FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is there so much abuse from not just guys to females but females to males. I have had abuse from ladies and I have been nothing but polite. Spoke a lady on here who today has been called names and abused. She cancelled a meet she had for tomorrow and wants to leave fab. Why are a few bad apples doing this? If you don't like something scroll on.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why is there so much abuse from not just guys to females but females to males. I have had abuse from ladies and I have been nothing but polite. Spoke a lady on here who today has been called names and abused. She cancelled a meet she had for tomorrow and wants to leave fab. Why are a few bad apples doing this? If you don't like something scroll on. "

No one should be abused. Report them to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just assholes plain and simple

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Because some people are literally wankers.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Just the way it is, the block button is your friend here,

No need for rudeness in my eyes.

Unfortunately some people regardless of gender are just a**holes. Hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I feel that this drives genuine people away. Makes it even harder for me and others. I confess have not idea who admin are or how to report. I get the block button is your friend but once you read something it's hard to unread.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I feel that this drives genuine people away. Makes it even harder for me and others. I confess have not idea who admin are or how to report. I get the block button is your friend but once you read something it's hard to unread. "

Hit the report button on a message and admin will review it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Very kind.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had people message me saying I shouldn't be flirting with certain people on the forums.....seems jealousy is rife!!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It’s getting worse and worse.

I get it almost daily. Always uninvited and as a first message, not even a reply.

I couldn’t even bring myself to do it. It’s beyond me

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We had 3 messages in 10 minutes from a guy today first polite normal second desperate needy 3rd abusive and rude strange considering we never seen them until after the third some folks think you just waiting for messages to reply instantly

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I have had threats and abuse, they tend to disappear pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it a small minority of people doing this?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Is it a small minority of people doing this?"

I think it’s more than you’d like to think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it a small minority of people doing this?

I think it’s more than you’d like to think"

Do we need to band together and drive away these people as they are driving away genuine people and destroying the experience for people.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Is it a small minority of people doing this?

I think it’s more than you’d like to think

Do we need to band together and drive away these people as they are driving away genuine people and destroying the experience for people. "

There are lots of issues with that plan, for example:

Who gets to decide who should be driven away?

How does anybody drive them away?

Even if they were driven away, more would take their place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice to auctually chat with someone. Hard site this for sure. Never been abused and never been abusive. Just seems a hard site to get a conversation or connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had people message me saying I shouldn't be flirting with certain people on the forums.....seems jealousy is rife!!"

Flirt with me anytime

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

"I have had threats and abuse, they tend to disappear pretty quickly "

Tossers.. only abusive because you turned them down, no doubt. Ignore the keyboard Ninja’s. You are beautiful women

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

"I've had people message me saying I shouldn't be flirting with certain people on the forums.....seems jealousy is rife!!"

Really, flirt with however you want sexy

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There are some vile people on here. What they get out of being abusive and hurtful to others is beyond our comprehension.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Surely has some kind of protocol for dealing with persistent abusers? A kind of 3 strikes and you're out system (although it should be 1 strike in my opinion)

I'd assume that moderators can see the messages sent, or can be sent screenshots, so can make an informed judgement on whether it is abusive or not.

I realise that the issue is they can rejoin using different email addresses, but given that abusiveness is a character trait these people are likely to be repeating their behaviour, but eventually may get fed up with being kicked out?

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