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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's often puzzled me, I must admit. I'm not bi so it doesn't affect me, but I dunno I just don't get it. Smacks a little of low-grade homophobia to me.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I agree. I love mmf meets but I find women attractive, men I just like the physical aspect of playing.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Side note: At first glance I thought this post was titled "Bin men"

*facepalm*

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By *appyhuntingwestmanMan
over a year ago

York

I have to agree on that.Male to female fun preferred but a little male on male can be fun in a threesome.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Some women find the thought of men playing with each other (in particular anal) dirty and don't want them anywhere near them...

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

It can pull be trauma related or just the idea of anal is a turn off.

Just never know

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

Yea cost me a few meets not really understood it really but each to their own, not like I'm going to turn up to a meet with another bloke already hanging out my arse haha, if they want bi play all good if not then that's ok

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

While the "logical" conclusion to draw is that a man and a woman meeting for sex doesn't involve his (or even her) bisexuality, there can be any number of valid reasons that a woman might not want to meet a bisexual guy - for one if you've had sex with a bisexual man you can't give blood for 3 months, for some the idea of two men playing (even if not in front of them) isn't a turn on, for others past experience might come into it - so it's not quite as simple as it might seem on the surface.

Yes for some it may be driven by homophobia and bigoted views, which is sad, but another reason.

In my experience here though, the vast majority (of both women and couples) either aren't in the slightest bit bothered or actively look for bi guys.

It's just the fact that *some* people state they won't meet bi men that it stands out more and seems the majority won't.

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

bi mmf is the best sex I have ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biphobia against men by some women seems to be quite common on here. It might explain why there are a lot of married men on this site looking for secret liaisons with guys. I doubt that the issue for these women is that they are all blood donors, it's not a turn on, etc - they seem actively disgusted.

Anyway, it's their loss. My experience is that bi people, women and men, are among the most adventurous and fearless lovers. xxx

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

Need a hug hun?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"While the "logical" conclusion to draw is that a man and a woman meeting for sex doesn't involve his (or even her) bisexuality, there can be any number of valid reasons that a woman might not want to meet a bisexual guy - for one if you've had sex with a bisexual man you can't give blood for 3 months, for some the idea of two men playing (even if not in front of them) isn't a turn on, for others past experience might come into it - so it's not quite as simple as it might seem on the surface.

Yes for some it may be driven by homophobia and bigoted views, which is sad, but another reason.

In my experience here though, the vast majority (of both women and couples) either aren't in the slightest bit bothered or actively look for bi guys.

It's just the fact that *some* people state they won't meet bi men that it stands out more and seems the majority won't."

Thank you. I'm not in any way homophobic, but choose not to meet bi guys.

My reasoning - rational or not - is because I'd feel that I wouldn't be enough for him.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"I have to agree on that.Male to female fun preferred but a little male on male can be fun in a threesome."

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, amazing different attitude to two women playing together, compared to two men. Then wander why bi, gay men, comit suicide much higher rates than straight men, society judging, and self hatred, like that man who murdered all those people at that pulse nightclub in florid a, in 2016,his dad wanted him to prove he wasn't gay, as he had been a few times before. Extreme self hatred

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is irrelevant to me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Though as a side note, regardless of sexuality, people who take it up the bum are generally much more skilled at giving it

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By *cottie77Man
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I guess Bostonjoe needs a snickers.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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"Though as a side note, regardless of sexuality, people who take it up the bum are generally much more skilled at giving it "

Some valid points raised in this thread but this one wins x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

our conclusion is, they think theres lower risk of std's playing with straight than bi.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"our conclusion is, they think theres lower risk of std's playing with straight than bi. "
Does condoms not lower this risk ,either with bi or straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiv, infection demographics are well publicised if you look. Everyone is a potential hiv risk, especially on a swinging site, which alone puts you in a risk group. Some reckless people around don't care about your health or their own. Anal sex is very high risk, especially taking it, but people still do it. Better avoiding it altogether and just hold hands.

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By *llesmereMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

"

Thank you thank you thank you lol it's like you read my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's also plenty of straight bi-curious men. I've known bi-men who just do oral, not anal. I've had threesomes with married couples who both gave oral and never anal, not even when his misses had a strap-on in the wardrobe. I think people have the wrong impression of bi-men entirely since alot of happily married couples are bi as well. According to a survey in the 'Cosmopolitan' 55 percent of gay men admitted they had watched straight porn in the past 6 months and 21 percent of straight men admitted they watched gay porn in the past 6 months. So in theory a large number of straight and gay men could be classed as Bi or Bi-curious. I think many just don't openly admit it because there is a stigma against it e.g. the same as people who like golden showers but don't openly admit it.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"our conclusion is, they think theres lower risk of std's playing with straight than bi. Does condoms not lower this risk ,either with bi or straight ?"

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I read Bostonjoe’s rant expecting it to be a parody, was quite startled to see that much hate and bigotry it alive and well!

I am a bi man and am not:-

Promiscuous

Deviant

Bereft of morals

Those seem to be the main fears I have encountered

My views on gender are that its not a big feature of who someone is, its one attribute among many just like colour or height. For me its no bigger deal than enjoying sweet AND savoury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Got a reply from a woman on here a while back saying she does not meet bi guys because she has a son. Not sure what she meant by that

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

I started writing parody which then became more provocative.

We are lucky to live and grow in a country where we have freedom of choice, regardless of our reasoning. We have to respect that and maybe we don't really need to know why if it upsets us. We can try to dispell myths and fake news, with facts and truths but thankfully we all have choice.

I do not discriminate against straight people, I judge you all by the same criteria. I love to play the pink oboe and straight guys love me doing it. Yes milady, your hubby!

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By *ick111Man
over a year ago

Swindon

It particularly confuses me when it’s bi women who say they won’t entertain the idea of a bi man, it’s like it’s ok for me but not for you.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Bi men on here are being very honest about their sexuality....There’s A LOT of guys with a Straight profile status who are getting plenty of cock, believe me. They might identify as Straight, which is their prerogative...but a woman choosing to meet them because they don’t want to meet bi guys might be in for a bit of a shock, if they knew their history. Several times I’ve been told to switch my profile to “straight” to have more potential meets with women, but I won’t mislead anyone, or indulge bi-phobia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Though as a side note, regardless of sexuality, people who take it up the bum are generally much more skilled at giving it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just not into bi men,why is that so hard to understand

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By *heShyBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

Filthy filthy bisexual men, spreading their germs. And how dare they be attracted to both sexes, that's just called greedy, not bisexual.

But nah, I've never understood it. Bi women who rule out, even shun, bi men has always been one that gets me. In some cases I assume it would all be gravy if the guy was straight, but just put off by the fact that he occasionally likes to suck a cock or take it round the back does baffle me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are lucky to live and grow in a country where we have freedom of choice, regardless of our reasoning. We have to respect that and maybe we don't really need to know why if it upsets us. We can try to dispell myths and fake news, with facts and truths but thankfully we all have choice.

"

This.

People make choices and have preferences. Accept them regardless, challenge opinion whenever possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's each to their own.. right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it's each to their own.. right? "

Absolutely.

If you don't want to meet bi guys then fine, just as we have no interest in meeting straight people of either gender.

We then manage to narrow choice of matches even further by saying we have piercings which also are an I/O switch in themselves but we're not going to change what we are. If that means we only meet a few, then so be it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I'm just not into bi men,why is that so hard to understand "

That isn't an answer to the OP's question though. I'm sure everybody will accept you're not into bi men, but he is asking why. What puts you off about them? If you were with a guy, straight or bi, how does who he has had sex with when he's not with you affect you when you are with him and he's not doing anything bi?

That's not to say you are wrong to have your preferences. I just think it's legitimate to be curious about the reasons.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

bi men are great, you can chat about other men in a fun way

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It particularly confuses me when it’s bi women who say they won’t entertain the idea of a bi man, it’s like it’s ok for me but not for you. "

Why though? It's like comparing apples and oranges - apart from the high level thing of enjoying sex with both men and women they're completely different things.

As a bisexual man I accept that some will prefer not to meet me because of my sexuality and so long as they express that preference without being derogatory I accept that preference I'm the same way as I'd accept any other reason they'd have not to meet me.

As I said further up though the reality, rather than perception, is that it's actually a minority that explicitly state they won't meet bi men, they just stand out more because they state it. The overwhelming majority either aren't bothered by it, or actively seek bi men but because they don't advertise the fact they'll meet us (because there is no need to) it doesn't stand out, and so the false perception is created.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being slightly bi.. I get to enjoy the best of both worlds.. Lucky me!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"It particularly confuses me when it’s bi women who say they won’t entertain the idea of a bi man, it’s like it’s ok for me but not for you.

Why though? It's like comparing apples and oranges - apart from the high level thing of enjoying sex with both men and women they're completely different things.

As a bisexual man I accept that some will prefer not to meet me because of my sexuality and so long as they express that preference without being derogatory I accept that preference I'm the same way as I'd accept any other reason they'd have not to meet me.

As I said further up though the reality, rather than perception, is that it's actually a minority that explicitly state they won't meet bi men, they just stand out more because they state it. The overwhelming majority either aren't bothered by it, or actively seek bi men but because they don't advertise the fact they'll meet us (because there is no need to) it doesn't stand out, and so the false perception is created."

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Well put and would agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone is entitled for their own reasons why the will or wont meet a bi guy. Ive always respected someones position to this is meeting or not.

Ive been lucky enough to meet some fantastic straight and bi couples here but everyone just needs to know their boundaries. Just because a guy is bi doesnt mean he has too or wants too jump on every guy.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s women on here that have a preference not to sleep with bi guys and actually have. As previously stated you don’t get their previous history CV when they turn up for a meet. All you can go on is what is written in a profile and if they have any verifications.

So as a preference it’s a difficult one to Police for those who are actively seeking straight guys.

The very first time I indulged in same sex act, afterwards I thought never again, tried it didn’t get too much from it. So if I’d been on this site I’d class myself ‘straight’ any woman I’d meet wouldn’t know I had a cock in my mouth previously. To me it was an act not something I’d indulge in regularly so I wouldn’t be lying calling myself straight.

As a preference it’s pretty useless on this site

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Bi men on here are being very honest about their sexuality....There’s A LOT of guys with a Straight profile status who are getting plenty of cock, believe me. They might identify as Straight, which is their prerogative...but a woman choosing to meet them because they don’t want to meet bi guys might be in for a bit of a shock, if they knew their history. Several times I’ve been told to switch my profile to “straight” to have more potential meets with women, but I won’t mislead anyone, or indulge bi-phobia. "

So true, I'm the same more bi comfortable than bisexual in that if it happens it happens.

I have lost count of the amount if straight guys messaging me. Not bi or bi curious - straight or is that fab straight. So if they can't be honest with that what else aren't they being honest with???

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By *oleenedinTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It is up to the individual who they meet. I personally cannot see the difference if a woman goes with a man or its man on man. Sex is for enjoyment, fun. I am very bisexual when I am dressed en femme. I love to please I do not do BB safe sex is a must always. When in male mode I only play with women. If her partner is there and he is inside her and I am performing oral on her for her enjoyment. If his cock touches my face, mouth or other parts I will not pull away in horror. I feel we are performing for her pleasure. I am always upfront about being Bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot and will not change how I feel, I enjoy sex with both sexes. Playing either together or separately it doesn’t matter, nothing better than a warm hard penis in my mouth or sucking and kissing a wet vagina, both very gratifying and fun. I am bi, But have never done anal with a guy, giving or receiving. Would not say never and have been close so maybe I will take the next step in my bi life one day. To the women, couples and men who enjoy bi males, keep up the good work xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recall talking with a lady I worked with who had been on the stage and come across gay and bi men. She was completely relaxed about their lifestyles but did not want to be involved with them. Her reasoning in her own words was that "It ( meaning anal sex) is just not hygienic. Some might find that conclusion homophobic, which I don't think she was, and it is a view she was entitled to have.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I recall talking with a lady I worked with who had been on the stage and come across gay and bi men. She was completely relaxed about their lifestyles but did not want to be involved with them. Her reasoning in her own words was that "It ( meaning anal sex) is just not hygienic. Some might find that conclusion homophobic, which I don't think she was, and it is a view she was entitled to have. "

She’s totally entitled to her view, but some straight couples, women or men have anal sex and some gay/bi men don’t. It’s not being part of ‘the club’ to take it up the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just not into bi men,why is that so hard to understand "

Because you can't understand a non-explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexuality covers a wide spectrum and it’s way more nuanced than most straight people realise.

It’s well into the 21st Century, it’s all about having a bit of fun however you wish to play

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By *llesmereMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

"

Couldn't agree more well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you go to the sexual health clinic you are classed as a higher risk if you have sex with bi men. You are offered vaccinations etc that you wouldn’t be if you had sex with straight men only. People have the right to choose to have sex with whoever they want.

I have met bi and bi curious men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't understand it I love watching my man with another guy, but everyone is entitled to their opinion, a lot of people don't understand our dinamics, as we only swing bi never straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to the sexual health clinic you are classed as a higher risk if you have sex with bi men. You are offered vaccinations etc that you wouldn’t be if you had sex with straight men only. People have the right to choose to have sex with whoever they want.

I have met bi and bi curious men "

The point there is that you have a right to have sex (or not) with whoever you want... even if your reason is a stupid one.

Put another way, having the right doesn't mean you're not being stupid.

I mean this as a general comment (not aimed at anyone) because it's the same every time this subject comes up on a thread.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When you go to the sexual health clinic you are classed as a higher risk if you have sex with bi men. You are offered vaccinations etc that you wouldn’t be if you had sex with straight men only. People have the right to choose to have sex with whoever they want.

I have met bi and bi curious men "

Do you mean the Hep B vaccine? I was offered this just for saying I was in a non-monogamous relationship. I've already had it for work though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it obvious? Because it's so much hotter getting them to suck their husbands dick when they are straight! Yum.

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear


"We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

"
been a bi lad I've had many straight guys asking to suck my dick and checked out their verifications by ladies who dont meet bi men so at the end of the day them ladies who dont meet bi men are still getting fucked by in the closet bi men so dont worry about haha

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

"

Yep, utterly barmy outdated prejudices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots. "

Someone got out of bed too early...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some of this biphobia is a historical issue - something to do with "lesbian" sex having been traditionally more acceptable in society than "gay" sex, and gay sex somehow constantly being confused in the culture with anal sex and with paedophilia. A lot of women and men seem to be terrified of the thought of gays full stop.

I think though more women than previously are turned on by the thought of two men having sex though. I'd like to think that younger people these days aren't so homophobic as their parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple. All bi men are liars and hypocrites, rapists and corruptors who are promiscuous and bear little to no regard for sexual health thus creating and spreading filthy diseases like HIV. A bunch of prancing fairies and shirtlifters. Bi men can't get a woman because they don't know how to be a real man and so scuttle about in the gutters of society poking their puny pricks into each other. Each time tearing ever larger chunks from their pithling self esteem away while wishing this disgusting bi man they are bumming was indeed a woman. Any woman. They are desperately unworthy of any attention as are all of life's losers. Pathetic maggots.

Someone got out of bed too early..."

Assuming you mean yourself.

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By *exyusMan
over a year ago

halifax

Corresponded with quite a few couples and females over many years who say won't meet bi guys - unfortunately for them quite a lot of bi guys put straight on their profiles and are in theie meet verifications lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never met a couple where the “straight” guy didn’t end up sucking my cock?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy who prefers sex with women but gets more sex with men. I do accept that some people don't like to meet bi guys for the many different reasons covered in this site. I think every one should accept that who one chooses or rejects as a sex partner is an individuals choice and not make judgements.

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It just makes most of the guys on here lie about their sexuality instead

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

As a couple, we say away from bi guys as do not want a play ruined buy stray hands and we know that only 1 in 20 wood push it too far but We do not meet often and do not want the risk ruining a meet plenty of choice without meeting a bi guy or men that play with tv.

Not set in any sort of prejudiced.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"As a couple, we say away from bi guys as do not want a play ruined buy stray hands and we know that only 1 in 20 wood push it too far but We do not meet often and do not want the risk ruining a meet plenty of choice without meeting a bi guy or men that play with tv.

Not set in any sort of prejudiced.

"

Absolutely respect that and it's of course your prerogative but am genuinely interested - how do you *know* a straight guy won't do something you don't want them to that would ruin that experience, any more than you *know* a bi guy would do that?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"As a couple, we say away from bi guys as do not want a play ruined buy stray hands and we know that only 1 in 20 wood push it too far but We do not meet often and do not want the risk ruining a meet plenty of choice without meeting a bi guy or men that play with tv.

Not set in any sort of prejudiced.

Absolutely respect that and it's of course your prerogative but am genuinely interested - how do you *know* a straight guy won't do something you don't want them to that would ruin that experience, any more than you *know* a bi guy would do that?

"

You do not know just less lightly to happen in our experience.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"As a couple, we say away from bi guys as do not want a play ruined buy stray hands and we know that only 1 in 20 wood push it too far but We do not meet often and do not want the risk ruining a meet plenty of choice without meeting a bi guy or men that play with tv.

Not set in any sort of prejudiced.

Absolutely respect that and it's of course your prerogative but am genuinely interested - how do you *know* a straight guy won't do something you don't want them to that would ruin that experience, any more than you *know* a bi guy would do that?

You do not know just less lightly to happen in our experience.

"

100% of guy how tolled us they are only Curious but play Straight have lied.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

If people don't want to meet them then they don't want to meet them simple as that I don't get why so many people try and convince them they should. People should just accept peoples choices.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If people don't want to meet them then they don't want to meet them simple as that I don't get why so many people try and convince them they should. People should just accept peoples choices. "

Absolutely, and I say that as a bisexual man - if people don't want to meet me, that's all I need to know.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"If people don't want to meet them then they don't want to meet them simple as that I don't get why so many people try and convince them they should. People should just accept peoples choices.

Absolutely, and I say that as a bisexual man - if people don't want to meet me, that's all I need to know."

Think you may be taking this the wrong way we love to meet people and will share a beer glass of wine or coffee with all walk of life but have sex with somebody is very different.

Sure, this is what is implied.

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By *ransistersTV/TS
over a year ago

Dover

Strangely enough so many straight guys come see us married or not, personally don't care about labels as long as everyone is enjoying themselves.

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"We have seen a few times now where

single women have said that they won't meet bi men, whether single or as part of a couple. Each to their own and all, but I dont get it?

Surely if a man and a woman are attracted to each other enough to meet, the fact he also finds other men attractive is irrelevant?

"

Each to their own and sites like this are for people to have fun. I did come across this late last year. I met a couple for a social and both told me they were not interested in even meeting my male friend because he is bi. They said its completely wrong and not going near guys that do anal. The lady later told me how much she enjoys girl on girl fun and also loves taking anal herself and not just from her hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that a lot of 'Bi' or

'curious ' men on here that want to meet couples just use the woman as a buffer because they're too scared to want cock on their own

Also there are many Fab straight men that lie about their sexuality.

I find it rare on here that people are honest about what they want and their sexual history.

How do you know that the 'single,straight' man you just met hasn't just come back from a bareback Bi gangbang?

You don't.

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By *ransistersTV/TS
over a year ago

Dover


"I think that a lot of 'Bi' or

'curious ' men on here that want to meet couples just use the woman as a buffer because they're too scared to want cock on their own

Also there are many Fab straight men that lie about their sexuality.

I find it rare on here that people are honest about what they want and their sexual history.

How do you know that the 'single,straight' man you just met hasn't just come back from a bareback Bi gangbang?

You don't.

"

Exactly.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If people don't want to meet them then they don't want to meet them simple as that I don't get why so many people try and convince them they should. People should just accept peoples choices.

Absolutely, and I say that as a bisexual man - if people don't want to meet me, that's all I need to know.

Think you may be taking this the wrong way we love to meet people and will share a beer glass of wine or coffee with all walk of life but have sex with somebody is very different.

Sure, this is what is implied.

"

Haven't taken anything any way at all - I was responding to a different poster with that post.

As I said I absolutely respect your preference was just genuinely curious about the question I raised to you.

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By *orny-dick-30Man
over a year ago

City Center

I love meet bi couple

End play with both

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

A preference is a preference.....

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