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"Hi All, Obviously not for the immediate future of course, but trying to gauge interest for the future. Who would be interested in attending a private party at a Midlands address ? Thinking a mixture of couples , single women and LIMITED and vetted single men. Comments below "And how does the vetting take place? | |||
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"Hi All, Obviously not for the immediate future of course, but trying to gauge interest for the future. Who would be interested in attending a private party at a Midlands address ? Thinking a mixture of couples , single women and LIMITED and vetted single men. Comments below
And how does the vetting take place? "It requires the single gentleman to provide 2 references with either couples or singles they have played with before either at clubs or privately to be independently verified | |||
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"Is there a criteria? xx" The criteria for couples is simply to play safe and to enjoy themselves | |||
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"Hi All, Obviously not for the immediate future of course, but trying to gauge interest for the future. Who would be interested in attending a private party at a Midlands address ? Thinking a mixture of couples , single women and LIMITED and vetted single men. Comments below
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It requires the single gentleman to provide 2 references with either couples or singles they have played with before either at clubs or privately to be independently verified "In writing or in person? | |||
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"Will there be cake and balloons? "If there are no balloons then I’m not cumming. | |||
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"Is there a criteria? xx The criteria for couples is simply to play safe and to enjoy themselves " Cool xx | |||
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"Hi All, Obviously not for the immediate future of course, but trying to gauge interest for the future. Who would be interested in attending a private party at a Midlands address ? Thinking a mixture of couples , single women and LIMITED and vetted single men. Comments below
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It requires the single gentleman to provide 2 references with either couples or singles they have played with before either at clubs or privately to be independently verified "Good idea....our experience and that of others we know who organise parties is that guys don’t show up so character references are absolutely essential because you need to grantee they will show up. It seems to work well with a group dinner or dinner part the night before to get acquainted otherwise it can be a bit wired and quite hard work for the host | |||
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"Hi All, Obviously not for the immediate future of course, but trying to gauge interest for the future. Who would be interested in attending a private party at a Midlands address ? Thinking a mixture of couples , single women and LIMITED and vetted single men. Comments below
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It requires the single gentleman to provide 2 references with either couples or singles they have played with before either at clubs or privately to be independently verified "I'd possibly consider it | |||
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"Can everyone who is interested , please message me in private , and what is everyone's preference as per a group chat ? Kik or WhatsApp? " Id prefer Kik xx | |||
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"Right for all SINGLE GENTS contacting me regarding parties , you must meet the following criteria before even being considered . 1)Have been a member for longer than 3 months ( no 2 week terminators please) 2) must have been verified by at least 2 PHYSICAL meets either privately or at a club , and be able to provide 2 of these as references to your character. 3) if you request a place on the next party and fail to show , that isn't a problem , but you will be blacklisted from attending again ( this might seem harsh , but as im sure you can imagine these events take a great deal of time, planning and cost to be successful and to make sure everyone has a good time ) " Just to be clear- our verifications can be use as a reference. It's not necessary to get additional testimonials from.those we have met? | |||
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"Right for all SINGLE GENTS contacting me regarding parties , you must meet the following criteria before even being considered . 1)Have been a member for longer than 3 months ( no 2 week terminators please) 2) must have been verified by at least 2 PHYSICAL meets either privately or at a club , and be able to provide 2 of these as references to your character. 3) if you request a place on the next party and fail to show , that isn't a problem , but you will be blacklisted from attending again ( this might seem harsh , but as im sure you can imagine these events take a great deal of time, planning and cost to be successful and to make sure everyone has a good time ) " Fab won’t allow us to display previously hidden verifications at the moment. Can send through a screenshot of the verification page. | |||
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"Feel free to send me your details in private " Is that wise just yet | |||
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"As the beginning of the thread says this is not organising a party for now , just simply seeing who would be interested in attending when safe to do so" Ok I didn't see x | |||
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"As much as I'd love to show guest lists to everyone , there would need to be a consensus from those attending if they wanted to be known prior to the party, " That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? | |||
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"As much as I'd love to show guest lists to everyone , there would need to be a consensus from those attending if they wanted to be known prior to the party, That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? " Criteria in what sense hight age body size? | |||
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"As much as I'd love to show guest lists to everyone , there would need to be a consensus from those attending if they wanted to be known prior to the party, That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? Criteria in what sense hight age body size?" Why not? We have age preferences etc on here, so it's not unusual. | |||
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" That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? Criteria in what sense hight age body size? Why not? We have age preferences etc on here, so it's not unusual. " By N.V_85 OP Man just this minute! Northampton Whilst I understand your thought here , there will be a mix of different people of all shapes sizes and proclivity at any event that i run , and if i were to focus on only one particular type or body size of person then that would be ostracise everyone that doesn't fit those specifications, and focusing on one couples needs and wants above everyone else wouldnt be fair . Yes you have a specific type , but that isn't to say that of the 8-10 couples attending everyone will be looking for exactly the same thing . | |||
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" That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? Criteria in what sense hight age body size? Why not? We have age preferences etc on here, so it's not unusual. By N.V_85 OP Man just this minute! Northampton Whilst I understand your thought here , there will be a mix of different people of all shapes sizes and proclivity at any event that i run , and if i were to focus on only one particular type or body size of person then that would be ostracise everyone that doesn't fit those specifications, and focusing on one couples needs and wants above everyone else wouldnt be fair . Yes you have a specific type , but that isn't to say that of the 8-10 couples attending everyone will be looking for exactly the same thing . " It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. | |||
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" It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. " My apologies for making that assumption These details would always be published pre event in a private message so that everyone is not going blind into a situation, my concern was posting specific profile details of attendees to individuals but yes effectively these could be published for everyone to see | |||
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" It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. My apologies for making that assumption These details would always be published pre event in a private message so that everyone is not going blind into a situation, my concern was posting specific profile details of attendees to individuals but yes effectively these could be published for everyone to see " Are you going to invite me | |||
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" That's fair. Do you gave a guest list criteria in mind in that case? Criteria in what sense hight age body size? Why not? We have age preferences etc on here, so it's not unusual. By N.V_85 OP Man just this minute! Northampton Whilst I understand your thought here , there will be a mix of different people of all shapes sizes and proclivity at any event that i run , and if i were to focus on only one particular type or body size of person then that would be ostracise everyone that doesn't fit those specifications, and focusing on one couples needs and wants above everyone else wouldnt be fair . Yes you have a specific type , but that isn't to say that of the 8-10 couples attending everyone will be looking for exactly the same thing . " Very true xx | |||
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" It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. " and the assumption that is based on you wanting to know what people look like is Based also on your profile ( I wont direct quote) it seems that you have minimum criteria as to the attractiveness of whom you meet, that isn't an issue at all, whatever gets your motor running. But the essence of these parties is to bring together people from all different backgrounds and facilitate them meeting , it doesn't mean that anyone is under any obligation to play at these events , but should anyone find someone who they do wish to play with then, I consider that a success . | |||
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" It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. and the assumption that is based on you wanting to know what people look like is Based also on your profile ( I wont direct quote) it seems that you have minimum criteria as to the attractiveness of whom you meet, that isn't an issue at all, whatever gets your motor running. But the essence of these parties is to bring together people from all different backgrounds and facilitate them meeting , it doesn't mean that anyone is under any obligation to play at these events , but should anyone find someone who they do wish to play with then, I consider that a success ." | |||
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" It's really interesting that there appears to have been an assumption about us wanting to know what people look like... Having been judged on what we look like. We'd prefer to know age ranges and how many single men are invited. Like you would in a club. The right mix of people anywhere is important to us and we choose on that basis. Just as you choose who attends. and the assumption that is based on you wanting to know what people look like is Based also on your profile ( I wont direct quote) it seems that you have minimum criteria as to the attractiveness of whom you meet, that isn't an issue at all, whatever gets your motor running. But the essence of these parties is to bring together people from all different backgrounds and facilitate them meeting , it doesn't mean that anyone is under any obligation to play at these events , but should anyone find someone who they do wish to play with then, I consider that a success ." Solid 7/10s...if people can't see it as a joke then it's probably best they give us the swerve, as we would them  | |||
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"Hi All, can everyone please send me their kik / WhatsApp details again as I've managed to accidentally delete my inbox "We don’t do kik or WhatsApp so just update us either on this thread or pm. | |||
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