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"No I think its OK for them to be here. Neither of us have ever been near the top fabbed pages, it doesn't enter our heads really and we aren't meeting due to covid. We're still posting loads of pictures though. " we have just looked at you profile and love the pictures BTW....but i think you are a shining example loads of your pictures are very tastefully presented outdoors indoors , do you not post them on other Media like flickr etc where appreciation would better recieved | |||
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"No I think its OK for them to be here. Neither of us have ever been near the top fabbed pages, it doesn't enter our heads really and we aren't meeting due to covid. We're still posting loads of pictures though. we have just looked at you profile and love the pictures BTW....but i think you are a shining example loads of your pictures are very tastefully presented outdoors indoors , do you not post them on other Media like flickr etc where appreciation would better recieved" Thanks. We used to post on a voyeur and exhibitionist site which closed. We're not that bothered with getting more appreciation, hence not being concerned with being in hot pics. We're pretty realistic about what people really want to see and it's not a couple in their 60s . We're happy with how things are. It's more the thrill of posing and taking photos and the two messages we get when we post them | |||
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"It’s not against the rules is it? So I’d say leave them be, if that’s what they want to use this site for, that’s their right. " Not against it and not saying its wrong but its and not saying they shouldn't but it is fab swingers ..not fab exhibitionist..... just think if its your thing and i have to say some of the pictures are beautifully taken and tasteful that they would be better appreciated on sites for that purpose.......good to have the debate though | |||
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"Just like to here your thoughts ,we have noticed over the last few years there are more and more profiles on here who are on purely as exhibitionist to post pics of them posing, when you read there profiles ...they dont really meet....dont get me wrong we love looking but do you think its the wrong platform and maybe they should use Twitter or Flickr etc" I agree, after all it's a swinging site isn't it?? Not a ohh look how fit I am site. All there here for is to egoboost there confidence even more. I'd much rather see REAL people who swing in the most fabbed pictures who make an effort. | |||
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"Just like to here your thoughts ,we have noticed over the last few years there are more and more profiles on here who are on purely as exhibitionist to post pics of them posing, when you read there profiles ...they dont really meet....dont get me wrong we love looking but do you think its the wrong platform and maybe they should use Twitter or Flickr etc" Yes and no. There do seem to be a number of couples and females who are here only to post pics and have them fabbed/admired. May sound cruel but I generally just assume they’re people who didn’t make it as models but need the adulation. Having said that - I was on hot photos a lot myself once and being there can get quite addictive. I stopped because I’m here to meet/have sex - and being on hot photos too often can be a barrier to that (you get so many messages you don’t notice people who may be of interest!) The only ones who annoy me, though, are those who use hot photos to promote themselves and down the line - either here or on other sites - request money for sex, pictures, videos etc etc. I’m aware this is against site rules but admin can’t be everywhere and some obviously slip through the net! The many photoshopped ones make me sigh too - and to me shouldn’t be permitted. I have fleshy bits, saggy bits and wrinkles - all of which I hate - but if I ‘smoothed them out’ I’d effectively be lying to people about who I am! | |||
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"Just like to here your thoughts ,we have noticed over the last few years there are more and more profiles on here who are on purely as exhibitionist to post pics of them posing, when you read there profiles ...they dont really meet....dont get me wrong we love looking but do you think its the wrong platform and maybe they should use Twitter or Flickr etc Yes and no. There do seem to be a number of couples and females who are here only to post pics and have them fabbed/admired. May sound cruel but I generally just assume they’re people who didn’t make it as models but need the adulation. Having said that - I was on hot photos a lot myself once and being there can get quite addictive. I stopped because I’m here to meet/have sex - and being on hot photos too often can be a barrier to that (you get so many messages you don’t notice people who may be of interest!) The only ones who annoy me, though, are those who use hot photos to promote themselves and down the line - either here or on other sites - request money for sex, pictures, videos etc etc. I’m aware this is against site rules but admin can’t be everywhere and some obviously slip through the net! The many photoshopped ones make me sigh too - and to me shouldn’t be permitted. I have fleshy bits, saggy bits and wrinkles - all of which I hate - but if I ‘smoothed them out’ I’d effectively be lying to people about who I am! " If they're just posting pics and not meeting anyone it doesn't matter if they Photoshop their pics. | |||
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"I think it's wrong to judge at this time. For example, currently I'm mostly just posting photos. I'm not doing it to get "punters" or because I'm on any other platform, I'm not. It's just fun for me, I enjoy it. Because of covid I feel it's irresponsible to swing at the moment, but clearly from my verification status you can see I have met several men before lockdown. So while we're in this weird world, I've changed the way I use fab to give me the sexual buzz I crave, but in a safe way that doesn't put others at risk. No one should judge anyone else, especially at the moment. Just do your thing." | |||
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"I think it's wrong to judge at this time. For example, currently I'm mostly just posting photos. I'm not doing it to get "punters" or because I'm on any other platform, I'm not. It's just fun for me, I enjoy it. Because of covid I feel it's irresponsible to swing at the moment, but clearly from my verification status you can see I have met several men before lockdown. So while we're in this weird world, I've changed the way I use fab to give me the sexual buzz I crave, but in a safe way that doesn't put others at risk. No one should judge anyone else, especially at the moment. Just do your thing." Hi lovely. Tried to message you but I’m the wrong sex. You know I think you’re gorgeous so this is in no way a criticism/put down. I’m genuinely curious to know in what way you find posting pics - which are rightly very popular - a ‘sexual buzz’? I was on p1 a lot until earlier this year - and though I found it flattering there was certainly nothing sexual about the pleasure? | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say " I agree and I love your pix,madam | |||
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"I think it's wrong to judge at this time. For example, currently I'm mostly just posting photos. I'm not doing it to get "punters" or because I'm on any other platform, I'm not. It's just fun for me, I enjoy it. Because of covid I feel it's irresponsible to swing at the moment, but clearly from my verification status you can see I have met several men before lockdown. So while we're in this weird world, I've changed the way I use fab to give me the sexual buzz I crave, but in a safe way that doesn't put others at risk. No one should judge anyone else, especially at the moment. Just do your thing. Hi lovely. Tried to message you but I’m the wrong sex. You know I think you’re gorgeous so this is in no way a criticism/put down. I’m genuinely curious to know in what way you find posting pics - which are rightly very popular - a ‘sexual buzz’? I was on p1 a lot until earlier this year - and though I found it flattering there was certainly nothing sexual about the pleasure? " I guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so being 'seen' is a naughty thrill for me. Also most pics I post result in a little back and forth sexual flirtation with whoever kindly messages me, and that's always fun too. It's just that I can't meet anyone right now, or I don't feel it's right to, so this what I've chosen instead. No offense taken my dear, you seem quite lovely xx | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say " I agree, and people clearly love seeing your mischievous antics, so keep doing what you love! | |||
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"I think it's wrong to judge at this time. For example, currently I'm mostly just posting photos. I'm not doing it to get "punters" or because I'm on any other platform, I'm not. It's just fun for me, I enjoy it. Because of covid I feel it's irresponsible to swing at the moment, but clearly from my verification status you can see I have met several men before lockdown. So while we're in this weird world, I've changed the way I use fab to give me the sexual buzz I crave, but in a safe way that doesn't put others at risk. No one should judge anyone else, especially at the moment. Just do your thing. Hi lovely. Tried to message you but I’m the wrong sex. You know I think you’re gorgeous so this is in no way a criticism/put down. I’m genuinely curious to know in what way you find posting pics - which are rightly very popular - a ‘sexual buzz’? I was on p1 a lot until earlier this year - and though I found it flattering there was certainly nothing sexual about the pleasure? I guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so being 'seen' is a naughty thrill for me. Also most pics I post result in a little back and forth sexual flirtation with whoever kindly messages me, and that's always fun too. It's just that I can't meet anyone right now, or I don't feel it's right to, so this what I've chosen instead. No offense taken my dear, you seem quite lovely xx" And you know I think you’re gorgeous. As you said - we’re all doing what we can in shitty circumstances - so perhaps I was being hasty in my first post. I’ve never been an exhibitionist but know several - and I wish I could get that thrill in some respects. | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say " It’s your grin I like. I imagine you’re a fun person to share a bottle of wine with - though I’d worry what you might do with the empty bottle afterwards! | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say It’s your grin I like. I imagine you’re a fun person to share a bottle of wine with - though I’d worry what you might do with the empty bottle afterwards! " I agree - fabulous smile and always look like you're fun | |||
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"Just like to here your thoughts ,we have noticed over the last few years there are more and more profiles on here who are on purely as exhibitionist to post pics of them posing, when you read there profiles ...they dont really meet....dont get me wrong we love looking but do you think its the wrong platform and maybe they should use Twitter or Flickr etc" What’s wrong with loving your body and being an exhibitionist ? | |||
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"You can usually guess the who gets to the top 3 most days as its usually the same people day in day out. Its great looking at their pictures. I know some of them just add men to their friends only pics just so they can be liked every day " And I guess really, what's the harm being done? The guys get a ton of nudes to enjoy (and most are not forced into the friendships I have to say lol), and we get to be exhibitionists. Win win. | |||
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"You can usually guess the who gets to the top 3 most days as its usually the same people day in day out. Its great looking at their pictures. I know some of them just add men to their friends only pics just so they can be liked every day " I agree with kitty here. In my experience the guys always send the friend requests. As Kitty said - they have the pleasure of seeing extra friends pics. I doubt many are naive enough to believe that being accepted as a ‘friend’ will get them a meet! I don’t accept them these days as - now my kids are teenagers - I need to be cautious about who sees the ruder pics - but I used to! | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say I agree, and people clearly love seeing your mischievous antics, so keep doing what you love!" Thanks Kitty and likewise I love looking at yours and other people’s pictures, I appreciate a good picture whoever it belongs to | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say It’s your grin I like. I imagine you’re a fun person to share a bottle of wine with - though I’d worry what you might do with the empty bottle afterwards! " Lol Peachy, there is that!! | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say It’s your grin I like. I imagine you’re a fun person to share a bottle of wine with - though I’d worry what you might do with the empty bottle afterwards! I agree - fabulous smile and always look like you're fun " Thank you | |||
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"You can usually guess the who gets to the top 3 most days as its usually the same people day in day out. Its great looking at their pictures. I know some of them just add men to their friends only pics just so they can be liked every day And I guess really, what's the harm being done? The guys get a ton of nudes to enjoy (and most are not forced into the friendships I have to say lol), and we get to be exhibitionists. Win win." I am definitely not complaining at all. Especially something that is so easy on the eye. Keep up the good work haha x | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say " .....lol i do fab a lot of your pics ...but you do swing and you are players and yes we can see your oh Natural.....our point of the debate is the platform for posting pics if you dont meet? | |||
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"I post pictures and videos regularly as I enjoy taking them and sharing them with others to enjoy. These are from my meets or pictures I take of myself when I am feeling naughty and mischievous . Mine are never photoshopped and I am not on any other platform or here to promote myself for profit. For me it is about having fun and getting a kick out of how much others enjoy them, in the end if people don’t like them then they won’t fab them, so if people like seeing them then I think others should be able to do as they wish within the rules of the site, without being criticised for what they do. We all have our individual kicks and each to their own, I say .....lol i do fab a lot of your pics ...but you do swing and you are players and yes we can see your oh Natural.....our point of the debate is the platform for posting pics if you dont meet?" Lol, yes.... went off on a bit of a tangent there but the principal behind my thinking is the same and thanks for the Fabs | |||
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"Just like to here your thoughts ,we have noticed over the last few years there are more and more profiles on here who are on purely as exhibitionist to post pics of them posing, when you read there profiles ...they dont really meet....dont get me wrong we love looking but do you think its the wrong platform and maybe they should use Twitter or Flickr etc What’s wrong with loving your body and being an exhibitionist ? " The ones interested don’t get to meet them, I think that’s the issue. They’re frustrated. | |||
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"For me it gets totally inane with pics now saying ‘fab this pic if you fuck me xyz’. Just absolute attention seeking and dull Porn model’s shouldn’t be here - plenty of other platforms for that. It’s just gets boring " Anybody can be here as long as they’re not breaking the rules. Block who you don’t like. | |||
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