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By *iclassy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

As a good husband i seek a genuine repeat genuine dom boyfriend for my hotwife.She has a preference for younger guys mid 20s but suitable candidates at this age is impossible.The bulls need to be confident enough to deal with two educated and confident people.This im sad to say is a very very difficult task to find right guys.Would another site be more of benefit.Do feel at older guy in late 30s may have more maturity on the subject...

Anyone else in same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame I'm not closer to Manchester else I'd revel in pleasuring your wife and dominating you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think an older male will be more suitable for your needs. Most likely an older male will be more confident, confidence comes from experience.

Well...my opinion anyway!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Young lads dont get it ..maybe watched too much porn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young lads dont get it ..maybe watched too much porn lol"

We are definitely few and far between but some of us do understand the intricacies and mental power balance of a bull relationship. Yes, most young guys think it's all about fucking the wife whilst the cuck watches from the sidelines, but obviously the relationship extends far beyond that. It's a shame in some respects as I've found most times the couple has gotten cold feet before the first meet simply because they might have heard young guys are inexperienced or all talk, which again is probably true in most cases.

I'm here trying to hold up the rep of us young lads haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young lads dont get it ..maybe watched too much porn lol

We are definitely few and far between but some of us do understand the intricacies and mental power balance of a bull relationship. Yes, most young guys think it's all about fucking the wife whilst the cuck watches from the sidelines, but obviously the relationship extends far beyond that. It's a shame in some respects as I've found most times the couple has gotten cold feet before the first meet simply because they might have heard young guys are inexperienced or all talk, which again is probably true in most cases.

I'm here trying to hold up the rep of us young lads haha"

Don't want to be disrespectful, but you have some big words in there. For a young chap, with no experience, it is hard to play the role of a bull from the first meet, you don't get to be trusted from day one, it takes a lot of time and patience.

My opinion anyways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young lads dont get it ..maybe watched too much porn lol

We are definitely few and far between but some of us do understand the intricacies and mental power balance of a bull relationship. Yes, most young guys think it's all about fucking the wife whilst the cuck watches from the sidelines, but obviously the relationship extends far beyond that. It's a shame in some respects as I've found most times the couple has gotten cold feet before the first meet simply because they might have heard young guys are inexperienced or all talk, which again is probably true in most cases.

I'm here trying to hold up the rep of us young lads haha

Don't want to be disrespectful, but you have some big words in there. For a young chap, with no experience, it is hard to play the role of a bull from the first meet, you don't get to be trusted from day one, it takes a lot of time and patience.

My opinion anyways! "

No disrespect taken, but I did say "most" couples get cold feet. I do have previous experience off site and I wouldn't pretend otherwise.

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By *iclassy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

A typical example of young lads is

o so confident chatting to hotwife...

Then a meet suggested then has to be without cuck present.Or another love chatting dirty and can we have some naughty pics of your wife...

Then surprise surprise disappear from scene..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would def go older if you want a dominant man, they tend to of been studying the art of being dominant for longer so are more experienced.

The younger they are the less experience they have and they are either still learning or just pretending.

But I suppose if you want to help someone with there training then go younger Libby xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall be in the area monthly starting next month it that is any use to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_iclassy, I think you're in a tricky situation. Online, most guys will just be bullshitters or - at best - will simply want a quick fuck.

Offline might be easier in normal times as you could immerse yourself in the scene and meet people on a more sociable level. With Covid, meets are out.

And seeking a young chap to fit the things you want is even trickier.

I'm not sure what to suggest. Talk to people on here? If you talk to enough, you might find a guy who fits the bill in time?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The play is a dynamic not a name.

Suspect some watch a little porn and classify that as what a Dom/Bull is, looks fun and you get to fuck someone/anyone.

Problem with the thinking around that is that they are someone who they trust and need mutual respect.

Not rip her knickers off and say look at me.

If you play to their needs, not yours it will eventually become a stunning dynamic.

Look past the noun and understand the verb.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

She is lovely, good luck with your search

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Age is but a number and experience is everything. There is no guarantee that people who are older have the right experience.

Some years ago I spoke to someone well known in a particular area's kink scene he was introduced to kink and couples when he was 18.

Personally I think OP is confusing or conflating boyfriend, bulls, dominant personalities and doms.

I suspect the set up described would only attract porn style doms, as I do not see where any power exchange would occur in the situation as described by OP to interest a "classic style" dom. However those who call themselves bulls or dominant pereonalities may be interested.

Even if I am wrong about the above, no matter what anyone is looking for in this scene or on the kink scene, finding the right person for a particular role is always difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone we had the exact same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP we have found the same over the years. I think we are running out of time to find a good regular. Have come close a couple of times but our darn luck ran out the first time with a nasty back injury when it all got too vigorous in the back of my car and another really sexy, handsome guy just vanished off the scene completely after the 4th meet and things were getting very warm. We've got some good stories to tell though if you want to get in touch about this cucky thing.

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