FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging ain’t easy

By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Cant be giving away top secret information like that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's not called Fab Easy Fucks. Or Fab Shag-me-quick. Swinging isn't that. Not sure you have the right idea about the site.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

Your profile says you get loads of messages?

I don't get what you last sentence means. Surely you understand that no one is obliged to meet with you?

If you're not getting any meets perhaps that's down to you, not the "girls."

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

I would happily tell you, but I’ll have to figure it out myself first

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......"

Maybe none of them think they are good enough for him?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......

Maybe none of them think they are good enough for him?"

Maybe he's not good enough for them?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......

Maybe none of them think they are good enough for him?"

Yeah maybe

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......

Maybe none of them think they are good enough for him?

Yeah maybe

I think that must be it

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Just looked at your profile and if that’s you in the pics then you will get thousands of women

I think you need the gift of the gab

Maybe be a bit more politely pushy

And sell yourself

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Just looked at your profile and if that’s you in the pics then you will get thousands of women

I think you need the gift of the gab

Maybe be a bit more politely pushy

And sell yourself

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......

Maybe none of them think they are good enough for him?"

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By *uiet LightMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

An interesting question OP - when you say "how do you get girls to meet you on here", what do you mean exactly?

Normally, I just open my front door and they've all arranged themselves into an orderly queue, is that not how it usually works?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

Did you expect it to be easy?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?"

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

1. You are 24

2. Nearly all the women are exactly that.....not girls.

3. Your profile says nothing about you.

4. You come across as self entitled. Just because you are on this site does not mean its instashag

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers "

Harsh lol.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol."

But is it true????

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"1. You are 24

2. Nearly all the women are exactly that.....not girls.

3. Your profile says nothing about you.

4. You come across as self entitled. Just because you are on this site does not mean its instashag "

Well said sparkle!

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????"

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

Perhaps it’s how you are putting yourself across.

Your profile shows a good looking lad. Yet I don’t think your portraying yourself in the way you might want. Your message doesn’t necessarily scream “ Decent guy who is respectful of other people’s circumstances” For example. It makes you sound impatient, which can be mistaken for sounding entitled.

You state that your in a relationship and get loads of messages yet you take ages to reply to people, it doesn’t come across as “I’m really busy but I promise I will reply” “it comes across as I’m a Jack the lad who will do what the hell I want and your all going to be hanging on my every last word”

Most people who are genuine on here would realise and respect that you have a life away from fab, however you can’t have your cake and eat it.

You don’t want to reply to people, you have a girlfriend which might put some people off, and then your comment really makes me feel like you just don’t have the right idea about why your here “Straight uuuuup” hardly necessary was it?

Are you sure you want to be on a swinging site? I wonder whether perhaps it’s you that has the wrong idea of what swinging is.

Sorry to be harsh, just saying what I see.

I don’t know you so I can’t say what your like in real life, this isn’t an attack on you as a person, but it’s an attack on the way you present yourself.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

"1. You are 24

2. Nearly all the women are exactly that.....not girls.

3. Your profile says nothing about you.

4. You come across as self entitled. Just because you are on this site does not mean its instashag

Well said sparkle!"

This! ??

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever thought that, maybe, it's not the girls "issue" , it's maybe....like.... Yours?? You come across as quite an angry little fella with ideas that us "girls" should just fall at your feet and give you the old "OMG yes, you make my ovaries pulsate with desire....., take me now and show me what ive been missing all these years"

Maybe another site will be better for you, seeing as you obviously have no idea how "us girls" work....

Anyhoooooo......

Best you get on with answering all those countless mails, no doubt offering you copious amounts of sex by the bucket load.....

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Perhaps it’s how you are putting yourself across.

Most people who are genuine on here would realise and respect that you have a life away from fab, however you can’t have your cake and eat it.

Are you sure you want to be on a swinging site? I wonder whether perhaps it’s you that has the wrong idea of what swinging is.

Sorry to be harsh, just saying what I see.

I don’t know you so I can’t say what your like in real life, this isn’t an attack on you as a person, but it’s an attack on the way you present yourself.

I’d be flattered this lady wrote you such a long and detailed piece of advice. You must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if anyone ever wants truth they only have to ask here

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Ever thought that, maybe, it's not the girls "issue" , it's maybe....like.... Yours?? You come across as quite an angry little fella with ideas that us "girls" should just fall at your feet and give you the old "OMG yes, you make my ovaries pulsate with desire....., take me now and show me what ive been missing all these years"

Maybe another site will be better for you, seeing as you obviously have no idea how "us girls" work....

Anyhoooooo......

Best you get on with answering all those countless mails, no doubt offering you copious amounts of sex by the bucket load.....

Ouch

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit "

Oh you cheeky thing you

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

I guess it's like anything else in life. You only get out, what you put in. I normally would say go to clubs and get to know people, but obviously this moment in time we can't. You need to make yourself standout, show respect and be patient towards the females you are wanting to entice, unfortunately they have the pick of the bunch and get many messages to sift through, some bulk delete so you may find your messages go unanswered majority of the time. I'm not sure whether this is helpful to you, just an honest opinion.

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By *oppyrose97Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Lol. We can tell you why, it's you

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

If you're not happy with the way things are going for you, probably best you try another site.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

Oh you cheeky thing you

As cheeky as the girls.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

Oh dear

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

"Perhaps it’s how you are putting yourself across.

Most people who are genuine on here would realise and respect that you have a life away from fab, however you can’t have your cake and eat it.

Are you sure you want to be on a swinging site? I wonder whether perhaps it’s you that has the wrong idea of what swinging is.

Sorry to be harsh, just saying what I see.

I don’t know you so I can’t say what your like in real life, this isn’t an attack on you as a person, but it’s an attack on the way you present yourself.

I’d be flattered this lady wrote you such a long and detailed piece of advice. You must be doing something right."
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I believe an educated answer can change a persons opinion on many things in the world. Thank you though.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Hilarious, has a girlfriend, gets to many messages to reply to them all straight away and complains he can't get a meet......"

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"It's not called Fab Easy Fucks. Or Fab Shag-me-quick. Swinging isn't that. Not sure you have the right idea about the site. "

This

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

Oh you cheeky thing you

As cheeky as the girls.....

You certainly are

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

Oh you cheeky thing you

As cheeky as the girls.....

You certainly are

I might also be a genius....what if, he got his mrs to be his p.a and answered all the girls mail innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

This mindset truly baffles and offends me!

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By *hy-Guy-86Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

Oh you cheeky thing you

As cheeky as the girls.....

You certainly are

I might also be a genius....what if, he got his mrs to be his p.a and answered all the girls mail innit? "

I see you have the brains as well as the looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your standards might be too high and the women you are approaching are intimidated by your looks......

Just follow the herd of men on here , and Try to act like a nice guy who is looking for a friend and long term swing partner.. Then after you get sex and a verification.... Go and find the next woman....

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp

Did you expect it to be easy?

of course, you just set up a "profile" innit, and the girls come filling inboxes with offers

Harsh lol.

But is it true????

You’d have to ask them ladies innit

Not sure bout them ladies, I'll ask the girls innit

Oh you cheeky thing you

As cheeky as the girls.....

You certainly are

I might also be a genius....what if, he got his mrs to be his p.a and answered all the girls mail innit?

I see you have the brains as well as the looks."

Naa just horrendously over tired and spouting nonsense

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed "

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy"

Yep think you’re right !!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy

Yep think you’re right !!

I guess this fab stuff is just not easy

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy

Yep think you’re right !!

I guess this fab stuff is just not easy "

Well especially if you lady’s don’t think of yourselfs as swingers it’s bound to get a little harder one imagines...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy

Yep think you’re right !!

I guess this fab stuff is just not easy

Well especially if you lady’s don’t think of yourselfs as swingers it’s bound to get a little harder one imagines...

ain't it the girls that make swinging hard though? The ladies know how to swing

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I guess I’ll never know why its not easy now as OP removed

Second comment down, I think writing the first also proved not so easy

Yep think you’re right !!

I guess this fab stuff is just not easy

Well especially if you lady’s don’t think of yourselfs as swingers it’s bound to get a little harder one imagines...

ain't it the girls that make swinging hard though? The ladies know how to swing

Hey so do men well some of us that is legs straight as start going forward right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green tick is your friend here, just saying.

Someone seems to upset that they can’t get instashag in the mornings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green tick is your friend here, just saying.

Someone seems to upset that they can’t get instashag in the mornings "

Green arrow even, my bad

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Green tick is your friend here, just saying.

Someone seems to upset that they can’t get instashag in the mornings "

I'm guessing the mrs isn't putting out

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Green tick is your friend here, just saying.

Someone seems to upset that they can’t get instashag in the mornings

Green arrow even, my bad "
lost me here

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Green tick is your friend here, just saying.

Someone seems to upset that they can’t get instashag in the mornings

Green arrow even, my bad lost me here

Press the green arrow next to names and it brings up a whole delightful kettle of fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Green arrow even, my bad lost me here

Clicking on the green arrow next to op’s name shows you their previous post history. Lots of requests for instant meetings in the morning and complaints that no one wants to meet at the drop of a hat

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Green arrow even, my bad lost me here

Right I’m with you now...! Was checking your one for a minute...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

Open your front door and invite the girl at the front of the queue in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don’t find it hard at all but agein I not looking for instashag

Mean I can get instashag if I wanted just replay to one off the 200 odd message I get a day from guys

But when it comes to woman my style is more wine dine chat and see whare the night takes us

If it leads to the bed room grate

If it dosent also grate I still going home with a smile on my face as I probably just had a amazing time with a very beautiful and sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless...another young guy who has no issues pulling in town on a Friday night signs up thinking it's instashag

OP...not all WOMEN are into the same things. Though certainly not ugly, you won't be everyone's cup of tea. You're also very young, so you'll probably be outside many age preferences. Not to mention the fact that a lot of ladies are simply not into guys who aren't single. There are 100s of men on here for every woman. You need to stand out.

You're not owed or entitled to anything. And in my experience, humour and respect will get you into far more knickers than a pretty face and a sense of entitlement.

You'd probably have more luck on tinder unless you rethink.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

"Perhaps it’s how you are putting yourself across.

Most people who are genuine on here would realise and respect that you have a life away from fab, however you can’t have your cake and eat it.

Are you sure you want to be on a swinging site? I wonder whether perhaps it’s you that has the wrong idea of what swinging is.

Sorry to be harsh, just saying what I see.

I don’t know you so I can’t say what your like in real life, this isn’t an attack on you as a person, but it’s an attack on the way you present yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get girls to meet you on here? Can’t believe that half of them even consider themselves swingers straight upppp"

Maybe they are fussy and sparing our feelings over the truth.

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By *incent switchMan
over a year ago

leeds

To be honest, this is my 2nd time round trying this site, I've been polite and used different tactics in messaging many women, and stil dont get any replies. Lots of guy offers tho

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

I apologise for offending anyone with what I said. It was a genuine no bars hold question. I have a girlfriend who is happy with what I do on here obviously I should make that clearer and I do speak to many women and have met quite a few but I feel as if this site in some senses is losing the essence of swinging as it becomes much more materialistic and personified.. however I bet this works for a lot of people and I was intrigued as to how they have adapted to this normality and thrived through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I apologise for offending anyone with what I said. It was a genuine no bars hold question. I have a girlfriend who is happy with what I do on here obviously I should make that clearer and I do speak to many women and have met quite a few but I feel as if this site in some senses is losing the essence of swinging as it becomes much more materialistic and personified.. however I bet this works for a lot of people and I was intrigued as to how they have adapted to this normality and thrived through it"

How can a website be materialistic?

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

The people.. not the website.. a lot more focused on material and physical things now instead of genuine connections and exploration

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"The people.. not the website.. a lot more focused on material and physical things now instead of genuine connections and exploration"

Can you please elaborate on what you mean by material and physical things please? Do you have any examples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people.. not the website.. a lot more focused on material and physical things now instead of genuine connections and exploration

Can you please elaborate on what you mean by material and physical things please? Do you have any examples? "

I was thinking the same.

I dont really understand what the OP means

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

On here there is so much choice and so many options.. it’s like shopping almost... I was a swinger way before anything like this and then it’s was much more spontaneous and uncoordinated.. not saying either is better or worse. Personally it’s just abit strange and abit awkward adapting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it too fast or you'll get a stomachache

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By *ot Rod70Man
over a year ago

Dunloy/Barcelona/Anywhere

"It's not called Fab Easy Fucks. Or Fab Shag-me-quick. Swinging isn't that. Not sure you have the right idea about the site. "

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"On here there is so much choice and so many options.. it’s like shopping almost... I was a swinger way before anything like this and then it’s was much more spontaneous and uncoordinated.. not saying either is better or worse. Personally it’s just abit strange and abit awkward adapting too"

You are 24 so it’s unlikely that you have been swinging since before sites such as this.

Just over an hour ago you were looking for sex but ‘CBA with messing‘ which hints that you are after just casual hook ups rather than the genuine swinging connection you claim to be be so versed in.

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

That’s me trying to adapt I guess.. I was involved in a big swingers union/cohort previously which had no logistics or real literacy.. plain and simple meet and greets that could be v interesting to say the least.. the fun of the uncertain and unknown seems to be lost now and for me personally I think it’s a real shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think OP, that perhaps you are neglecting to consider that people on here have lives, jobs and grown up responsibilities.

I very much doubt anyone would meet a random at 6am on a Sunday morning. Perhaps you thought Fab was like a catalogue? Where you choose what you want and its delivered in your time slot?

Oh, and then there's Coronapox, which is making fings a tad tricky

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"That’s me trying to adapt I guess.. I was involved in a big swingers union/cohort previously which had no logistics or real literacy.. plain and simple meet and greets that could be v interesting to say the least.. the fun of the uncertain and unknown seems to be lost now and for me personally I think it’s a real shame"

I want to be in a swingers union, it sounds epic.

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

Genuinely I’m just confused by it all now in all honesty n guess I need to just find my way or take guidance.. I don’t expect anything off anyone and never have but it’s real frustrating sometimes because you know people are shopping around like you say and there’s such a mass that it’s making people feel powerless and insignificant when they’re legitimately here for the ‘right’ reasons..

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"1. You are 24

2. Nearly all the women are exactly that.....not girls.

3. Your profile says nothing about you.

4. You come across as self entitled. Just because you are on this site does not mean its instashag "

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over a year ago

"Genuinely I’m just confused by it all now in all honesty n guess I need to just find my way or take guidance.. I don’t expect anything off anyone and never have but it’s real frustrating sometimes because you know people are shopping around like you say and there’s such a mass that it’s making people feel powerless and insignificant when they’re legitimately here for the ‘right’ reasons.."

People are here for many reasons.

They’re here for themselves rather than for you or anyone else.

Everyone, you included, is looking for something for them and if you get to be a part of it then you’ve done well.

Personally I like men rather than boys. No disrespect but you’re younger than my youngest child. My baby.

My preferences looks wise exclude you for several reasons. That’s not to say you’re not attractive, to some, you are. Just not to me.

Good luck with the search. Try to be patient and come across fas un. Many of us are looking for fun. I know I am.

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

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"1. You are 24

2. Nearly all the women are exactly that.....not girls.

3. Your profile says nothing about you.

4. You come across as self entitled. Just because you are on this site does not mean its instashag

Being 24 doesn’t mean I lack experience..

I’m looking for women and not ‘girls’

My profile is purposefully discreet

I’m looking for meaningful and rewarding experiences for both/all participants..

I really appreciate the feedback honestly. it just all seems so odd to me how people go about this recently.. feels slightly like a glorified tinder from my perspective instead of a legitimate swingers site.. again I’m not in a swingers relationship so really it’s slightly implausible in any case lol

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

polesworth

People are here for many reasons.

They’re here for themselves rather than for you or anyone else.

Everyone, you included, is looking for something for them and if you get to be a part of it then you’ve done well.

Personally I like men rather than boys. No disrespect but you’re younger than my youngest child. My baby.

My preferences looks wise exclude you for several reasons. That’s not to say you’re not attractive, to some, you are. Just not to me.

Good luck with the search. Try to be patient and come across fas un. Many of us are looking for fun. I know I am.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be in a swingers union, it sounds epic. "

I don't think I'd get into the union

I'm just here to collect pics and get blocked.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Op, taking your shopping analogy. Your profile is your shop window. If you dress it properly and inviting, people will stop, look and hopefully enter. Then it's all about the goods you sell.

But is your shop Poundland or Harrods?

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I want to be in a swingers union, it sounds epic.

I don't think I'd get into the union

I'm just here to collect pics and get blocked."

Let’s start our own union then. Do you prefer to collect digital pics or are you happy with Polaroids?

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By *read OP Man
over a year ago

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Either way I mean no offence to anyone! We’re all here for fun at the end of the day and how that comes to fruition is nobody’s business! Everyone looks at this slightly differently from one another and it’s very contentious anyway. Love and blessings to all. Again apologies if I expressed something that you considered incorrect or unjust. I’m learning and have a lot kore learning to do

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over a year ago

I want to be in a swingers union, it sounds epic.

I don't think I'd get into the union

I'm just here to collect pics and get blocked.

Let’s start our own union then. Do you prefer to collect digital pics or are you happy with Polaroids? "

Polaroids will be grand

My Nokia 3310 has no camera, so i need to sort that as i want women to take me seriously.

Times are hard

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Either way I mean no offence to anyone! We’re all here for fun at the end of the day and how that comes to fruition is nobody’s business! Everyone looks at this slightly differently from one another and it’s very contentious anyway. Love and blessings to all. Again apologies if I expressed something that you considered incorrect or unjust. I’m learning and have a lot kore learning to do

You don’t have to apologise to anyone. You wanted to say something and you did. That’s what other people do.

I hope you find a way of enjoying the site

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

I want to be in a swingers union, it sounds epic. "

Bit what if all the guys decide to strike and down tools?

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