FabSwingers.com forum: What gets you interested in meeting someone?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, pretty face, matching personality and an arse I would like to rim

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Humour , great conversation and chemistry

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A well written profile which both excites and intrigues me with a selection of good pics is a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we connect on a friendship level just as quickly as a sexual level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A well written profile which both excites and intrigues me with a selection of good pics is a good start."

I agree definitely with the profile, a one liner doesn’t do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

It’s got to be fucking great sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract, profile mmm hit n miss, could be the best written one on here but not written in earnest. Ultimately its how you get on chatting then face to face, if things don't align then it's not going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

It’s got to be fucking great sex! "

You have to actually meet them first to find that out

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Humour, height, same wavelength...

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Initially profile pics backed up by an interesting profile. If there’s humour and a connection after contact, who knows where it will lead? It’s often fun finding out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that answers with a sentence and not one word answers..

Someone genuinely interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathing

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Someone that sparks my interest and engages my brain x

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

Humour goes a long way. Warm, friendly and a hint of naughtiness are good too.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

love an old fashion gentleman,laid back, funny, kinky and sexy ideally with a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say the first priority for me is that they send a message that show they have read my profile and understand what I/we want from a meet, then I can reciprocate that in my reply and talk about their needs. Sadly many people want to meet because they like our pics and they have none, one guy wants to meet me as he passes my house every day and assumes that is a good reason. Not going well for him is it? Tasmin

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pics first that suggest we’d be attracted, especially if we get the idea they’ve been taken thoughtfully...and if they suggest a hint of kink, even better!

Then it’s a sense from how the profile or message is written. If that’s thoughtful too then straight away there is interest. Not to meet initially, but to chat on the phone to see if we might like to meet, certainly.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

A quick wit and someone who can engage in good conversation, physically I'm a sucker for eyes and thighs lol Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"love an old fashion gentleman,laid back, funny, kinky and sexy ideally with a big cock"

Haha a woman after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to say the first priority for me is that they send a message that show they have read my profile and understand what I/we want from a meet, then I can reciprocate that in my reply and talk about their needs. Sadly many people want to meet because they like our pics and they have none, one guy wants to meet me as he passes my house every day and assumes that is a good reason. Not going well for him is it? Tasmin"

Think he needs to put a bit more effort in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Breathing

that’s a great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence, humour and charisma go a long way.

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If they say they wear nice underwear and nylon.

And obviously kind and honest xx

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Different things from different people

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Chemistry and able to have a giggle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

It’s got to be fucking great sex!

You have to actually meet them first to find that out

So true but thats what we’re here for?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

It’s got to be fucking great sex!

You have to actually meet them first to find that out

So true but thats what we’re here for? "

What makes you want to have sex with them for the first time though?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

For me its a handsome face on someone who's not boring.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Someone who realises its casual easy going fun. NOT pushy. I hate pushy single guys

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Personality.

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Mutual attraction, conversation, flirts, effort

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Someone that has a great sense of humour and a nice conversation

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Looks, Good communication, can accommodate, relaxed and a nice looking cock.

- Lily

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

It’s got to be fucking great sex!

You have to actually meet them first to find that out

What?? Why wouldn't you just trust them when they say they are?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot pics and then if they are sound

I love the build up then and then get to spoil her in person

Had a few couples message me with terrible attitudes. Such a turn off that is, i just leave that alone

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Could be a number of things.

A comment on the forum.

Something on their profile.

Pictures.

They have sent a message and it sparks a good conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

- effort

- conversation

- if I’m waiting for their message I know it’s a good sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be a number of things.

A comment on the forum.

Something on their profile.

Pictures.

They have sent a message and it sparks a good conversation."

Oh yes i like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

You have lovely lips

(Knees are shaking)

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off

Can you define arrogant?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A well written profile with recent nice pics which aren't mainly genitalia. Some genuine veris. Then a message of more than a few words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off

Can you define arrogant? "

Sure can

Send abrupt messages, what they want with a rude entilteld tone

And also demanding i pay for the hotel

As if they can talk to any single male like that

Thoughts on that?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Arrogant couples......also a huge turn off

Can you define arrogant?

Sure can

Send abrupt messages, what they want with a rude entilteld tone

And also demanding i pay for the hotel

As if they can talk to any single male like that

Thoughts on that?"

Yep, it doesn't sound like us!

I admit I find it hard to shake of the... Power dynamic... That he should be trying to impress us initially rather than us trying to appeal to him before we know anything useful about him. Hopefully given our profile shows so much about who we are that's not a bad thing...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

conversation flow and common interests after the initial physical attraction.

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Humour and Conversation!

You can look like the hottest, sexiest, most desirable person/s in the world, but if you have less charisma than a plank of wood - we probably won’t follow up your message!

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Good convos and holding a convo too... And nice teeth and smile

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Good sense of humour

Could be something said on the forum or in their profile

Entices me to know more..

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By *readMan
over a year ago

polesworth

Has anyone got some legitimate tips on getting girls to meet?.. seems impossible most the time tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone got some legitimate tips on getting girls to meet?.. seems impossible most the time tbh"
be a millionaire

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By *readMan
over a year ago

polesworth

Obvious and genuine answer but sadly I doubt 90% in not more can provide that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Mine is humour and a sexy mouth

You have lovely lips

(Knees are shaking)"

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good convos and holding a convo too... And nice teeth and smile

Teeth are always good

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By *readMan
over a year ago

polesworth

Any guys think girls are WAYYY too picky considering they think they’re swingers or just me?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great smile

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Connection, chemestry , honesty and trustworthy all this leading to a friendship

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By *readMan
over a year ago

polesworth

All these girls and buys talking about connection and generally personal chemistry.. get yourselves out and explore dating that was.. swingers like to do things inconceivable but also very controlled and pre established

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Connection, eyes, lips, curves.

In that order

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