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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men want to get laid more desparately than women.

And care less about cheating in general.

Not true in all cases but in enough of them.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing "

It’s not ok for anybody who’s cheating no matter what the gender. If a cheating women approached me it’s a definite no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We view them both as equals.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

And if you look to your left you’ll see this topic again for the fourteenth time this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its fine for both genders to be playing away as many don't mind and will meet them, and those who do mind will just move on without casting stones. Fab is an inclusive society, and the things we don't like we can just ignore and spend our time finding the things we do like.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing

It’s not ok for anybody who’s cheating no matter what the gender. If a cheating women approached me it’s a definite no."

That's as maybe. But I've come to the same conclusion as the op. That it is tolerated / accepted more for the Mrs to be doing it than the Mr. Perception being reality and all that.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"And if you look to your left you’ll see this topic again for the fourteenth time this week "

Such an easy target I guess?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Because men want to get laid more desparately than women.

And care less about cheating in general.

Not true in all cases but in enough of them."

This

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I only meet men, but wouldn't meet anyone playing away if I did meet women.

I think men get more grief as its mostly men who start threats about it, women seem to just get on with it. Just my observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will come on here in the daytime on my own but that's it. Everything else it's the 2 of us.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"And if you look to your left you’ll see this topic again for the fourteenth time this week "

Have opinions changed?

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

its the same for both in my book. If someone lies to their partner then they would have no qualms about lying to me to get their and away and that would include getting tested.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing "

It’s as you say, it seems to be something that you perceive.

Seem and is, can be miles apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another married thread. Just what weve been missing lol

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "

Well what a great way to talk about women. “A cunt is a cunt”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.

Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Meh, it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "

This is better than the usual married threads

'Cunt is cunt' ...and there is me actually wanting to talk to a woman.

Some straight guys go for man arse'......surely they're not straight....then?

This is great

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By *ouno2muchMan
over a year ago

Disneyland


"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.

Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "

Although I disagree with your generalised statement. Perhaps it’s a choice to meet, and not out of being desperate?

Whether you agree or don’t with the action of members or how you view those specific members, that may be your own view, doesn’t give room for judgment or calling out men being desperate or chase after anyone showing the slightest attention. It’s a choice to meet someone that aligns with your preference: single or married, slim or fabulous, straight or bisexual.

I’m delighted for you, as a member, you have a lot of attention and variety to choose from to meet your needs - good for you. Please don’t use generalised statements or gender specific statements (married men come with restrictions. Women don’t?). Perhaps sharing your view is enough without generalising, labeling or judging others

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

To us if someone can betray their partner's, and their children's trust (if they have them), then we wouldn't want anything to do with them, regardless of gender.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.

Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt care less who is married on here or not.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I think - generally speaking - it's because men are less picky. If a single guy isn't getting much attention and the one person who shows interest happens to be married and cheating... I think a large number of them wouldn't care.

Whereas, as a woman, if I have 10 guys wanting to meet me, I'm probably not going to chose the married one because married guys typically come with a lot of restrictions and it's just a pain in the backside. "

This sounds about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women are a huge shortage here guys are philosophical and cunt is cunt hell some straight guys even go for man arse even if they are straight so a married woman is like great. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dose it seem to be ok for married women to be on here with out her husbands knowing but not for a guy to be doing the same thing "

I don't think it's okay for either to be on here ,but that's just my opinion

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh this old chestnut.

Could it be that most men don't care, and the woman is philosophical and just gets down to it, but married men somehow appear entitled and upset they're not balls deep?

Married women never start "I can't get a fuck because I'm married" threads.

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan
over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

As a married man who plays with the knowledge of my wife and she does too (stopped due to covid), we often talk about it as she wants me to have fun as much as she does. I have always put it down to numbers, there are 10-20× as many men here then women. This allows women to be more selective than men so therefore women will use the fact a man is married as a filter.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"To us if someone can betray their partner's, and their children's trust (if they have them), then we wouldn't want anything to do with them, regardless of gender. "

Totally agree .

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