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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see lots of profiles stating no married/attached men but if someone messages stating their single what do you look for to tell their genuine or what are the warning signs that they're lying.

Phone calls,ability to accomodate etc etc

And have you been duped and how did you find out.

And i am genuinely single can do phone calls and accomodate so this isnt a married guy looking for tips on how to get round those profiles that only meet singles lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I thought for a minute I would be printing my council tax bill to show single person discount

I think it's a variety of things and often listening to instinct though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be bored to start this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really single

as if no one could tell

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

If you chat for a while before meeting you can always tell suggest a public social for example in their hometown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its nice to just assume someone is honest. Unfortunately this is Fab.

Luckily I dont care if the men I meet are single or not.

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London


"Sometimes its nice to just assume someone is honest. Unfortunately this is Fab.

Luckily I dont care if the men I meet are single or not."

It wouldn't be an issue for me, but attached guys present so many complications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet attached people who don't have partners who consent, if you tell me I'm married but my wife knows then I want proof she's okay with it or you tell me your single I just assume your being honest.... if your not and you get caught out by your wife it's all on you where as if I know your not single and just don't care that your cheating then that's on both of us if it wrecks your relationship and I don't want that kind of responsibility put on me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately you just have to take them at their word - there are many who are up front about it (men and women) but probably just as many (again men and women) who aren't - you have no way of knowing for 100% sure apart from if they tell you they're not single.

There are of course "signs" along the lines you suggest OP, but even they aren't foolproof e.g. someone says they cannot accommodate doesn't mean for sure they're not single - they could be in a house share, or have kids at home, or any number of other valid reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look for signs for starters. A woman’s touch with decor in the background, wedding ring (yes, caught someone out with that )

Unwilling to chat on the phone or at odd times, wanting day time meets only.

They are some of the signs I look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think after chatting for a few days you can work it out with gut instinct, it's normally one or two little things that set the alarm bells ringing at which point we bow out.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

We always look at weather they can accommodate or not, we have had a fair few married men msg us, and even sometimes put can accommodate in their profile, however they always trip up in msgs and then we can tell and ask, and 9/10 when we ask then they say yes I'm married...little things like not being able to meet at night, or saying they will need to have a look at their diary etc...it's rife on here and we are getting sick of it, and then we have to wait weeks before they can find a plausible excuse to leave the house, that another tell tail sign.

We got to ally fed up of being just a free sex service for these men...we are in it to swing, not just here so they can empty their balls.

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By *efinetly_darcyMan
over a year ago

Northwest

I am single have been in relationships with a few people over the years since divorce, yet I can't accommodate due to the fact my daughter lives with me.

On the other side of the coin, when I could accommodate, I entertained a nice "single" lady at mine. It was only when her husband and 2 freinds turned up to discuss her married status.

Single plays both ways.

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