FabSwingers.com forum: Fabbing pics, why does it matter to me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not that much, but I always check my pics that have been fabbed when I notice people have looked at my profile.

It's not a big thing but pleases me massively when there have been fabs and slightly disappoints when there's no new ones ha.

Does it matter to most or am I mental?

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I love getting fabs?

Always boosts my confidence.

I feel so good since joining the site and seeing people liking me, as I never believed people would before.

I've just posted some new ones and excited to see how they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx"

Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love getting fabs?

Always boosts my confidence.

I feel so good since joining the site and seeing people liking me, as I never believed people would before.

I've just posted some new ones and excited to see how they do

Yeah I'm the same, nice little pick me up ha

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx

Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs. "

Really, thanks for your input

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx

Well there's not one of yours I didn't fab ha, but as for an idea of what interests people.... For me it's your bum and thighs.

Really, thanks for your input

Definitely, all your pics are great to look at, but your bum and thighs........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse "

Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse "

Still nice though hey??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Still nice though hey?? "

Sweeping generalisation there of men really

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Still nice though hey??

Sweeping generalisation there of men really

Not really

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Still nice though hey?? "

It is for some

for me i don't even look lol don't need anyone to boost my confidence xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Still nice though hey??

Sweeping generalisation there of men really

Not really

I think it is. You've just described the opposite of what I fab.... I'm a man.

So it's not "men" really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same I always look to see if any pics have been fabbed when someone's looked at me and it does your confidence the world of when someone has fabbed them it also gives you an idea of what sort of pics to put up in the future

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same I always look to see if any pics have been fabbed when someone's looked at me and it does your confidence the world of when someone has fabbed them it also gives you an idea of what sort of pics to put up in the future"

Glad it's not just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.

Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself

I get that part, what I meant with arrogance was saying all men are the same basically amd fab anything with a pulse.

I'm glad she's confident enough that it doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love guys fabbing ours x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love guys fabbing ours x"

Fabbed some, great pics

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like

Same here.

Means I have a nice quick way of viewing all my fav pictures at any point I need too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're all secretly, or not so, attention whores here

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself

I wish you were that happy with yourself.

I just checked out your profile and you are absolutely stunning!

Just giving you a load of fabs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because we're all secretly, or not so, attention whores here

Fair ish.... All and/or some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all love fabing lovely sexy teasing pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all love fabing lovely sexy teasing pictures. "

seems to be the case in general.

I like what was mentioned previously about getting an idea of what's liked and what's not. I seem to be liked by men a lot more than women ha

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"We all love fabing lovely sexy teasing pictures.

seems to be the case in general.

I like what was mentioned previously about getting an idea of what's liked and what's not. I seem to be liked by men a lot more than women ha"

Haha. Same here.

Wish I'd get more female fabs

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.

Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses. "

Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

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"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself

thank you least someone gets what I mean

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

"You say that but I'd honestly love her sort of confidence! Dont think shes being arrogant, think shes just saying she doesnt need outside validation and I'd love to be that happy with myself

thank you least someone gets what I mean

My opinion is you're a very negative person who has a chip on her shoulder with guys. Is my opinion valid or should I remember what my old mam said, "if you can't say anything nice about people, don't say anything at all"

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

It's always nice to know people appreciate your pics with a fab, it's a confidence boost

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.

Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.

Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too "

You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.

If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.

So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse

All the best.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Who would like a fab or a wink,feeling good today the suns shining woke with glory Xxx

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I get a real thrill on the very odd occasion that I get a Fab. Been a while but still check.

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By *awtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its nice to know that you pics are liked , since you can't comment on pics next best thing is a fab

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Not all men thanks. I only fab what I actually like

Same here I may look through them all but only fab selected ones. Really like the more artistic photos not necessarily nude either

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I rarely fab photos unless it's of something that I really like or different, but as I say rare. I never expect mine to be fab'd, I wouldn't think they are good or interesting enough. I think many fab in the hope they will be noticed! There are also a lot 'asking' for fabs, which I would avoid.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

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"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.

Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.

Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too

You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.

If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.

So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse

All the best. "

Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Look at at a womans inbox at the messages by men ... hi how are you and then tell me your not all the same lol anyway we agree to disagree as you can't tell me im wrong when i think I'm right by experience with men your all driven by sex "

I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.

Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.

Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?

Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?

No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.

So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.

'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

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I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.

Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.

Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?

Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?

No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.

So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.

'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such. "

I never actually meant men fab anything with a pulse I meant they would fk anything with a pulse and Fabing pics they interested in is their way of thinking oh they may msg me because I have fabbed their pic

sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.

Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.

Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?

Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?

No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.

So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.

'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.

sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x "

It's all forgotten

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

"It gives you a confidence boost and for me gives me an idea of what people are interested in xx"

I think that sums it up nicely

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s nice to share that you think a picture is good, for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed quite a few of the elite on here are positively begging to be fabbed on their profiles it’s slightly sad but saying that if they have low self esteem a few fabs can’t hurt

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.

Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.

Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?

Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?

No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.

So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.

'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.

sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x

It's all forgotten

Thank you kind sir

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I agree that a lot of men on here (and women tbh) are driven by sex, but the fact that a number of us have 'not' fabbed your pictures is proof that not all men 'fab anything with a pulse'.

Therefore you 'are' provably wrong on that assumption.

Can't you see why some men may find offence in that sort of invalid generalisation?

Would you like it if guys started saying 'all women are (insert any derogatory comment)'?

No, you wouldn't and the guy in question would rightly be ripped to shreds.

So, no one is saying many guys aren't like that, but we are not all the same.

'Eveyone' on here is an individual and we all deserve to be treated as such.

sorry im not good at expressing lol always comes out wrong so I'll just shut up x "

That's OK. I see what you mean now.

It is sometimes hard to get your point across in text.

Glad everyone is happy again now

Have a lovely day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab away I’ll check later x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive had a really tough year and yes seeing Ive got fabs when I post new pics really gives me a confidence bump. I dont check them constantly but its lovely when I do

And I fab lots too

Interesting to read, I thought it'd be mainly men with confidence boost.

Women seem to get a lot more than guys, so thought there'd be a lot more of the arrogance in general from the women such as displayed by the woman in the blue dress who commented above about pulses.

Its not arrogance at all its my opinion which i am very much entitled too

You are entitled to that opinion of course, but it's wrong.

If it was true I'd have fabbed your picture as you have a pulse, but I only fab what I like.

So not the case that "men" will fab anything with a pulse

All the best.

Again though though you've just said what we are all driven by as men. I know full well what drives me ta. As do other men.

We have more experience of being men than you do

As for the inbox thing again that's only the messages that you've received from those men. It's not all men. Check your inbox, you don't have a message from me.

That's my point, most men... Or men in general would be a better way to phrase it than "all men" is all I mean.

Like a nice healthy debate and mean no offence but I won't be told who I am/what I like/what motivates me because of someone's experiences with other people.

All the best.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Its just a little confidence boost for me, but I don't take it seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab away I’ll check later x

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feck can’t see who fabbed pics. Like let me know if you did xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Doesn't matter to me

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

When I joined this site, I wasn't comfortable with my body at all. I used to see pics and think "there is no way anyone wants to see my mum bod on display!"

In the 2+ years I've been on here, my confidence has gone through the roof. Not so much that I think I am the most gorgeous woman ever, but I am now comfortable in my own skin

Apart from my bum, I will never like that! Lol.

Fabs on my photos do make me feel good, it is nice to know people appreciate the photos I put on, but I don't expect them.

I put the photos on for myself and if someone else likes them then it's a bonus.

Being comfortable in my own skin means I'm more confident in the bedroom, so the sex is way better...it's win win

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We don't really pay any attention to how many fabs we get on our pics but we genuinely do like comments in messages when people say how great we look together or how hot we look as a couple in our pics. Hearing nice things about what other people think of our pics is definitely a confidence boost for us and something we love to hear

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Fabing pics means nothing im sorry but there are a lot of women on here who just after fabs lol I really don't see the point men fab anything with a pulse

Still nice though hey??

Sweeping generalisation there of men really

Not really

Then why not remove the option to fab your pictures? It's easily done.

In any context it's nice to receive a compliment, and a fab is just that. Not a big thing, but for me something to be grateful for.

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