FabSwingers.com forum: why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do men and women stay with a partner who wont have sex. Am not meaning if they cant for a medical condition,am meaning they have lost intrest and cant be chewed? And yet men and woman who enjoy a healthy sex life remain single.But why?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Because they love them or they're comfortable and don't want to rock the boat or they can't afford to leave or other reasons

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Because they love them or they're comfortable and don't want to rock the boat or they can't afford to leave or other reasons "

Maybe there is more to life than sex for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has been or was ASEXUAL for twenty years of our so far twenty three years together and I choose to stay with her because I love her and I choose to look after her the best I can.

Now my wife is no longer ASEXUAL and is enjoying her life to the max and helping me to live my best life.

So in short love is my answer to you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Because they love them or they're comfortable and don't want to rock the boat or they can't afford to leave or other reasons

Maybe there is more to life than sex for them?"

Who'd have thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the Beatles sang Love love love

But the real truth is it’s bloody expensive to get a divorce

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By *eachAndyMan
over a year ago

Studland

"Do men and women stay with a partner who wont have sex. Am not meaning if they cant for a medical condition,am meaning they have lost intrest and cant be chewed? And yet men and woman who enjoy a healthy sex life remain single.But why?"

Love is the reason.

Sometimes it's worth sticking by someone who is going through a bad time in their life and helping them out the other side.

Over for us now (her decision) but she's come out the other side and is happy, sometimes that's all you can ask for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the Beatles sang Love love love

But the real truth is it’s bloody expensive to get a divorce "

There are lots of reasons, but for many people they fear change. As noted, divorce can be expensive and, in some cases, not practical. It can't be easy to start again in later life especially.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually thought there must be something wrong with me. Maybe hideous or undesirable. I stayed for years with no kissing or hugs and in bed he would not attempt to touch me. Half the time he stayed up very late and only came bed when i was sleeping. It is so easy to get stuck in a rut

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

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Kids, lifestyle, love. The fact that almost very other part of the relationship is good!

Really when you think About it it’s crazy expecting one person to meet all your needs all of the time. We don’t buy every time of clothing from the same shop or brand or shop do we ?

People have wavering and complex needs and the other person can’t always meet them. Personally I think the polyamorous clique have it nailed.

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