FabSwingers.com forum: Naive

By *ntrigue me 2019 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

Am I being really naive in looking for a relationship on this site?

Appreciate is essentially about sex and the joys of sharing, however, surely there can be opportunities for a relationship or am I jaded in my views?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not naive...

Although from my experience i neveer looked for a relationship, it fell into my lap literally lol.

Met fella from here and now over 2 years down the line still going strong.

At times people will look on here for a relationship because they will meet someone with same mindset as them...

Some swing together others will leave... and get some who will stay to keep in touch with friends they have made over they time they been here

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

lots of people are looking for a relationship or open to a relationship, I really don't think it's nieve.

It depends what you are looking for from that relationship.

I prefer people who have a similar outlook on sexuality so this is the right place for me to meet people for friendship or more that are like-minded.

There has been many many relationships formed, marriages and more.

Good luck and I hope the perfect relationship opener arrives in your inbox very shortly. Xx

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Not naive at all, we're friends with two couples who meet on the scene, and we know several others.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I don’t think it’s naive at all but I would be clearer in my profile if that’s what I wanted (that you aren’t here for one offs but to build a relationship with someone).

Mrs x (I’m sure Mr will have a different POV Lol)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not naive to look but it would be a mistake to approach it with naivety.

As in all of life but more so here there are people who will exploit what they see as a vulnerability in order to get sex either as a one off or on a regular basis. All I would say is its entirely possible to find a relationship here but approach with caution.

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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Never occurred to me. Didn't think this led to relationships. Although spoke to a married couple on a club night and they met through swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems many have found love on here so no you’re not being naive I’d say.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Mandy and I met on Fab over 5 years ago and we've been in a relationship ever since.Neither of us were looking for anything of a permanent nature at the time but it's all worked out really well.

I don't think you're naive but I would always bear in mind that the vast majority of people on here aren't looking for a relationship.Good luck!

Mike

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I don’t think it’s naive at all but I would be clearer in my profile if that’s what I wanted (that you aren’t here for one offs but to build a relationship with someone).

Mrs x (I’m sure Mr will have a different POV Lol)"

I agree with whatever Julia says

Chris X

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I.woukdnt expected find a relationship o this site unless it was on the understanding that we were swingers and did things together.

I would love to have a relationship from someone on here but I have no illusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say your naive, I would say though that don’t expect one to happen, if it does then great, enjoy the fun times as they often lead to good foundations. Enjoy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not naive, we’ve found several medium to long term , but a mono relationship on a swingers site may be challenging.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Ifs not naive, you just need to ensure that you are up front about what you are looking for and as with any dating opportunity you do not compromise yourself or your integrity to make it work.

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

I wouldn’t call it naive, as you never know where or when we meet that person, but I guess that the majority are on here for sexual journeys more than romance.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I'd love to meet a lady who I could still enjoy swinging with. In my experience, if I get on with a girl, and would like to take things further, jealousy and control soon creaps in. Where do I find a girl, who truly wants an open relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a girl from this site for 2 years. We both came off the site but unfortunately the relationship ended when I moved to the USA to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here over 9 yrs ago a s still together.

We weren't looking for a relationship, but it just happened.

Probably helps a lot that we have a lot going on in real life together, so being on fab and having fun is an escape from that rather than the purpose of our being together.

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK

I am the same, looking for a nsa relationship x

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