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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts are so funny. As if in the real world a guy could go up to a woman and say 'so how would you like me to chat you up'.

Everyone is different, people are looking for different thing. I think these kind of questions are an indication that some guys think there is some kind of magic formula.

You have to gauge the situation as it happens and the person you are talking to. That's your job if your the one making contact and you can't expect anyone else to do the work for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"These posts are so funny. As if in the real world a guy could go up to a woman and say 'so how would you like me to chat you up'.

Everyone is different, people are looking for different thing. I think these kind of questions are an indication that some guys think there is some kind of magic formula.

You have to gauge the situation as it happens and the person you are talking to. That's your job if your the one making contact and you can't expect anyone else to do the work for you.

"

couldn't agree more. Women are all different and will appreciate an approach based on what you've read in their profile.

Personally a message that says "shall we fuck?" has us reaching for the delete button but that's just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion"

Romance on a swinging site?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk? "

I like direct.....it is welcome if it is polite and straight to the point.

This is not to be confused with " I want to fuck you" mails though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"These posts are so funny. As if in the real world a guy could go up to a woman and say 'so how would you like me to chat you up'.

Everyone is different, people are looking for different thing. I think these kind of questions are an indication that some guys think there is some kind of magic formula.

You have to gauge the situation as it happens and the person you are talking to. That's your job if your the one making contact and you can't expect anyone else to do the work for you.

"

Oh spot on!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk?

I like direct.....it is welcome if it is polite and straight to the point.

This is not to be confused with " I want to fuck you" mails though."

...or the "how r u?" type either.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk?

I like direct.....it is welcome if it is polite and straight to the point.

This is not to be confused with " I want to fuck you" mails though.

...or the "how r u?" type either."

Yep, they bore me too as an initial mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion"

Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk?

I like direct.....it is welcome if it is polite and straight to the point.

This is not to be confused with " I want to fuck you" mails though."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Do you like your mails on the site to be direct and to the point or prefer small talk? "

Depends....think that there is room and a time and place for both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion

Romance on a swinging site?

"

Why not????

Ok: Fancy meeting???? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, some people here are inconsistent with their wants and desires which means what they want to see in a message changes too. Sometimes you did everything right but you caught them on a bad day. Shit happens.

In the "real world," you can smile across a room at someone, walk over, make a joke about bar and the people in it, introduce yourself and then see where the night takes you!

There seems to be a formality in the way some people to be approached and the reason why people ask is because the process bears a stronger resemblance to applying for a job than getting to know someone.

As for romance, that's a completely different topic for another day...

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

A filthy, erotic first message is a high risk option, I think. If I fancy the arse off you then it is most welcome. If I don't, then it's really not...but how can you possibly know?

And I don't mean 'wanna fuck?'...that's not erotic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, some people here are inconsistent with their wants and desires which means what they want to see in a message changes too. Sometimes you did everything right but you caught them on a bad day. Shit happens.

In the "real world," you can smile across a room at someone, walk over, make a joke about bar and the people in it, introduce yourself and then see where the night takes you!

There seems to be a formality in the way some people to be approached and the reason why people ask is because the process bears a stronger resemblance to applying for a job than getting to know someone.

As for romance, that's a completely different topic for another day... "

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"If I were a lady, I won't accept any man dropping the : hey wanna shag???

Sex site yes. But nothing wrong with a normal romance talk even if at the end it may be let shag when we get on and can

Just my opinion

Romance on a swinging site?

Why not????

Ok: Fancy meeting???? lol"

Because it isn't a dating site where people would look for romance

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