FabSwingers.com forum: Do any women actively message first on here?

By *har mouthful OP Man
over a year ago

london

I've met a few lovely people off of here and every single time it is because I've instigated it, do women go out looking? Or are they so bombarded with messages its hard enough keeping up with their inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience yes.

Because I never send messages to them.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I've met a few lovely people off of here and every single time it is because I've instigated it, do women go out looking? Or are they so bombarded with messages its hard enough keeping up with their inbox?"

interesting question and do those who say on their profile "we will find you dont message us"...Do they find folks??

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Yes I do from my single profile, we message first on couples one too if someone catches our eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I prefer to find what appeals to me and often use my filters to stop random guys approaching me and filling my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’d say so ...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always would message someone who excites me. Life is too short to sit on the fence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do,

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We have had a few reach out, typically with regards a photo or other element which then builds the conversation leading to opportunities.

If you mean had any woman messages us asking to fuck or meet now, then no.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Had a message from one yesterday.

Very nice too...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes, if someone's profile really attracts me they'll go on my hotlist until I have time to message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I do if I find someone interesting here .

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Yes

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By *ngelShare18Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We do, but very rarely if I'm being honest x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Yes, but remember they do have 8 million men to choose from on here!

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Have been known too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately if I try they think I’m fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M will send a message if the profile catches her eye, admittedly not often but administering the messages she gets is like a full time job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done a few times, sometimes it’s to thank for a wink, or if someone has viewed my profile to compliment them. Some are answered, some are ignored.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

As a Tgirl who’s not actively seeking a woman on here, I’ve had messages, often off the back of a forum post. So women do send messages but if you’re consistently moaning on the forums it won’t do your chances of receiving a message as some guys do on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we sure do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately if I try they think I’m fake

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How odd. They should be flattered.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I have been known to.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I’ve had a few so yes they do suppose it depends on how attracted to you they are.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I have.

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By *ithintemptationsCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We stopped messaging single fems as they get bombarded with them,occasionaly we get one or two, but after asking for a confirmation phone call to verify them,puff paff poof they magically disappear

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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My first meet I instigated and messaged him because I loved his pics/profile!

I do message people first, usually if they have a fun profile or I see them on the forums and feel like they are a good blether

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Yep, all of them...errr...some of them. Could be none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I have everyone blocked so I can find people on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get some from women but it’s quite rare.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I do all the time ..... just easier than working your way through the inbox.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I do all the time ..... just easier than working your way through the inbox. "

Oh the problems of life a

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

No. Hope someone proves me wrong one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I've sent a few first messages

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Sometimes yes

Can you message me for role play

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I do all the time ..... just easier than working your way through the inbox.

Oh the problems of life a

Hahaha 99% cock shots and nasty though

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Some definitely do.

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Passion will sometimes send a wink to a single guy when she's in the mood

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Devil here. I messaged Beast first on his single profile as I like how he was presenting himself on the forums and liked the look of his profile. Fast forward 2 years, we are still together, spending nearly every weekend together (apart from the pre-support bubbles part of lockdown, that was tough) even though it was very close to us never actually meeting. As I went and broke my knee, badly, about 2 days after that initial message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes they do. Then block when they see my face

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

And that was obviously when I had single account on here.

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

I do, but only women

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The clever ones do.

The dumb ones start multiple threads moaning about the amount of mail they get!

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

I send messages first too, got to work both ways

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They never stop messaging me. I get hundreds of messages a day, begging for my cock. It's exhausting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of my meets have been myself making contact first. You can get bogged down a little if you just respond but i message people that they totally fit the bill or appear humourous in their profile.

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