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By *ooking to lick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me. "
are you sure the single women you are contacting are single women and not time wasting single males possing as women

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

huge amount of fake women Here some even manage to get verifications with clearly fake pictures ! that and there seems to be a spate of time wasters and fantasisers signed up recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well your profile sounds a bit angry/arrogant with all the rules and must have this must do this must do that.

single women dont have to put up with that as much so maybe if you like that with your messages etc they go with someone more easy going as they have the choice

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By *ooking to lick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Had one today wants more pictures. Sent more and still wants more. what more is there to see I have to ask myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me. "

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i find that too altho i dont message men so i wouldnt know how rude they are but iv come across some really horrible women on here who think they are something speical when they clearly not ..quite sad really ...like winking at people and stuff like that its all supposed to be all part of the fun isnt it ....yet iv been blocked before cos of a simple wink ..im never rude back its not my thing i was raised to respect others...but yeah some women on here are horrible.....

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help "

OP has a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very important points here.

The amount of "single" guys mean that when they get a chance to meet somebody there is very little chance that they will want to blow it. The reason why I say "single" is that I do believe that the majority of guys who are posing as being single, arnt. More likely to be married or to have a gf somewhere, somehow and a good indication of this being cannot accom but can travel. This is not written in blood, some single guys might have kids, family etc, but its more likely because they live with wife or gf.

Single females can pick and choose who they meet. They get loads and loads of mail from single guys and couples. Especially the golden ticket which is the bi female. Its purely a matter of maths and the bi single female, especially if shes a looker, can have who or what she wants. If you dont make the immediate wow impact then your gone, history, yesterdays newspaper.

Even the not so hot girls can have their pick, due to the maths the average horny guy get the attitude of "any hole is a goal". Its a shame really that the swinging scene is ruined by "cheaters". It total upsets the ratios and causes all sorts of problems.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Apart from the looking to meet bit, your profile text doesn't indicate to me that you're wanting to meet females, it's all about what males must be to fit your criteria, it reads very arrogant to me....with regards to your comment about sending more and more pictures to a female, then I'd be a bit suspicious myself whether female/couple/male if they wanted more and more pics, I have 2 face pics I will send, requests for any more will not be met and there's plenty of pics to perve on your public profile as there is on mine.....Last thing for me would be the fact that your text says husband will be there, but doesn't reference a Fab couple profile, that's not a single fem profile to me. I speak to a couple of single ladies and as yet have not arranged a 1:1 (if indeed this is what you're looking for), think it's mainly cos I like cock as well...Good luck, hope you find some genuine ladies that fit your criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest i read your profile i use to be a single girl on here and your pics would have interested me i would have messaged u but if messages were as aggressive as profile then probably would have stop contact. also as someone that use to be single never got the husband is going to be there if its a safety think what about the single girls safety if he is playing then it should state that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help "
i was going to say that ...... i meet fems 1 to 1 and alone i like that at times ... just some hate the man around looking on .

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By *ooking to lick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno why the hubby must be phoned beforehand..after all its supposed u(the fem) who's gonna be having the FF fun...despite him being there.anyway...ur profile...u work it the way u like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, but you do come over as quite aggressive in your profile, and I think you may be attracting 'pic collectors' as a result as genuine meeters could well be put off by it.

I am sure you have written it the way it is for good reason, but as I found out to my cost when I was swinging as a single guy a few years back, if you do not take a step back and look at your profile as others see it, all the time and effort you put into trying to get meets can be completely wasted.

It's a long hard learning process sometimes.......

(Pork)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

It is a bugger when u slag someone else's words and realise u've just made a typo urself eh?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

... and if you care to look at those 'peoples' profiles, you may find that they are actually dyslexic, so cut them a little slack, eh.......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

suggest you should be the first one to do so

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

Absolutely... But I cant find "uo" anywhere in mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them.

Absolutely... But I cant find "uo" anywhere in mine "

I think U'll find if u play scrabble like i do at weekends, u'll find uo, is a high scorer

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By *ooking to lick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session."

Not always

but one thing you will find is that negativity breeds negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session."

with respect u started that yourself...and I'm totally against anyone slagging off others use of the english language...unless its heavy text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought people were being hard on you until i went and had a look at your profile.....wow....very harsh!!!!

All you seem to do is demand and stamp your feet!! No wonder you don't get meets!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought people were being hard on you until i went and had a look at your profile.....wow....very harsh!!!!

All you seem to do is demand and stamp your feet!! No wonder you don't get meets!

X"

I looked at the OP's profile before commenting, so that my comments were relevant and reasonable. And that appears to be 'slagging off'....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile header says it all really

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


""Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session."

I read the whole thread and saw no slagging off, only constructive criticism (which I think my post was as well) until I read the first quote above, then as the typo was picked up on, the slagging off quote (with another typo)....doncha just love the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I read the whole thread and saw no slagging off, only constructive criticism (which I think my post was as well) until I read the first quote above, then as the typo was picked up on, the slagging off quote (with another typo)....doncha just love the irony

"

what does ironing have to do with this thread caz...please, type before u think...whOOps...think before u type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session."

I like your profile it reminds me of my ex wife - oh what happy memories

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

with respect u started that yourself...and I'm totally against anyone slagging off others use of the english language...unless its heavy text speak"

Or they're Scottish and tok like that kno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I like your profile it reminds me of my ex wife - oh what happy memories "

Funnily enough, mine too! Uncanny.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

with respect u started that yourself...and I'm totally against anyone slagging off others use of the english language...unless its heavy text speak

Or they're Scottish and tok like that kno "

if yer gonnae be like tha caz, ye now wer ya kin shuv it!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I read the whole thread and saw no slagging off, only constructive criticism (which I think my post was as well) until I read the first quote above, then as the typo was picked up on, the slagging off quote (with another typo)....doncha just love the irony

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lol x yes dont you just love them . feeling better now.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


""Think some people need to start using a dictionary on here and start looking uo words before they start typing them."

No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I read the whole thread and saw no slagging off, only constructive criticism (which I think my post was as well) until I read the first quote above, then as the typo was picked up on, the slagging off quote (with another typo)....doncha just love the irony

what does ironing have to do with this thread caz...please, type before u think...whOOps...think before u type"

What is this "ironing" of which you speak Paddy....my domestic goddess skills are sadly lacking, but I'm an amazing shag and very modest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

with respect u started that yourself...and I'm totally against anyone slagging off others use of the english language...unless its heavy text speak

Or they're Scottish and tok like that kno

if yer gonnae be like tha caz, ye kno wer ya kin shuv it!...."

*sorry I had to re-edit this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I like your profile it reminds me of my ex wife - oh what happy memories

Funnily enough, mine too! Uncanny.....

"

The Police came roungd to my house a while back and said " Its about your ex wife, it looks like she has been in a car crash"

I said i know but she has a lovely personality

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

with respect u started that yourself...and I'm totally against anyone slagging off others use of the english language...unless its heavy text speak

Or they're Scottish and tok like that kno

if yer gonnae be like tha caz, ye now wer ya kin shuv it!...."

Promises, promises jus washit if ah stat typin Cumbrian, Marra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I like your profile it reminds me of my ex wife - oh what happy memories

Funnily enough, mine too! Uncanny.....

The Police came roungd to my house a while back and said " Its about your ex wife, it looks like she has been in a car crash"

I said i know but she has a lovely personality "

ROFPMSL!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought our profile was full of stipulations, but the OP's takes the biscuit!

I agree that negativity breeds negativity and back when I was a single bi female on this site, I would never have wanted to contact someone who has their nose firmly wedged up their own butt such as this profile suggests.

Truth is - and as has already been said - the single bisexual female gets her pick of the crop. She can literally do an eenie meenie minie moe with all of us.

I do agree that there are quite a lot of single women who just disappear after a while, or drift off but I usually take this as a not that interested or possibly a 'bit too busy'.

There are a lot of fakers, all over the net. It's sometimes hard to spot them, but I would never ever send nude pics to anyone I hadn't confirmed was female anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session."

I find it funny that since you mentioned that people should use a dictionary everyone one your posts has had a spelling mistake

I don't think your profile is aggressive, your just stating your preferences and saves alot of people wasting there time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought people were being hard on you until i went and had a look at your profile.....wow....very harsh!!!!

All you seem to do is demand and stamp your feet!! No wonder you don't get meets!

X"
Not sure the latest status update will help either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No piont these forums it just turns out to be a slagging off session.

I find it funny that since you mentioned that people should use a dictionary everyone one your posts has had a spelling mistake

I don't think your profile is aggressive, your just stating your preferences and saves alot of people wasting there time "

have u misread the OP's post???...I believe it was an asking of advice...as everyone has basically said...its aggressive...there cant be TOO many people wrong about the same thing.The follow-up responses from the OP, have appeared to be a backlash at the given advice..sourced from the original POST!...sorta works when all is read ya know lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help

OP has a couples profile "

Pretty sure it was a female profile when I first read the thread... Although now you seem to be right and it's a cpl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help

OP has a couples profile

Pretty sure it was a female profile when I first read the thread... Although now you seem to be right and it's a cpl.. "
well i was thinking single fems profile thay had too ... i must be seeing things too . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry !! But this like listening to my 15yr old daughter bickering with her friends...... Come ladies this is an adults site not a play ground !! (perky)

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Ooh, blimey - hadn't noticed that, but you're right, I'm sure it was a single profile when I first viewed it, although the male on this profile seems a little short and anonymous , prob not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel that females on here are bigger time wasters than males. I have had lots of contact from females but it never goes anywhere. When it comes to the crunch you never hear from them again. Any other females experience this or is it just me.

maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help

OP has a couples profile

Pretty sure it was a female profile when I first read the thread... Although now you seem to be right and it's a cpl.. "
can you change it that easy here single profile then couples strange,

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Sorry !! But this like listening to my 15yr old daughter bickering with her friends...... Come ladies this is an adults site not a play ground !! (perky)"

Weren't me, she started it!!!!!!!!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"maybe they contact you as a single women then when they realise your not and your hubby will be on the meet too they change their mind

Maybe having a couples profile, as after all thats what you are, would help

OP has a couples profile

Pretty sure it was a female profile when I first read the thread... Although now you seem to be right and it's a cpl.. can you change it that easy here single profile then couples strange, "

not sure to be honest.. I thought you couldnt change profile gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh, blimey - hadn't noticed that, but you're right, I'm sure it was a single profile when I first viewed it, although the male on this profile seems a little short and anonymous , prob not my type "

I also thought that is was a single female when i first read the profile as the man is only mentioned as hubby and nothing else at all. It's the first couples profile that i have read where the female is so dominant that it makes you think that is a single female profile. I wonder who is the dominant one in bed lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry !! But this like listening to my 15yr old daughter bickering with her friends...... Come ladies this is an adults site not a play ground !! (perky)"

My other arf does like putting her head above the parapet sometimes!!!! Lol!!!!

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