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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe...

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

Would love to reverse this so I can see hubby with some woman when I come home from work or to be at work and have pics and videos sent me, sadly thought it’s like trying to find a unicorn with hens teeth.x

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

When we have a ffm I love watching the hubby with someone else. Never had a meet yet where it was just her and the hubby that I could just watch. Each meet the hubby has had with another woman has either been them alone and she is not comfortable being watched or it has been all three of us. I think finding a female for this scenario is like finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I just like to borrow a hot husband for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like to borrow a hot husband for the night "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps more photos of the husbands would help you achieve this?

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are into a version of this.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We know a couple like this, and I sent the wife two pics of her guy with Char last year. We've met socially since and can't wait to do more with them. Like the idea of me and her watching while Char and he have fun.

Bry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think we fit the traditional hot wife or hot husband profile but we do play separately as well as together.

It's more to do with having an attraction or click for another and not necessarily having 2 couples both liking the opposite partners.

What we can say though is we both like knowing that the other has had fun and enjoyed themself.

Both of us have been to clubs without the other and have had overnight hotel meets, etc. It's always been nice to say 'how was it?' when we return home and get a response like 'it was really good, had lots of fun'.

We've had times in clubs when we've intended to play with another couple or a single but one of us hasn't 'felt it' so instead of 'taking one for the team' has bowed out and left the other partner have fun.

It's not a kink, preferance or planned intention, it's just whatever works for us in any specific situation.

X

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I have a sub that I play with occasionally.

The Mrs has joined in as an additional top for play, but otherwise she is either at home or where we are in an airBnB in another room keeping herself entertained.

I accept this is a little different to what others may be after.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Yes we indeed. Love all the variants of solo play, watching, next door. Especially if it involves other couples (just adds to all the combinations possible)

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’d love to make a wife jealous

Certainly love to fuck him and send videos and pictures leading in to having her restrained on a chair and make her watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fortunate enough to have enjoyed this scenario both at clubs and through private meets with my ex as with hotwives the reclaim sex is amazing when discussing it after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This scenario sounds absolutely fu**ing amazing! I am getting really turned on just thinking about this. Like every guy in the world.. I would LOVE to be involved in a scenario like this. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been restrained while he fucks others in front of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been restrained while he fucks others in front of me "

^^^^^What a girl!^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo we love this post. It’s about time the hubby’s got a shout out don’t get me wrong I love being centre of attention but yes would happily want this to happen too!

The ffm we had was definitely fun

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

I love my hubby meeting another lady on his own and sending me pictures and videos of what’s going on

I find it a huge turn on knowing another lady is enjoying him

And the sex when he gets home and tells me all about it is amazing

Minnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been looking for this for a while but no luck. We're really like to find a hot wife couple so her man and my gf could watch out let us out for the odd date night together. As previous posters have said though it seems almost impossible

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath


"We have been looking for this for a while but no luck. We're really like to find a hot wife couple so her man and my gf could watch out let us out for the odd date night together. As previous posters have said though it seems almost impossible"

It’s certainly difficult but not impossible

Hubby has met a few ladies, one lasted about a year which was great fun, would love something like that again for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we set up this profile. Have done this a few times and my wife loves me sending her pics while she is at work, big turn on. She even loans me out to one of her friends, they message each other making arrangements and then she sends me round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference' 

Great to see there are others into this too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference' 

Great to see there are others into this too!"

Would love to try this. Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!!

One of my fantasies though would be finding a Hotwife or single lady to join us so I could watch them together (and maybe join in later when it all gets too hot to stay on the sidelines!) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like to borrow a hot husband for the night "

We like to share so loaning out hubby to females and couples and also them coming to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the horniest situation we've had of this scenario was when C told me that she'd just been asked if I'd arrange and take part in a DP for another lady.

Of course I had to carefully consider it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

This is something we have talked about. Hannah has a fantasy of watching me (Luke) with another woman.

We have posted about it before as have others. You can fund quite a few reveling posts by searching for quean and cuckcake.

It strikes me the finding a woman to join us combines the difficulties of finding a woman for a single man, and a woman who wants to join a couple, so definitely quite a minority. Having said that, in our travels we have had approaches from interested ladies and we know ladies who may possibly be interested but we haven't had a conversation about it with. I reckon it could happen for us if we put our minds to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps more photos of the husbands would help you achieve this? "

Will have to get him to take some!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Perhaps more photos of the husbands would help you achieve this? "

This exactly!

Couples profile are almost invariably short of pics of the male. More often than not you see the woman with multiple guys and are left wondering which one might be her partner.

They then have multiple statuses/threads bemoaning the fact that they can’t attract single fems to their profile. It really does make me put my head in my hands tbh.

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By *klondon1Man
over a year ago

London


"I have been restrained while he fucks others in front of me "

The exact scenario with me and an ex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doughnut is a hothusband! I find it an incredible turn on, I love watching him get ready, I generally choose his outfit for him as I know what turns me on, I love smelling him when he comes home and kissing him hard, tasting the other woman.

Bloody hate lockdown ruining all our fun!

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doughnut is a hothusband! I find it an incredible turn on, I love watching him get ready, I generally choose his outfit for him as I know what turns me on, I love smelling him when he comes home and kissing him hard, tasting the other woman.

Bloody hate lockdown ruining all our fun!

Danish x"

Agreed, an end to lockdown can't come quick enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hothusband here my wife loves knowing im meeting other couples and women as much h as I like her doing the same..she even arranges them for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!! "

This is something we're talking about trying...threesome or a bigger group and him sending me pics and vids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did this once. I was tied and blindfolded while they fucked on the bed next to me. Occasionally I'd have a finger inserted or a nipple played with.. Would definitely do it again.. Massive massive turn on

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We have discussed this a few times and it would be incredibly sexy and erotic to loan him out for the night, though I would want him back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did this once. I was tied and blindfolded while they fucked on the bed next to me. Occasionally I'd have a finger inserted or a nipple played with.. Would definitely do it again.. Massive massive turn on "

Now that is an insanely hot scenario!

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario? "

Yes this is a massive turn on for me! I love the idea of being gagged & bound to a chair and made to watch another woman have her way with my man. Especially if she deliberately made eye contact with me while she was doing it. So hot !!!

A big hands up from me if anyone is interested

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"I have been restrained while he fucks others in front of me "

Hot!!

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

Kind of like what we are experimenting with here although I think I need to get hotter to make the most of it ha ha

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's something we do but not to the extent that he go's out alone to meets, I adore watching him with other women its unbelievably hot but when we do it it's kind of on a meet for all of us... We've not done it where its just my hub & the other having sex, I've always just left them to it and watched for a while maybe one day I'll be able to resist and just watch them from start to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this!

I love watching another woman take what is mine

We do same room, where i sit and watch, but also love it when Im not there, or leave them alone and walk in much later.

I love another woman telling me they are making my man cum! And that he is enjoying her more...

I like them punishing me by making me sit there and watch them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can feel DRST getting ready to post about cuckqueens....lol

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have been restrained while he fucks others in front of me "

We love this too, an insanely hot way to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did this once. I was tied and blindfolded while they fucked on the bed next to me. Occasionally I'd have a finger inserted or a nipple played with.. Would definitely do it again.. Massive massive turn on

Now that is an insanely hot scenario! "
it worked for us.. Would love to try it again with an Asian lady.. With me being sorted out at the end.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Love watching him fuck another woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are still looking for a couple or woman to explore this with if anyone is interested, either meeting for a social or possibly online play

Not looking for someone just to fulfil our kink but something with mutual input and hopefully a friendship aswell

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

So hard to find playmates for the male half though. When we play seperately there's so many offers for her but not so for him. Even when we've set up solo profiles it doesn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hard to find playmates for the male half though. When we play seperately there's so many offers for her but not so for him. Even when we've set up solo profiles it doesn't work out. "

It is, but we are not looking to find someone *just* for him, I will be there too and very much involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Borrow me ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone here into the Hothusband kink? Same as the man with a Hotwife, I like the idea of him making me jealous and watching him with another woman, using me in a service role, or just blindfolding me and making me frustrated only able to listen... I know we are looking for someone even rarer than a unicorn, but surely there are some women that enjoy being the 3rd in that scenario? "

You’re not alone

we like hot husband scenario as much as hot wife unfortunately it’s not as easy to achieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your husband answers the call of the Hotwife then you could treat that situation and call it the hothusband. Whilst he is with her and sending pics to her fella then he could also be send the pics to you so your are teased and then when he gets back he can wisher everything in your ear as you take his pants down and lick the juices from the hot wife off his cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your husband answers the call of the Hotwife then you could treat that situation and call it the hothusband. Whilst he is with her and sending pics to her fella then he could also be send the pics to you so your are teased and then when he gets back he can wisher everything in your ear as you take his pants down and lick the juices from the hot wife off his cock."

He won't be meeting anyone on his own, its something we do together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Borrow me ladies"

I'm think you might be confused about what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are . Love the idea of hubby going on a simple date and anything after that is a big turn on ! Also jealous provoking lol

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP

I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP

I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are . Love the idea of hubby going on a simple date and anything after that is a big turn on ! Also jealous provoking lol "

Yesterday ,I went on a coffee meet with one of our Fab lady friend and Mrs was jealous but in a good way

Its just normal to be jealous as it shows you love your partner a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP

I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming "

Not really, there are plenty of people who have a cuckquean dynamic where their partner goes off and does something on his own, so why can't there be a hothusband scenario where the wife is involved? He isn't cucking me, I just get turned on watching etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely love the idea of playing the cuckcake role. It wasn’t a dynamic that I even appreciated as being that big a thing until recently and thought that there wouldn’t be a demand for a cake.

For me it would only work if all three of us were present and I definitely don’t like the idea of there being any kind of humiliation brought into the equation

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Yours sounds more like a cockqueen scenerio instead of hothusband OP

I’m into hot-husbands but he usually taken away from the wife for separate pleasure and go back for re-claiming

Not really, there are plenty of people who have a cuckquean dynamic where their partner goes off and does something on his own, so why can't there be a hothusband scenario where the wife is involved? He isn't cucking me, I just get turned on watching etc"

Guessing you want to get jealous and get frustrated by your partner‘s play confused me! my bad ... not my type of thread then as wives gets involved differently in the scenarios I go for!

Good luck on your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.

I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.

When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.

Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.

I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.

I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.

When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.

Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.

I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.

Her x

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The back seat of the car thing is something we have talked about ourselves and sounds really hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, that scenario sounds amazing !

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play with a single female as a couple and Mr plays solo with her. We have a fantastic trusting friendship with her.

I thoroughly enjoyed a play date where I stayed downstairs and Mr went up to her bedroom with her. I listened from the stairway, sat down masterbating on the stairs as I listened to them having sex until I came and then went to join them both.

When they have solo played i stayed at home and had video, pics and audio of them enjoying each other. The audio was my absolute favourite as my imagination was going wild with desire as i listened to them.

Last week they video called each other and had a sexy mutual masterbation as I lay next to Mr listening and not touching myself. After the delicious call he got on top and we enjoyed each other.

I want (when it's safe to meet) to pick her up in our car and for them both to sit in the back seat having fun as I drive them. I will hear the sounds which is my favourite aspect and then slight glances in the mirror until I stop the car to watch them have sex.

Her x

The back seat of the car thing is something we have talked about ourselves and sounds really hot!"

She and I have played that very scenario together as Mr drove us and it was very sexy indeed. Now I want to experience from the other side.

Her x

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

inverurie


"Wasn't expecting so many replies! For me I'm definitely not wanting him to meet someone alone, also dont think I would want the other woman trying to make me jealous in any way, unless I really really trusted her. It would be more of a "threesome with a difference' 

Great to see there are others into this too!

Would love to try this. Done it where we’ve been joined by a husband and sent his wife pictures - and that was really hot!!

One of my fantasies though would be finding a Hotwife or single lady to join us so I could watch them together (and maybe join in later when it all gets too hot to stay on the sidelines!) xx"

We’d love something like this too.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Not done this yet but certainly something we want to get into.

I am more than happy for hubby to meet other women on his own as long as I get some pics back while he’s playing........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

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It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy"

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy."

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having"

Chill not everyone judges and if some do fuck them great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me I love hot husbands

No wife though. I want your man to myself In that scenarios, it’s the Difference between hot husband and couple play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having"

Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having

Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play. "

Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it

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over a year ago

A kink is the headspace and not the action.

As in this case the kink is Hothusband play rather than cuckquean play it is about enjoying seeing my partner with other women, not being cucked. For us therefore it makes sense to us to want to be there in person to enjoying it.

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over a year ago


"A kink is the headspace and not the action.

As in this case the kink is Hothusband play rather than cuckquean play it is about enjoying seeing my partner with other women, not being cucked. For us therefore it makes sense to us to want to be there in person to enjoying it."

It would be more fun to swap both ways.

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over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having

Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play.

Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it "

I’m not it’s the definition: hot husbands is hot wives; the very nature of it is you ‘loan’ your partner out. Otherwise it’s a threesome / couple meet

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over a year ago


"This sounds so much like the male fantasy to me !

It was brought up initially by me (Cassie) and although he is obviously into the idea it is 100% my fantasy

Yes, just because it’s uncommon here doesn’t mean it’s not something women are free to fantasise and enjoy.

Thanks for the support. Its so frustrating whenever its brought up on here or other sites there is always lots of comments saying its obviously the guy posting

It took a lot to even bring it up to him so its annoying that even on supposedly open minded sites people act like its not a fantasy a woman is capable of having

Can I add that the difficulty is not enough photos of the man and if it’s hot husband then it wouldn’t involve you either. I’ve had couples contact for hot husband and try to change it to couple play.

Again - its up to the people involved how they enjoy their kinks. You can't dictate what it would and wouldn't involve just because thats how *you* do it

I’m not it’s the definition: hot husbands is hot wives; the very nature of it is you ‘loan’ your partner out. Otherwise it’s a threesome / couple meet "

Googling hotwife, the 1st result is "A wife who has sexual relations with people other than her husband. Often, the husband will encourage and even watch the acts. A practice among married couples in which the wife is open to seek sex partners, often to the satisfaction of the husband"

The definition is the husband encouraging and often watching, there is no requirement for anyone to be "loaned" out

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over a year ago

I’d like someone to take my Mr for the night and send me videos during the session. Hotter then better! Whilst I sit at home with a foot bath and face pack

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

We have played as hot husband solo play. It was amazing! My wife suggested it and was turned on by it.

The reclaim was fantastic!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford


"I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality "

Shame we are not closer would love to load hubby out

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over a year ago


"I personally like a loaned husband rather than threesome but that scenario is incredibly difficult to find as wives are naturally possessive of their husbands. But I hear alot of men enjoying the fact their wife is out with another guy. Shame about this inequality "

How on earth is it inequality?

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