FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic?

By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same mate. I can even be chatting with someone for days, and getting on really great, but as soon as the mug is shown, either ignored, or mostly blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... same for us.

Someone replying 'sorry your not our type' I respect a lot more.

Manners cost nothing.

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By *herubCheeksWoman
over a year ago

seaside

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Send me I'll happily oblige and help

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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?"

Sorry for scaring you

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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?

Sorry for scaring you

You did not at all! Maybe I have scared you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or can anyone else feel romance in the air here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing. I reply to every message even if its "sorry your not for me but good luck" if I know someone has read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked daily regardless of a face pic

I survive though

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply if someone takes the trouble to send a face pic.

However if it’s a dick pic and « what’s u up to » I just delete.

I don’t judge just on face pic but take the time to look at profile before thinking about if they interest me.

I had a guy message me yesterday - he had taken the time to compliment my pictures and wrote an interesting first message. I wrote back that I would keep him in mind and friend him and then he totally spoilt it with his reply back - full frontal nude and describing what he wanted to do to me. That was a waste of a possible chance for him as it was unsophisticated and crude.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?

Sorry for scaring you

I've seen yours Sparkle and it far from scary trust me x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is it just me or can anyone else feel romance in the air here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?

Sorry for scaring you

I've seen yours Sparkle and it far from scary trust me x"

Kind of you to say....but have you had your Specsavers appointment yet? x

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

I cannot believe that. Maybe because for me a lady is always beautiful, if not all, have always something I like?

Sorry for scaring you

I've seen yours Sparkle and it far from scary trust me x

Kind of you to say....but have you had your Specsavers appointment yet? x"

Yes and I had a good look so I'm sure I'm right

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Manners cost nothing. I reply to every message even if its "sorry your not for me but good luck" if I know someone has read my profile. "

I wish more would take your approach

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??"

Im sure you dont have to try too hard

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??

Im sure you dont have to try too hard

I do, trust me

however I would imagine a lady like you doesn’t at all struggle.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??

Im sure you dont have to try too hard

I do, trust me

however I would imagine a lady like you doesn’t at all struggle."

I have my moments but they are very few and far between. Think most men prefer blondes.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??

Im sure you dont have to try too hard

I do, trust me

however I would imagine a lady like you doesn’t at all struggle.

I have my moments but they are very few and far between. Think most men prefer blondes."

Any man would be more than happy to wake up next to you x

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Same here fella. I just keep trying??

Im sure you dont have to try too hard

I do, trust me

however I would imagine a lady like you doesn’t at all struggle.

I have my moments but they are very few and far between. Think most men prefer blondes."

I mustn’t be most men, a fiery red head suits me to the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder

I have my face on show anyway

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By *picMan
over a year ago

Petworth

99% of messages get deleted or blocked after a face picture and this happens to 99% of us

So does that make it 198% ??

Are these calculations right

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Everyone has their preferences don't they although I understand how frustrating it must be.

I hope you find what you're looking for soon, and you'll be sure that you're also what they're after! Don't be disheartened Xx her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be really hard as a single guy

Some people are great and respond to all messages and some can’t be bothered and follow the ‘just delete button’ if they’re not interested.

And then you’ve got to factor in the mood of said people messaging.

I confess- sometimes I will do the first (message back to even the smallest hi) and sometimes we just get too many/ can’t be bothered and delete... it’s not fair for you. I get that. But it’s the truth.

Surely if they aren’t pleasing you with the way they respond via message then you’re definitely not going to be sexually compatible?

It’s taken me a while to accept (as it happens to couples too)- but just move on and get chatting with that lady/ couple who does like the way you approach them.

Whatever- stay smiley as it’s not worth letting it stress you or upset you further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep... same for us.

Someone replying 'sorry your not our type' I respect a lot more.

Manners cost nothing."

^^^^^THIS^^^^^ Manners people please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It must be really hard as a single guy

Some people are great and respond to all messages and some can’t be bothered and follow the ‘just delete button’ if they’re not interested.

And then you’ve got to factor in the mood of said people messaging.

Surely if they aren’t pleasing you with the way they respond via message then you’re definitely not going to be sexually compatible?

It’s taken me a while to accept (as it happens to couples too)- but just move on and get chatting with that lady/ couple who does like the way you approach them.

Whatever- stay smiley as it’s not worth letting it stress you or upset you further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

If they don't fancy you it doesn't mean you're ugly. I don't fancy Tom Hardy at all. Some women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe OP is still to sensitive to his feelings...

Don’t take it personal, you don’t know them, they don’t know you. Just delete your message & block the profile or make a note so you don’t message them again in the future

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By *aked Angel OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey

Thanks for your advice and support!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I always reply if someone takes the trouble to send a face pic.

However if it’s a dick pic and « what’s u up to » I just delete.

I don’t judge just on face pic but take the time to look at profile before thinking about if they interest me.

This is so our experience, I sometimes despair at the complete lack of understanding of some (if not many) people

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By *awtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes been there just a sorry your not for me instead of blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really need to have a thick skin on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

OP, are you making first contact with face pic? If that's the case then I suggest it's something else letting you down.

I get many first messages with a face pic, I then check out their profile before replying and too often just delete the message without a response.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I always reply if someone takes the trouble to send a face pic.

However if it’s a dick pic and « what’s u up to » I just delete.

I don’t judge just on face pic but take the time to look at profile before thinking about if they interest me.

This is so our experience, I sometimes despair at the complete lack of understanding of some (if not many) people

I’ve had this as well, someone I’d not normally be interested in, comes across as being more self aware than most. But then ruins it by then acting like all the rest and forgetting what made them and their approach unique and new.

Physical appearance will always be the first or final hurdle in getting to meet up. That’s why it’s easier in real life than being on a website and trying to get that connection and conversation going.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We never ask for a face pic straight off the bat, as long as there is a attraction we see in some of there pics then that's a good start.

If the focus of conversation turns to potentially meeting up and they haven't already sent a face pic off there own back then we will always ask for one and reciprocate

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Manners cost nothing. I reply to every message even if its "sorry your not for me but good luck" if I know someone has read my profile. "
I've sent a message just so I get a reply lol

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I always reply if someone takes the trouble to send a face pic.

However if it’s a dick pic and « what’s u up to » I just delete.

I don’t judge just on face pic but take the time to look at profile before thinking about if they interest me.

This is so our experience, I sometimes despair at the complete lack of understanding of some (if not many) people

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always reply if someone takes the trouble to send a face pic.

However if it’s a dick pic and « what’s u up to » I just delete.

I don’t judge just on face pic but take the time to look at profile before thinking about if they interest me.

This is so our experience, I sometimes despair at the complete lack of understanding of some (if not many) people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

Well the rest of you looks absolutely gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally send a face pic on first message. Some we strike up conversation , some dont - it is what it is - can't be everyones cup of tea

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"I wouldnt worry. Same thing happens to me

Well the top half looks pretty good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners cost nothing. I reply to every message even if its "sorry your not for me but good luck" if I know someone has read my profile.

I wish more would take your approach

I don't get why people are so rude on here. Too many think they are better than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners cost nothing. I reply to every message even if its "sorry your not for me but good luck" if I know someone has read my profile. I've sent a message just so I get a reply lol"

And you got one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine on show... I find people are quite polite if I’m not what they are looking for .. everyone has a type and I’m never offended if I’m not

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Everyone pretty much requires a face pic on the first message, or nearby, and I am cool with that, so I make sure I enclose the most recent one.

99% of the people block or ignore me as soon as they see my pic.

I don't think I look like a monster not even like Richard Gere... A nice half way.

Maybe because my face pics are always in an elegant suit? Need to organise more naughty shoots?

Any suggestions welcome.

Don't take it personally as everyone has likes and dislikes and preferences. None of us can change who we are and u will find people with a mutual connection. Tbh if there was no attraction a mutual meet would be awkward. Hats off for being honest with your pics that's good. Not everyone does that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's happens to us too. Why people can't be grown up enough to say "sorry, not for us" is beyond us. Manners cost nothing.

Don't think it'll ever change though on here.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We don’t do face pics. Just a security thing. But the thing that’s most annoying is being sent unsolicited face pics. We just don’t reply or block.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

95% see my face pic and don't reply, delete my message or even block me. It's quite the norm here, serious lack of basic manners and very fussy folk.... The positive effect though is those who are clearly happy and talk of meeting are a VERY pleasant surprise, makes me fall off my chair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just particular, I’ve been blocked a few times because I look a bit too ‘fresh faced’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just makes us feel bad. Sorry to everyone we block.

We just find It an easier way to manage this site and not come across profiles we arent interested in meeting. And yeah unfortunately your face might have been the mitigating factor and just not done it for us.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

“You’re not ugly but you’re not my type. Good luck”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have mine on show... I find people are quite polite if I’m not what they are looking for .. everyone has a type and I’m never offended if I’m not "

And a very nice one to show

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We ask for 'a face pic' often a guy will send six, which actually looks like six different guys! And then Niki will say no, based on the worst pic.

So if people ask for a face pic, send just one, but make it your best one!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Yep... same for us.

Someone replying 'sorry your not our type' I respect a lot more.

Manners cost nothing.

^^^^^THIS^^^^^ Manners people please

But why should they have to respond? Respect of choice on the contrary costs nothing.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I don't like a profile I delete a message, even with a face pic attached.I don't insist on a face pic first message though.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Yes..op... it happens alot to me aswell.... it's the way fab is,..

All we can do is try, try and try again...

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