FabSwingers.com forum: How to Stand Out

By *ongFun94 OP Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

That's honestly about all you can do.

Don't be disheartened by a lack of response, often people that don't reply, would in theory meet you,it's just timing and other factors that stop them taking in further.

You may find at another time you will have success

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

Try forum search? What annoys us wemon most is not reading and amount of times we answer these same questions yet men still don't take heed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What your doing is fine don't let it get you down.. I have my fair share of people not message me .

We cant be what everyone wants but I'm sure the right single or couple is out there for you .. just gotta stay confident

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

Sounds like your doing it right. Face pics and taking the time to read our profile and write a relevant message will always get a response from us even if it's a polite no thank you.

I realise so people get even more messages than us and dont even have the time to reply with a no.

I doubt you are doing anything wrong, there are just so many single guys on here people are able to have very strict criteria for exactly what they want.

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By *ongFun94 OP Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

"When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

Sounds like your doing it right. Face pics and taking the time to read our profile and write a relevant message will always get a response from us even if it's a polite no thank you.

I realise so people get even more messages than us and dont even have the time to reply with a no.

I doubt you are doing anything wrong, there are just so many single guys on here people are able to have very strict criteria for exactly what they want.

You guys have some amazing photos on your profile. I know mine are very limited at the moment but what sort of pictures does people like to see?

Not just full cock pics, but what sort of stuff would you think would go over well

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By *ngelShare18Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Always read the profile, tailor the message to the information on it. Never ever send a copied and pasted message that's obviously sent to everyone (it happens a lot).

Good luck

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"When it comes to sending the first message, what is the best way to stand out and grab someones attention?

Even more so when the messages at on a ratio of 1:5 of being read and unread.

I'm always sending a face picture with the message and always try to link the message to the profile, status or even a picture they have on there page

Sounds like your doing it right. Face pics and taking the time to read our profile and write a relevant message will always get a response from us even if it's a polite no thank you.

I realise so people get even more messages than us and dont even have the time to reply with a no.

I doubt you are doing anything wrong, there are just so many single guys on here people are able to have very strict criteria for exactly what they want.

You guys have some amazing photos on your profile. I know mine are very limited at the moment but what sort of pictures does people like to see?

Not just full cock pics, but what sort of stuff would you think would go over well "

We dont need to see loads, what you have is enough for us to make a decision as we can see face, body, cock and dress sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1:5 is a pretty good ratio.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best advice is be yourself and dont ask for advice alot of guys have the same boring profiles after asking advice just be your self inject that into your profile be you not someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really do much more. Honestly for me I think it's about timing as well. Sometimes I'll just bulk delete messages because I have so many to get through and just don't have the head for it. I know it means I may miss out on someone who could possibly be amazing but that's the chance I take. There's so many guys and for me that means so many messages

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