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By *ourPlay2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Evesham

Do many couples arrange meets during the daytime?

We have school age children who are too young to be left for long periods, and we also work odd hours. This means we are frequently free during the day in midweek, specifically Tuesday when we are both off and at a loose end that we’re looking to fill!

Unfortunately, despite having made many friends, and having many conversations on here, our schedule has proven to be a stumbling block. It seems the majority of people meet in the evening or at weekends, which is understandable because that’s the way the world works for most people.

When we suggest meeting weekday lunchtimes, on some occasions we’ve had quite rude responses, along the lines of “actually, we both work for a living,” which I assume is suggesting that we don’t! We do, but not everyone works a 9-5.

On the rare occasion when we have managed to arrange something on a Tuesday it’s been great! There’s something deliciously naughty about getting up to stuff on a weekday lunchtime when everyone else is at work!

Any others in the same boat? We’d be interested to hear if you’ve had much success arranging meets.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We the same we have found its quite easy meeting men daytimes but couples near impossible

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By *erkshire BenMan
over a year ago

Reading

Hello I have the same issues. I work long hours but have time in the week and day times to meet. interested in couples and singles. Would really love to explore. Drop me a message love to chr even if you don’t meet singles.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

This is something I have done in the past, had daytime meets with both couples and single ladies, usually because of work patterns or school age children. It works for me, with notice because being self employed I can shuffle work around or just work later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We the same we have found its quite easy meeting men daytimes but couples near impossible "

Same for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had many daytime meets both as a couple and singly . As you say there’s something a bit different about them and also it adds to easing the logistics of meeting very often, as many folks find evening meets difficult.

We are now in the lucky Situation of having the place to ourselves and both available most of the time.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I'm self employed, Mr is " working from home". So as long as we put in the hours we can be flexi with hours we can meet, and do.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I prefer daytime meets too once I have got to known the person/couple but I find socials easier in the evening as it’s more relaxing.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Day time meets in a day use hotel are my favourites.

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK

They are a fab x

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Couldn't agree more - I have a couple of youngsters and as a single parent it's tough to say the least ... weekdays can be a great idea when they work and diaries allow!

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By *andymanpaulMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Daytime is by far easiest for me. Joys of being self employed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytime is easiest for us to fit around work and family. We often have a lovely hotel in London for the day. X

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

My arrangement with my wife allows me to play during the day but evenings are family time. Arranging meets with couples during the day however are probably more difficult than evenings as it requires the couple to have the same work pattern. As 9 to 5 Monday to Friday is still the most common work shifts evenings and weekend will always be the most likely free time for couples.

About six years ago I got so frustrated with the lack of daytime opportunities I started my own daytime parties every Monday 11am to 3pm and they became very popular confirming there were lots of folks in a similar situation.

Covid-19 has stopped all parties and group meetings but maybe when things get closer to normal one (very small) silver lining will be that more people will be able to play during the day with a work at home option giving opportunities for getting away for a couple of hours of play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for a lot of people, it depends on school term etc. Personally, I prefer long unhurried meets whether they are day or evenings x

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Agreed! Sometimes my work means that I'm free during the day but it can be difficult for others to get free for a couple of hours on a weekday as well. I would never do a hurried lunchtime meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love daytime meets and prefer to evenings, daytime club events are awesome too. Can be a little bit more difficult to arrange though as you need to find a way that you're all available which tends to be difficult because of work.

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Same here, we can only do daytimes and can be tricky.

Have even resorted to the daytime dogging scene when meets are hard to come by

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"We the same we have found its quite easy meeting men daytimes but couples near impossible "
. Asking the wrong couples then ????

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

We’ve had some great daytime meets. Always looking for more.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Daytime is by far easiest for me. Joys of being self employed!"

Same here mate, and works perfect for those bored housewives out there

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a daytime meet. A nice hotel for the day. Lots of good sex and a relaxed fun time. What’s not to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are trying to form a group of likeminded couples to meet during the day--possibly start once a month get together in London. Tuesdays is a good day.

If you want to join this "club" please drop us a line and we can coordinate things. Likely venue will be central London hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working away from home so when on leave daytime meets can be just as good as evening meets

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

I’d love to get a daytime invite from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same... can only meet daytimes in the week and we find it can be difficult to meet couples.

There is something deliciously naughty about daytime fun though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer daytimes plainly down to the work I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many couples arrange meets during the daytime?

We have school age children who are too young to be left for long periods, and we also work odd hours. This means we are frequently free during the day in midweek, specifically Tuesday when we are both off and at a loose end that we’re looking to fill!

Unfortunately, despite having made many friends, and having many conversations on here, our schedule has proven to be a stumbling block. It seems the majority of people meet in the evening or at weekends, which is understandable because that’s the way the world works for most people.

When we suggest meeting weekday lunchtimes, on some occasions we’ve had quite rude responses, along the lines of “actually, we both work for a living,” which I assume is suggesting that we don’t! We do, but not everyone works a 9-5.

On the rare occasion when we have managed to arrange something on a Tuesday it’s been great! There’s something deliciously naughty about getting up to stuff on a weekday lunchtime when everyone else is at work!

Any others in the same boat? We’d be interested to hear if you’ve had much success arranging meets.

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yes daytimes are good for us also but only days we off together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day time meets o yes please. I am self employed and can meet with little notice.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think it will become more common post covid as more people will be working from home

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I work a rotating shift pattern, so I can do daytime and evening meets depending on where in my shifts I am... some of the most fun have been in the day

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Hiya is the club for couples only or can single blokes join too?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs


"We are the same... can only meet daytimes in the week and we find it can be difficult to meet couples.

There is something deliciously naughty about daytime fun though! "

I guess that's why it's called 'afternoon delight' LOL

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By *ndrew999Man
over a year ago

Cumbria area

I work as a firefighter so daytime meets are great for me

Love to turn up in my uniform still smokey and dirty first thing in the morning for some hot fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytime meets are more exciting... Especially when you get back to work with a smile on your face!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day time meets are good for us as we are both working from home and we have not child care at the mo due to shielding grandparents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can do daytimes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be changing my shift pattern hopefully soon, will be interested in day time meets then. I'd have expected most people to be at work though?

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Self employed, working from home, live alone, can travel.

(Just sayin’ )

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By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

Daytimes are best for me. Love going dogging

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By *_nwMan
over a year ago

northwest

Daytimes are fun ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working from home.... So good for me too x

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Yep we like weekday daytimes in a decent day use hotel, but not until it’s safe again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been struggling quite a lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too always canaccomodate too

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Daytimes can be a lot of fun, when all ok to do so any couples or ladies interested pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytimes are best for me , if anyone’s interested in meeting ?

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Yeah daytimes are so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work shifts usually including most weekends I meet during the week on a day off can be a pain but does work for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weekday daytimes are usually best for me due to work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love mid-afternoon meets in a nice hotel. When the evening comes, and we're on our own, we usually grab a shower and head out for dinner. No surprise, the conversation is mostly about our dirty afternoon. By the time we're back in our room we might just have enough energy left to enjoy one another before falling into a deep sleep. Works for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love mid-afternoon meets in a nice hotel. When the evening comes, and we're on our own, we usually grab a shower and head out for dinner. No surprise, the conversation is mostly about our dirty afternoon. By the time we're back in our room we might just have enough energy left to enjoy one another before falling into a deep sleep. Works for us!"

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer daytime meets due to my situation at home

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I used to work nights and 'play' during the day - most of my playmates were wives playing 'solo', both with and without their husbands knowledge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being a mobile mechanic day time meets are better. i think you have more energy during the day

so any ladies want a daytime meet let me know

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

As a shift Worker I arranged my Coffee Morning parties around my shift days off. Quite a few Mums etc were able to fit it in around school run etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good daytime meet. Off work all week and looking to get up to mischief.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Always looking for nice people for daytime meets

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Daytimes can work better for some people, not everyone is free every evenings.

Plus you get that added feeling of I should be at work but I'd much rather be doing this

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By *illiamabc100Man
over a year ago

chester

I work permanent nightshifts and the shift pattern includes weekends. Therfore i only do weekday daytime meets. I find it difficult to find cuckold couples to meet as normally one or both work throughout the day. I have met a couple of times with couples who work from home. But couples with children normally have the hubby at wotk during the day.i keep on looking regardless

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I work permanent nightshifts and the shift pattern includes weekends. Therfore i only do weekday daytime meets. I find it difficult to find cuckold couples to meet as normally one or both work throughout the day. I have met a couple of times with couples who work from home. But couples with children normally have the hubby at wotk during the day.i keep on looking regardless"

I was lucky in finding a couple where the husband arranged for me to visit his wife on weekday afternoons while he was at work...

....their 'thing' was for him to be at his desk in the office, knowing I was with her in their marital bed...

....I visited her on-and-off for three years - he loved getting home to find her waiting for him 'freshly-filled'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we seek daytime meets in london Ideally like to form group of like-minded couples.

Ping us if interested?

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

We both often work weekends but get a couple of days off in the week.

With kids out at work, we have an empty house daytime, but do find it hard to meet other couples who prefer daytime meetings.

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By *oveLife2Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"we seek daytime meets in london Ideally like to form group of like-minded couples.

Ping us if interested?"

What a brilliant idea, for the South West too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Retired with free time... anytime

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By *ady C and Mr TCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

We prefer day meets as we aren't really night-time people. We want to go to a club after covid but we're already wondering how we can stay up late lols!

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We can only meet during the day, can't accommodate but always willing to travel within reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer day meets as we aren't really night-time people. We want to go to a club after covid but we're already wondering how we can stay up late lols!"

A lot of the clubs have a daytime session, my favourite was MILF club at the VA on a Wednesday...

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By *eenawMan
over a year ago

anywhere and everywhere

Definitely.

They work really well for those of us who do shift work ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im same with my hours of work daytimes are better for me

Evening have to be planned but usually have to Chang time because I’m on call out most nights not working

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Over the years I've had just as many daytime meets as evening or nights. I work alot of evenings so often find myself free in the day, but I know what you mean. Some people have suggested that I get a job and such, when I mention im free more days than nights.

Sometimes wonder if it would be easier if there was a filter for those who do day meets. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can only meet during the day, can't accommodate but always willing to travel within reason."

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By *ackman23Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I’m up for daytime meets - message me if I’m of interest to you - I travel with work so can always be in/around your area :–)

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