising to my and then shocked to hear from her lips “it’s okay”...

She wasn’t shocked at all but very turned on as I found out pretty soon after a good conversation.

Then she shocked me by asking me to invite my fuck buddy round for a “talk”,which turned into more than just a talk.

And now we have a very good fuck buddy for us all to have some naughty fun.

We have a few good friends now and are closer than we ever were before.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Naturist hols ....massages at home ...and a swinger cruise Florida to Mexico ....little steps....& lots of laughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and a xfwb discovered how much we love being watched fucking after finding out we were being spyed on in a hotel.

We started going to afew clubs kept it between the two of us although found them abit tacky & seedy but enjoyed the thrill of it. Which led us to dipping our toe in afew private white tie masquerade mansion partys which were immense. I cant wait to do some again next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into it when I was walking in some woods I saw a car parked up and a lady in the seat sucking a cock and wanking another. I got in my car and watched they fucked her as she lent over in the boot.when the guys left I was there still and she come over and asked why I did not come over to join in,I said I did not know what was going on and she told me and I was hooked??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow. This is interesting how we all discovered our likes

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Was for mistake i was to go to a swimming classe and i ended in a swinging group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was for mistake i was to go to a swimming classe and i ended in a swinging group "

New meaning to breast stroke i suppose

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Back in the early 80s we were on a night out with another couple. We came back to our place after for a few drinks and started playing truth or dare. Started off innocent enough but the dares kept getting raunchier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were offered a room to live in a friend's house and he used to have parties and that got us interested in swingeing more then we already were and that was 17 years ago

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By *rMrsBumblebeeCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Pillow talk about fantasy etc years back...here we are "

Ditto here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pillow talk about fantasy etc years back...here we are

Ditto here....."

Pretty much the same. F said she had been with other ladies before we met so after the "lets spice up our sex life" conversation we decided to have something just the two of us could enjoy. Still waiting for 1st meet..... Will keep you posted lol

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Mrs DRST found a video of Hubby with his ex quite early in our relationship... She admitted she loved watching me. With other woman.

It became a bedtime talking point that we tried to make reality but struggled to find the right girls. Then just under 4 years ago we finally started off making it a reality.

3 cuckcakes in, 2 of which were long term, and we are hooked. In between other ladies at the moment though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner has no interest in a physical relationship with me whilst I do with them.

We talked and talked and talked and talked some more about our situation and we agreed that I could play away as long as it was only physical and that they knew everything that happened.

Hey presto, I became a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend

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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I jokingly said to my hubby that I could do with a real good seeing to, after telling him that he was good (Whoops) I just needed that something extra, so following week my hubby told me to get dressed up as if I was a teenager on the pull and took me to a swingers club, I broke my cherry on the very first night and never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to live a few streets away from a swingers club and walked the dog down that street many times. I did not know it was even there until my dad pointed it out and told me not to go in. A year went by and I found myself more and more tempted to go in, until I finally did. Afterwards I found myself visiting clubs quite regularly.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Looking back...it appears I was a swinger before I knew what one was!

Guess I just love the debauchery of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a threesome with an old work colleague - who I'd slept with before then - and his then girlfriend. They were on here together and introduced me to fab.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"My interest in group sex. 6months after i split with my partner a very shy me toddled into a swingers club and have never looked back."

Very similar. A little tipsy after a night out I went to the Paradise Spa in Dagenham and it changed my life...

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"My partner has no interest in a physical relationship with me whilst I do with them.

We talked and talked and talked and talked some more about our situation and we agreed that I could play away as long as it was only physical and that they knew everything that happened.

Very jealous x

Hey presto, I became a swinger "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby found out that I had swung before I met him. He loved the idea and we first tried it on a holiday abroad x

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Two years of Mark trying to talk me into it I agreed to go on cam during lockdown.

I found it a real turn on so we progressed to actual meets, now I’m hooked

Jxx

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we started flashing and it went from there to playing with others 20 years ago

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By *erseus1968Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

Through a friend that I used to flirt with. She told me I could fuck her if another guy joined us in a club. So along I went loads of fun and ended up playing all night. Things developed from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all started with us telling one another dirty fantasy stories. Then one day on holiday we visited our first swingers club, and that was it.

Oh for those heady days when you could go anywhere you wanted without restriction.

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

Just suggested getting our kit off somewhere went nervously to eureka rest is history and on the way c discovered she was bi kaching!! ?? ?? ??

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We began by fantasising in bed together. Our fantasies always ended up as MFM threesomes. Then back in 2010 we discovered chat rooms for swingers. We ended up meeting a guy from there who was an officer in the army. It was an amazing experience. We lived off that one experience for six years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pillow talk. I admitted to want to see another guy sucking hubby. He asked if I wanted to see him fuck a guy and I practically came in the spot.. We talked about it for another couple of weeks, about what we both wanted, limits and rules.. Then started looking...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its been interesting how we all found our likes. Lets hope after covid it still carries on in such strength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had split from my wife and a lady friend pointed me towards fab, that was about 15 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend wanted a another guy to fuck his wife, but wanted someone he could trust so.. Voila!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something we always talked about doing to meet new people and have to say made some great friends whilst doing it. Hope we get to meet many more people xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) was in a sexless marriage for years and my wife told me I should go and get it elsewhere because I wouldn't get it from her, so I ended up going to clubs and getting a regular partner.

When I first started talking to Hannah, neither of us had any thoughts it would lead to a relationship. We just talked openly about our experiences and desires. When it developed, she said she was interested in seeing if the lifestyle is for her.

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Wow interesting read..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about 27, out for a drink with the lads. A woman mid 40’s started flirting with me at the bar. She appeares to be on her own. She was fit! A serious MILF. Biught her a drink and had banter. After a while, she asked if i wanted to go back to hers! I said yeah and that id go get some condoma from the toilet. When i got back she was with a bloke late 40’s. It was her hubby. They explained that i could fuck her while he watches, Joins in or waits down stairs. We ended up doing all 3! They told me about FAB. I’ve fucked her about once a month for about 10 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we watched a series of american real sex which featured a swinging campfest in america we decided it looked fun so within 2 weeks we ended up at paradise in blackpool had our first meet and ff and ffm fun and been in and out of scene ever since

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By *aked AngelMan
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

Because...

Is there anything better than sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started so I could explore my bi side. I had very little interest in being with other guys apart from my hubby but over time that changed. Now i consider myself a hotwife and defintely interested in other men

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Was for mistake i was to go to a swimming classe and i ended in a swinging group

New meaning to breast stroke i suppose "

Was a surprise for me not expected at all to be true even i didn't

know what was going on there, she toke me by her hand after she very gently have closed the door , she toke me the big table , i could feel a cold hand down to my back and another more warmer on my neck in a very delicated way , in her grey clothes she touched my lips and kissed me ... i can remember and feel every single second of that day, this was long time ago

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Was unexpected for me but for them was just a question of time to having me with them

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Was chatting on here after splitting from ex and a guy suggested I tried the old Abfabs near Heathrow, probably about 10 years ago, not looked back since, love bi fun. So missing all the fun

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