FabSwingers.com forum: 4 men wanted but whats the male view on g=bangs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a fantasy of niks is 4 men plus me,

what is the general male view on gang bangs?

she would chose who was to come to see her.

i can imagaine it been a nightmare to set up as getting the men you want on the day you want being very awkward.

can see it been easier to go chams on a friday and pick 4 and go to a private room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't force people to come when they are not available. If chams is the best option go for it

After all everybody has his preferences and that include day and time of availability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to set up but not impossible and 4 isn't that many so you shouldn't have to much bother..

Depends what you want for a gangbang.. for me I don't even need to fancy the guys to fuck them in that situation.. In fact in a club I would be lucky to even recognise them when downstairs having a drink.. I just assume the guy thanking me really has just played with me

It will be hard work to set up, but sometimes the best things take time and effort..

Be warned though, if she likes it then it can become addictive..

I love group play.. prefer it over one on one plays with meets..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

where does it say we are going to force people?i dont think you read my post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers cali,she is a bit fussy so would want to pick the men.but understand what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I tend to now go to the clubs and grab who I want..

That is sometimes the less hassle way but some nights I could find no one I actually feel like playing with.

But then other times I dont actually care.. lol I am odd at times.. I admit it..

Which ever way around you do it.. I find that most guys will look to the partner for assurance that its okay..

Have a good time..

and make it what you want.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We managed to set up a 4 man plus Luke gang bang in one day! It did take all day and lots of phone calls but it can be done!

We are looking to do another one now we have settled into new home!

Just takes time and patience, we also asked more men than we wanted, which was a good idea as 2 out of the 6 we invited let us down at the last minute!

Good luck with this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wel as Ive said on other gb threads...I'd always prefer somewhere wehere I'm not paying (contributing is something different), and it wasnt a mechanical gangbang.I like to have some level of mental contact with who I'm fucking.I hate the seriousness some people try to put into 'gangbangs'..in fact I fucking hate the terminology itself! lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the work for some people and don't work for others.... good luck to those that do, but they don't for me...

tried it more than once and like raise said.. just feels way too mechanical for me and i need some sort of connection rather then feeling the person in front of me is just a piece of meat... so to speak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love gangbangs, and have never felt like a piece of meet....

My choice that I'm there and love the attention of several men

Like Cali has said in many threads the guys are there for us as well as us being there for the guys so I get just as much out of it as the guys do who attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers cali,she is a bit fussy so would want to pick the men.but understand what you mean"

if we organise a gang bang we always pic guys we have already played with as they already know jane and most no each other from MMF meets we have had so much simpler to sort out this way and the fun lasts longer

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

that may well be the case... maybe it is just the unfortunate experiences that I have had at them where other guys have said stuff that has very much alluded to and outright said that.... and I have had to bite my lip more than once

the same I have had at greedy girl nights.... but like I said... I tried it, it wasn't for me...

again it may be me... but I think "some" guys attitude are for some reason different at gangbangs and greedy girl nights than they are at mixed nights.... and I am not sure why......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that may well be the case... maybe it is just the unfortunate experiences that I have had at them where other guys have said stuff that has very much alluded to and outright said that.... and I have had to bite my lip more than once

the same I have had at greedy girl nights.... but like I said... I tried it, it wasn't for me...

again it may be me... but I think "some" guys attitude are for some reason different at gangbangs and greedy girl nights than they are at mixed nights.... and I am not sure why......

paying money _abio lol....easy answer eh???lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck niknakuk, it does take a bit of organising but amazing fun when it works out.

No I have never felt like a piece of meat either, the guys have always been lovely.

Cali - interetsed in your club approach! Sounds like a good idea. So do you go around on your own to let the guys know who you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not taken part in a gangbang as l know it's just not for me. I have seen at first hand what it's like at Chams and l would just feel like a number, another cock and with no other connection. I respect others may like it but Cali's description and attitude to the men involved just makes it all very unappealing.

I would at least like the lady to know my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck niknakuk, it does take a bit of organising but amazing fun when it works out.

No I have never felt like a piece of meat either, the guys have always been lovely.

Cali - interetsed in your club approach! Sounds like a good idea. So do you go around on your own to let the guys know who you want?"

Its depends..if I am feeling picky.. I will grab a few guys.. talk to them.. then say.. you fancy coming and fucking me..

if I am feeling less picky.. I get on the bed with one or two.. and make it quite clear I want more.. and rarely refuse guys in that situation.. As in that mood I want cock.. and rarely look further up than that..

I dont ever feel like a piece of meat.. but have had guys tell me that they do at greedy girls nights.. but then its not something that all guys are into.

Some like a connection.. where as for me in the last scenario, its simply the hard cock and cum I am after..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not taken part in a gangbang as l know it's just not for me. I have seen at first hand what it's like at Chams and l would just feel like a number, another cock and with no other connection. I respect others may like it but Cali's description and attitude to the men involved just makes it all very unappealing.

I would at least like the lady to know my name"

I was at one last nite, I met nice people males and...female lol...we talked had laughs etc...in fact its mostly the only types Ive been to recently..u can be social in a gangbang without it being mechanical.I've taken some of my female friends to some or cpls I know were interested...I would be mortified if I invited some people to something that turned out with stale personalities and simply holegoal attitudes

maybe in scotland we have more of a friendly approach...maybe thats it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers cali,she is a bit fussy so would want to pick the men.but understand what you mean"

well let us know Mr would be well up for that, and bloody give me a break lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would at least like the lady to know my name"

Even one to one I rarely know a meets name.. lol the best thing about this life is its about what works for you.

I wouldnt want a gangbang where everyone was all teasing me..if I am having a gangbang for me its about the cock, the cum, the experience. I only like guys to play like that if they are into it too.. and you can tell..

The way I do it isnt how everyone does it.. some have maybe 4-5 guys and it will be kissing and touching.. and to be fair we have done a bit of that.. but for me 4-5 guys is just a good time and not a gangbang.. for me its 15 plus guys.

I dont remember names of people in general day to day life.. So no hope sexually.

I think to be fair what i do isnt a gangbang.. its a cock fest... where I just need more and more.. and get to the stage where I dont care who it is.. as long as the cock is hard, willing and wanting.. and going to cover me.

but that for me is what I like, it is what my master likes... and from the times I have played.. those watching and participating have enjoyed too..

but I also hear comments when I am in the clubs about "look at that slut"... I just smile and think.. "Hell yeah".

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be a lot of fun if you have the type of guys you want, and the time to organise one.

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields

I would at least like the lady to know my name"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore gangbangs...so wild and anything goes! I love the attention and the fact you don't know who's going to fucking uou next! Mmmm much prefer to individual meets now!

We go to a fab one once a month!

Mrs B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love gangbangs, and have never felt like a piece of meet....

My choice that I'm there and love the attention of several men

Like Cali has said in many threads the guys are there for us as well as us being there for the guys so I get just as much out of it as the guys do who attend

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

The swing room or orgy room at Chams are where R usually enjoys this sort of fun. Never had any shortage of willing men yet. Modesty prevents her from revealing her 'record' - more than you can count on one hand but a bit less than on two,

G's view as a male? Wonderful to see R the centre of attention, thoroughly enjoying herself and just abandoning herself to pleasure. Useful to be on hand to make sure the men all have condoms on, sometimes one will try it without. I always take part of course - and keep count!

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Know exactly how you feel! We have tried to set up meets like this - a GB with some quality guys and some socialising and it's really difficult as we've ended up expecting 6/7 guys and had2/3 turn up but still had fun!

From a guy's/husbands' pov it's amazing to see your wife thoroughly served by several men and also to take time out to chat with the guys while she's having fun - the ones we have done have been very relaxed and not at all 'fuck and go' which makes the men more relaxed too we think.

Good luck anyway XX

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

However many turn up I'm sure you'll still have a great time go for it mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to a few gangbangs and there are a mixture of attitudes from the men but found without exception the ladies pleasant and enjoying it. I just love to see a lady handling lots of cock aand in my mind she isnt a piece of meet but having fun. Like me

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would defo be up for that but only in your area on weekends, but got army friends that I could bring with me???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i think what we will do is arrange a day and put a meet up and go to chams on a friday and meet the men we have asked and go to a private room and get on with it.

will be next month or august xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my first GB as an 18 year old in the Army - 14th in line. Loved it. Many, many years later still lovin' it. Look, its about abandonment and debauchery but there are rules and provided the rules are known to everyone before the event then no one is going to come to grief.

Can I suggest you start slowly and build up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always look for 7 or 8 cos I think at least 50% won't turn up

I am more than happy to travel anywhere really as work all over the uk

Mark

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Have a look at thecockshop. Very interesting profile.

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