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Where is the bi/st8 line crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I list myself as bi curious it's an oral flexibility with Transgender woman and like minded couples. My question is this:

At what point in straight mmf play is the line crossed by men listing as straight. If your interests include dp for example or a woman giving oral to two men at once, male genitals will be be touching, causing stimulation etc. Is such sexual activity essentially bi behaviour?

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I don't think it is entirely straight forward. Some people might think if you take part in dp or even dvp, then you must be bi because of close contact with cock and balls. Yet I know straight guys wwho enjoy dp. So you might think taking same sex oral or masturbation is bi, but others would say that is just bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry about it. Or feel compelled to categorise it. Just do what you like and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why worry about it. Or feel compelled to categorise it. Just do what you like and enjoy it"

I heard the title hetexible. For me personally that suit my mental comfort. But yes, categories do put people in a box.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it is entirely straight forward. Some people might think if you take part in dp or even dvp, then you must be bi because of close contact with cock and balls. Yet I know straight guys wwho enjoy dp. So you might think taking same sex oral or masturbation is bi, but others would say that is just bi-curious."

Its a case of satisfying my understanding of me. Woman turn my head, men don't, never have. Yet, I'm curious orally. Weird. I blame those damn beautiful Transgender woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class dp or dvp as being bi you are simply providing the female with the extra cock weather there is close by or in there already has nothing to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most all "straight" guys will not even allow their cock to be touched by another guy in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most all "straight" guys will not even allow their cock to be touched by another guy in my experience"

But they all crave a mfm threesome. There is bound to be a bit of cock interest there

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Straight and bi line is crossed when you touch the other guy in a sexual way to satisfy your self or him.

My straight friends will smack each other’s arses and grab each other’s bits but in a fun way not a sexual way so no line crossed.

If a guys dick is rubbing against another guys dick inside a woman then that is not bi. Unless the guys are rubbing dicks together because they want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My reticence went years ago and now happy to be fully bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I list myself as bi curious it's an oral flexibility with Transgender woman and like minded couples. My question is this:

At what point in straight mmf play is the line crossed by men listing as straight. If your interests include dp for example or a woman giving oral to two men at once, male genitals will be be touching, causing stimulation etc. Is such sexual activity essentially bi behaviour? "
male genitals touching during a 3some does not make you bi at all ive done it and im certainly not bi. Now if youre attracted to me then youre bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find everyone's so different on this. I've met guys who think being rimmed is "a bit gay", some won't indulge in MFM or DP for the same reason.

Then I know men who meet other men for sex yet still class themselves as straight because they wouldn't date a guy.

No need to label. Even if you do label, someone with another opinion will question you or say you're wrong

If it feels good, it's safe and consensual, then just roll with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I list myself as bi curious it's an oral flexibility with Transgender woman and like minded couples. My question is this:

At what point in straight mmf play is the line crossed by men listing as straight. If your interests include dp for example or a woman giving oral to two men at once, male genitals will be be touching, causing stimulation etc. Is such sexual activity essentially bi behaviour? male genitals touching during a 3some does not make you bi at all ive done it and im certainly not bi. Now if youre attracted to me then youre bi"

Envious of your physique yes. Fancy you no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find everyone's so different on this. I've met guys who think being rimmed is "a bit gay", some won't indulge in MFM or DP for the same reason.

Then I know men who meet other men for sex yet still class themselves as straight because they wouldn't date a guy.

No need to label. Even if you do label, someone with another opinion will question you or say you're wrong

If it feels good, it's safe and consensual, then just roll with it "

Not sure how two men can sleep together and consider themselves straight. But yes to the rest.

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

If you are playing with a person of the same sex, enjoying it and have feelings of intense pleasure that happens during sexual activity. They make you orgasm / or you make each other orgasm. you are bisexual! xxxx Have fun xxx

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

When you willingly touch the cock and its not an accident

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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If you are playing with a person of the same sex, enjoying it and have feelings of intense pleasure that happens during sexual activity. They make you orgasm / or you make each other orgasm. you are bisexual! xxxx Have fun xxx"

Simply put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you willingly touch the cock and its not an accident"

No, I merely tripped and steadied myself by grabbing hold of his plonker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out recently i enjoy mmf play, do i categorize myself as straight? Bi? None im just me. I dont find guys attractive wouldnt fuck or be fucked by another guy but have fuck licked, touched and received a double barrelled blow job/hj in a mmf session. I found it a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy touching or sucking a cock, regardless of whether it's attached to a man or a transwoman you are bisexual.

It's no big deal.

With regards to DP, I think a lot of men, who maintain they are straight, are getting off on the visuals of the woman in front of them being penetrated by two dicks at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it is entirely straight forward. Some people might think if you take part in dp or even dvp, then you must be bi because of close contact with cock and balls. Yet I know straight guys wwho enjoy dp. So you might think taking same sex oral or masturbation is bi, but others would say that is just bi-curious.

Its a case of satisfying my understanding of me. Woman turn my head, men don't, never have. Yet, I'm curious orally. Weird. I blame those damn beautiful Transgender woman."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same not attracted to guys at all, but I don't mind a cock getting close or a suck but I don't look at guys and am attracted but women well that's different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find everyone's so different on this. I've met guys who think being rimmed is "a bit gay", some won't indulge in MFM or DP for the same reason.

Then I know men who meet other men for sex yet still class themselves as straight because they wouldn't date a guy.

No need to label. Even if you do label, someone with another opinion will question you or say you're wrong

If it feels good, it's safe and consensual, then just roll with it

Not sure how two men can sleep together and consider themselves straight. But yes to the rest. "

Their argument being that they wouldn't date a man, just have sex with them.

Some of my gay friend's tell me I'm not bisexual because I don't look to date women.

I've come across so many varied views on it over the years.

SO many guys I've met who are listed as "straight" have messaged me privately to be involved in Bi MMF. They're still adamant they're straight though

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"I find everyone's so different on this. I've met guys who think being rimmed is "a bit gay", some won't indulge in MFM or DP for the same reason.

Then I know men who meet other men for sex yet still class themselves as straight because they wouldn't date a guy.

No need to label. Even if you do label, someone with another opinion will question you or say you're wrong

If it feels good, it's safe and consensual, then just roll with it

Not sure how two men can sleep together and consider themselves straight. But yes to the rest.

Their argument being that they wouldn't date a man, just have sex with them.

Some of my gay friend's tell me I'm not bisexual because I don't look to date women.

I've come across so many varied views on it over the years.

SO many guys I've met who are listed as "straight" have messaged me privately to be involved in Bi MMF. They're still adamant they're straight though "

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You're quite right, folks opinions on this question vary wildly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter, keep doing what your doing, don't label things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to all for contributing. I shall enjoy myself safely and of equal importance, upfront and honestly.

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