FabSwingers.com forum: Toys - how big is too big?

By *evilandTheBeast OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

We watched the documentary on Friday about Liberty Elite (yes, we are a bit late to the party). Devil fully sympathises with the lady that was crying in the club, as she had similar thoughts herself in many situations, especially that we're not very good at approaching people. However, something else really got us thinking- the size of toys that couple were using. Devil believes the fact that they took that giant dildo out of the bag in front of others was at least partly to blame they didn't have much luck with others in the club. As in Devil's opinion, if the lady could take such a thick toy (and a wine bottle, apparently), then maybe some of the men they were chatting to felt they couldn't match the girth/felt unsuitable for her? We do like to use toys in the bedroom but mainly just wand or other clit stimulators, and Devil can't even think of taking anything too big. But maybe, if a lady gave birth naturally, she is more stretched and can enjoy thicker toys?

The question is, if you were in a swingers' club or at a party and you saw a couple playing with big toys, would it put you off or would it be a turn on?

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Would be a turn on for me. Have always loved toy fun especially anal

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By *evilandTheBeast OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

For us, it would probably be a turn off. Especially if it happened in the way it was shown in the documentary, when we'd be chatting with a couple and they, all of a sudden, took such a monster toy out. Would definitely make us nervous.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

I’d find it a turn on watching them. Massive toys takes years of practice. Why be nervous watching.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I think the biggest problem they had is the lack of confidence. There was an air of 'frightened' about them which eventually showed when she let her negativity appeared in the big play room.

I think they expected too much out of that visit, especially as it was their first time and a more relaxed and watchful approach may have been seen as more attractive to the others.

The lack of play for them was nothing to do with her perceived lack of attractiveness.

I really hope she has been able to put that behind her now and is looking forward to big adventures at the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the biggest problem they had is the lack of confidence. There was an air of 'frightened' about them which eventually showed when she let her negativity appeared in the big play room.

I think they expected too much out of that visit, especially as it was their first time and a more relaxed and watchful approach may have been seen as more attractive to the others.

The lack of play for them was nothing to do with her perceived lack of attractiveness.

I really hope she has been able to put that behind her now and is looking forward to big adventures at the club."

Totally agree, was the lack of self confidence, shyness and nervousness that were the bigger issues.

I also agree about expecting too much, our first visit to a club ended up in play but wd still never go to a club with any expectations and often don't play but still have a damn good time socialising. High expectations can end in disappointment, no expectations often end up with a bonus

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

i think big toys would be a turn of for us especially when its whiped out the bag as a suprise to everyone on the first meet ive had my fist in a woman half way up my fore arm but it was a gradual process

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