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By *c1745 OP Man
over a year ago

denton

Tell me your favourite parts of bdsm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The D

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By *c1745 OP Man
over a year ago

denton

The dripping wet pussy

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By *trapoff_straponCouple
over a year ago

Newark

CBT

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By *c1745 OP Man
over a year ago

denton

"CBT

Tell me more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CBT

Tell me more..."

It's risky to make demands of a lady who likes CBT...

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By *trapoff_straponCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Cock and ball torture oh and tease and deny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock and ball torture oh and tease and deny "

Mmmm I love tease and deny. So hot and frustrating all at once.

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By *trapoff_straponCouple
over a year ago

Newark

A nice bit of spanking never goes amiss. Love peachy red cheeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice bit of spanking never goes amiss. Love peachy red cheeks. "

I'm going to guess she does the teasing and he gets the denial.

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By *trapoff_straponCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Oh definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh definitely "

Why do I get the feeling male chastity is involved here, too?

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By *trapoff_straponCouple
over a year ago

Newark

No there isn’t actually, just firm control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No there isn’t actually, just firm control"

Wow very firm control, in that case. You have him v well trained.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

the little judder of anticipation against her bonds as she hears the swish of the hand cane or flogger about to strike .

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

For me it's the feelings expressed by the other person, the little noises, the movement of the body, the orgasm, they all make for the excitement. The build up play is fun too.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

The huge variety of ways to play, tease, pleasure etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restraint and rope play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reaching subspace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sub.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Her cries of pain but how her pussy betrays her by getting wetter and wetter.

He stubborness ever to say stop and me taking her past her limits.

How after taking it really far she will not look at me and will be genuinely cross. Then i give her a little time to settle before suddenly treating her like my Princess again, concerned and loving, kissing it better.

When its like this we have to most connected, passionate and loving sex and she will come next level hard.

Afternshe has cum she will be glowing and smiling and the trauma of ealier punishment is forgotten

We then laugh about how broken we both our to get so off on it

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

just a note to single guys please do not messsage us wanting to join us for BDSM dom or sub.

The Dom/Sub relationship is a deep trust we have qith each other and neither of us has any want to play this out with others.

We are on this site seeking guys for sleazy but Vanilla sex only!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For me it's the beauty of mutual trust and respect built to the point that a submissive can truly give him/herself to a dominant from an informed position and allow that control to be taken knowing it will be handled with care and the submissives wellbeing at all times - have that and the individual physical acts that make up a scene are largely irrelevant by comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything about it

I love being his sub/toy/pet. The firm grip that puts me into the headspace without even saying anything, being used for his pleasure just because he likes the noises I make when he hurts me.. the connection we have is everything to me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"The dripping wet pussy

What part of BDSM does this come under?

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By *caredstiffMan
over a year ago

Hastings

Her first inspection is always nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best part of bdsm?

The trust

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"the little judder of anticipation against her bonds as she hears the swish of the hand cane or flogger about to strike .

Very much this

But also breaking the rhythm of her spanking or whiping, making it soft and gentle, lulling her into a false sense of security before catching her off gaurd with a firm strike and hearing her scream and pull against her bonds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find service submissives a huge turn on. Getting off on giving good service - ensuring I’m happy and comfortable at all times and not needing extrinsic rewards.

Extremely hard to find but a girl can wish!

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

The authority of her voice , how the dialogue within her changes , which in turn leads me into submission..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The exchanged and implied trust...

That is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bondage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The huge variety of ways to play, tease, pleasure etc!"

I have to agree with you.

I have enjoyed kink and fetish play for approximately 10 years, & there is so much fun to be had when you combine kink & sex.

Keeps things fresh & exciting as you have so many strings to your bow that no 2 sessions are ever the same!

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

The b and the d mainly

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Her cries of pain but how her pussy betrays her by getting wetter and wetter.

He stubborness ever to say stop and me taking her past her limits.

When its like this we have to most connected, passionate and loving sex and she will come next level hard.

Afternshe has cum she will be glowing and smiling and the trauma of ealier punishment is forgotten

We then laugh about how broken we both our to get so off on it"

Wow... she is one lucky lady, this is so what I want and search for. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sissification and pegging

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Being the submissive

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Reaching subspace.

Wasn't that how star trek ships communicated over galaxies in real time?

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Her cries of pain but how her pussy betrays her by getting wetter and wetter.

He stubborness ever to say stop and me taking her past her limits.

When its like this we have to most connected, passionate and loving sex and she will come next level hard.

Afternshe has cum she will be glowing and smiling and the trauma of ealier punishment is forgotten

We then laugh about how broken we both our to get so off on it

Wow... she is one lucky lady, this is so what I want and search for. X"

We hope you find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being the dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The being tied or handcuffed and the not knowing what they want to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's the feelings expressed by the other person, the little noises, the movement of the body, the orgasm, they all make for the excitement. The build up play is fun too.

Perfectly put..reading your subs body language and challenging their boundaries..

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Suturing the labia to close off the pussy...... then using flogger

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"The huge variety of ways to play, tease, pleasure etc!

I have to agree with you.

I have enjoyed kink and fetish play for approximately 10 years, & there is so much fun to be had when you combine kink & sex.

Keeps things fresh & exciting as you have so many strings to your bow that no 2 sessions are ever the same!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her cries of pain but how her pussy betrays her by getting wetter and wetter.

He stubborness ever to say stop and me taking her past her limits.

When its like this we have to most connected, passionate and loving sex and she will come next level hard.

Afternshe has cum she will be glowing and smiling and the trauma of ealier punishment is forgotten

We then laugh about how broken we both our to get so off on it"

This is us in a nutshell..

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"The being tied or handcuffed and the not knowing what they want to do x"

Love that. Either as the tied one or the one doing the teasing. A blindfold is a fantastic addition!

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By *ustalookCouple
over a year ago

North west

We are new to exploring BDSM.

Trust is a must, but enjoying the many different aspects and im sure still more for us to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about so much more than sex

Only limited by your imagination

The bond / connection with each other and that exchange of trust.

Its much more than something physical

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites? "

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Submission: It is a rare but wonderful chance to escape from the stresses, strains and responsibility of the real world, for a short while at least. It is such an amazing feeling to have the weight lifted (if only temporarily) from my shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having a lady who trusts you to tie her up and have total control of her

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"The best part of bdsm?

The trust "

Exactly this

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Electrics, needleplay and body stapling

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"The dripping wet pussy

What part of BDSM does this come under?"

Good point, but I suspect the thread hasn't quite gone how the OP was expecting, or hoping, it would somehow but thanks to him for creating what has been an interesting thread.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Love the sense of anticipation you get when say... you're tied to the bed blindfolded or face down and you're not sure what's coming next

That and the outfits everyone wears are just fantastic too

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are. "

I have a lot of respect for Lady Jayne and I have a couple of Jack's Floggers but I have two floggers from each of the following that are a match to anyone's. No links but you can Google.

Daisy's Floggers" or

"Kabunza" (run by Aemillia Hawke who has a good video on flogging) or " Bondatrix".

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By *affa CakesCouple
over a year ago

Tidworth Wiltshire

In need of a trip to the "The House Of Whacks .

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I had two late resolutions as a single guy for the year that I made in last January.

The first was to do the hard miles and visit peer ropes to get my rope up to intermediate status.

The second was to do the hard miles and get back into fetish clubs and visit Xstasia and the Birmingham clubs, Annexe,Twisted, House of Rua and O&I.

Oh and MCM Comic Con. Damn you covid 19 (shakes fist in the sky!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are.

I have a lot of respect for Lady Jayne and I have a couple of Jack's Floggers but I have two floggers from each of the following that are a match to anyone's. No links but you can Google.

Daisy's Floggers" or

"Kabunza" (run by Aemillia Hawke who has a good video on flogging) or " Bondatrix"."

Thanks for this.

Certainly like what's on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are. "

Thanks a million Lady Jayne.

I think we'll find something there.

Your help is much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'D' part!

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By *un KnightsCouple
over a year ago

South West

The exploration of pleasure and new scenes.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Love the sense of anticipation you get when say... you're tied to the bed blindfolded or face down and you're not sure what's coming next

That and the outfits everyone wears are just fantastic too

The outfits add to the fun and anticipation

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Being restrained, blindfolded, unsure as to what will next and doing as I'm told.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are.

Thanks a million Lady Jayne.

I think we'll find something there.

Your help is much appreciated. "

We have several sets of floggers and our go too sets are from Daisys floggers and Kabunza craftworks.

Finger poi floggers are just the best, they avoid wrist and hand injury.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are.

Thanks a million Lady Jayne.

I think we'll find something there.

Your help is much appreciated.

We have several sets of floggers and our go too sets are from Daisys floggers and Kabunza craftworks.

Finger poi floggers are just the best, they avoid wrist and hand injury.

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By *ick-meMan
over a year ago

high peak

"Cock and ball torture oh and tease and deny "

Yes please

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Feeling like I'm not in control

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By *ivinityloveWoman
over a year ago

Bacup

Turn in my mind, play with my soul and enjoy

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Being held in restraints then severely whipped or canned.

Bliss.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Love the sense of anticipation you get when say... you're tied to the bed blindfolded or face down and you're not sure what's coming next

That and the outfits everyone wears are just fantastic too

The outfits add to the fun and anticipation "

So true

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

One of my favourite parts is edging him and watching him writhe round on the bed trying not to come. Yesterday I’d edged him a handful of times, he was really close, and I kept denying him. The last time when he was approaching the edge, I demanded he look me in the eyes and maintain eye contact, totally and utterly tipped him over in to a perfect ruin which he then got to clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh everything from when sir enters the room until he leaves......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, trust, respect.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"We're looking for a new flogger, a good quality one, suede fronds.

Any recommended websites?

Not sure I'll be able to share links but if you Google

1) Jack's floggers

2) whips and sticks Manchester

Two of the best their are.

Thanks a million Lady Jayne.

I think we'll find something there.

Your help is much appreciated.

We have several sets of floggers and our go too sets are from Daisys floggers and Kabunza craftworks.

Finger poi floggers are just the best, they avoid wrist and hand injury.

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look up firehobbit creations or FHcreations custom or premade hitty things to order we have two of his floggers one stingy thick rubber strips very harsh the other soft lambs leather strips very very thuddy both beautifully hand made and sturdy .he is on the popular fetish life style site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best part is the great people you get to meet.

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By *c1745 OP Man
over a year ago

denton

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