FabSwingers.com forum: No show meets

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

(pre covid times) You think it maybe an age related issue? Or it's too complicated to quantify and you just have to be 110% that who ever you chosen to meet?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

What is that a new thing now ??

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

"What is that a new thing now ??

No shows? Surely that's been occurring since the dawn of time?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Was a joke . Just pulling the leg do to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

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By *anhh4285Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

The opportunity to have a meet sorted would be nice.... not turning up is for idiots.

Like you said either married or possibly 84 years old

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead."

We’re go with dead I think or mad

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad "

Lucky you found someone to hold your interest for that long. Most on here are married and dead from the neck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad "

Oh you flatterer xxx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think you do have to be 110% especially as a single female

It surprised me but more and more I’ve heard this guys not turning up to meet females. Never happened to us but we won’t meet anyone singles or couples without a number and any signs of bullshit or hiding things I flesh them out and just bin them quickly.

Just call the person randomly early evening and ask what they’re doing , they will wither chat while they cook or avoid calls when with thier partner

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad

Oh you flatterer xxx"

Sorry it’s the beans

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By *cotsboyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead."

I’m going with married then there partner found out so have been killed and now dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

I’m going with married then there partner found out so have been killed and now dead

LOL.. Made me giggle.. But probably married or partner.. The amount of excuses I've been given for not handing out a number.. Well I'll probably write a book about it.. Oh yes and weirdos and no shows galore!!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad

Oh you flatterer xxx"

Just read you’re profile it’s very well written and I think you are going to be just fine there’s going to be a lot more men honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad

Oh you flatterer xxx

Just read you’re profile it’s very well written and I think you are going to be just fine there’s going to be a lot more men honestly. "

Thank you, I try to cover commonly asked questions and what I'm looking for, though I still get tryers from outside of the box. Yes, plenty more where he came from.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I think it will happen regardless. I've been ghosted after weeks of chat, presumed married or dead.

We’re go with dead I think or mad

Oh you flatterer xxx

Just read you’re profile it’s very well written and I think you are going to be just fine there’s going to be a lot more men honestly.

Thank you, I try to cover commonly asked questions and what I'm looking for, though I still get tryers from outside of the box. Yes, plenty more where he came from."

Indeed plus there’s all us fun people to banter with too

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I think you do have to be 110% especially as a single female

Just call the person randomly early evening and ask what they’re doing , they will wither chat while they cook or avoid calls when with thier partner "

surprised men decline sex.... or don't have the bottle to explain their absence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said that before I meet anyone I would prefer to have a chat with them on the phone phone and also a webcam nothing sexual just so I can see who they are and see if they are legit

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It’s always happening to me. Got cancelled on for today at midnight (fair enough he did let me know) but too late to rearrange anything now) and fully preparing myself for it to happen tomorrow too

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Wow !, still arranging meets !! Unbelievable really , especially if its for sex !

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Wow !, still arranging meets !! Unbelievable really , especially if its for sex !"

They were socials

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Ladies are at it too and they no show as well.

i think there are a lot of reasons..you only need to look at chat to realise how many "talk the talk" people are on fabs. in other words they are only here to fulfill a fantasy, or have a wank. Then there are the married folks who want to meet and then are either caught out by a partner or they panic or a family reschedule means they cant go out!. Then there are folks who are just weird...but on the whole there are a lot of good,sexy folks on here. stay safe

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

noone mentioned whether it's age related?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"noone mentioned whether it's age related? "

What’s your theory? My no shows have been between the ages of 25-45 but that’s who my main target group is really.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"noone mentioned whether it's age related?

What’s your theory? My no shows have been between the ages of 25-45 but that’s who my main target group is really. "

I just find the younger they are, the way more fickle they are as older people are more experienced and know exactly what they want etc

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"noone mentioned whether it's age related?

What’s your theory? My no shows have been between the ages of 25-45 but that’s who my main target group is really.

I just find the younger they are, the way more fickle they are as older people are more experienced and know exactly what they want etc"

I agree. Much less manners. Probably the age of the internet isn’t it. They know they can get a replacement at the swipe of a finger

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

You know I’m still in here read these right !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of no shows. I would agree that younger guys are less reliable xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's one of the reasons we don't "meet" but only play in clubs. No shows aren't a problem, you can see what you're getting before committing to play, and it's safer.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It's one of the reasons we don't "meet" but only play in clubs. No shows aren't a problem, you can see what you're getting before committing to play, and it's safer. "

Same for play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had more than our fair share of no shows and unlos. Dents your Confidence at first but just tend to let it wash over us now

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Personally I would never arrange to meet and not show up. There’s often a lot of getting ready and nerves and it would be very rude to simply not show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I had the chance I wouldn't let anyone down but that's the thing getting the chance

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

How rude is that?.. why go to all the effort of chatting to gorgeous lady, like yourself. Arrange a meet and not show up ?. Tossers and fantasists. Probably married. If they put that effort into their wives, they wouldn’t need a meet in the first place

Be a crime to let your sexiness go to waste OP

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I do think us married men are getting all the blame, somewhat unfairly. My wife has no issue and would know where I was. I think there are just as many single men who bottle it, it's a big step meeting a stranger for sex.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Nothing worse than chattin with someone then u arrange to meet up

N they shit out n dont show up

U feel a right dickhead thrn totally timewasted.

Probably married or got a partner just all full of talk but no action

Why the fuck be on here then especially if ur shaggin behibd ur partner.

Just shows u got no respect to thrm

Shame on all of u 2timin shits sgaggin behind ur partners

Spoils it for all the single people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time across the board

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I do think us married men are getting all the blame, somewhat unfairly. My wife has no issue and would know where I was. I think there are just as many single men who bottle it, it's a big step meeting a stranger for sex."

I have the confidence to know the ghosters weren't married... with girlfriend... difficult to really know for sure as so many profiles I seen on fab where I think they are single - actually aren't.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Happens all the time across the board"

Yes we know this.. the point of the thread is to analyse why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows are a fact of fab life. But as annoying as they are i can understand why. It actually takes a fair amount of bravery to turn up for a sex meet. Especially for women. Even men its difficult with performance anxiety hanging over them or tne guilt factor if they are cheating on a partner. Its that feeling of being judged in the flesh that scare them away as well. Or the pure fantasists who get off in it and never had any attention of meeting from the start

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"It’s always happening to me. Got cancelled on for today at midnight (fair enough he did let me know) but too late to rearrange anything now) and fully preparing myself for it to happen tomorrow too "

You had a social arranged for midnight! Past my bed time! However earlier in the evening no problem....

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

We did say 1 o’clock right ....????

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By *erAndHim777Couple
over a year ago

will meet in glasgow

I don’t think calling someone unannounced is fair. They could be with their children. We’ve had it happen to us and it was really infuriating.

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By *arkhorse12345Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Ha ha..married and likely dead lol

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I try to stick with men i like with alot of verification

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I try to stick with men i like with alot of verification "

Your other threads claim that you are having issues with men who are verified by other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna meet a ladie who's down for clean fun and make an effort for convosation and maybe fun age isn't a issue we all deserve fun and more

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I try to stick with men i like with alot of verification

Your other threads claim that you are having issues with men who are verified by other women. "

That's not true. I had an issue seeing a woman verifying him straight after me. Not because he had verifications as I met him based on his excellent verifications

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