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Key to getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, what’s the key to getting a meet?

What do people look for when searching for a meet? And what turns you off meeting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wise Swedish man told me that patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A connection, people ask for a meet within the first message is such a turn off. If there is attraction there there then chat and get to know each other see if there is chemistry or a connection that can be built. Then you will want to meet that person if there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile before messaging.

Reference any shared interests.

Properly introduce yourself.

Be polite.

Put effort into your message.

Share a face picture/other pics if there are none on your profile.

Address a couple as a couple.

DECENT SPELLING AND GRAMMAR. Nobody wants to fuck someone who types lyk dey r a chyld.

Do all of that and, if there is an attraction, you should have a good chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read their profile before messaging.

Reference any shared interests.

Properly introduce yourself.

Be polite.

Put effort into your message.

Share a face picture/other pics if there are none on your profile.

Address a couple as a couple.

DECENT SPELLING AND GRAMMAR. Nobody wants to fuck someone who types lyk dey r a chyld.

Do all of that and, if there is an attraction, you should have a good chance."

Second all that and no dick pics until you are chatting, pref after asking if they would like one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could also wait for meets to be allowed again... Might have more success then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key to getting a meet is being devilishly handsome, ladies just can't help themselves

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By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

Portslade/porthmadog

Make a miniature model of a sky remote

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Waiting until it's safe

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Sometimes when choosing meets we have chatted for weeks before meeting them Sometimes it has just been timing they have been looking when we have been looking we don't have a type variety is spice of life

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Effort, patience and being yourself. Reading a profile in detail.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"The key to getting a meet is being devilishly handsome, ladies just can't help themselves "

Pretty much, yes....

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Effort, patience and being yourself. Reading a profile in detail.

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This... plus for us, it’s engaging us as a couple, not just Becky. Especially if you’re after a bi threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection and chat

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Patience, politeness at first.. build a connection, make her laugh, make her smile. Make her feel desired, wanted. Original messages, copy n paste is no effort at all. If you wouldn’t say it to her in a pub, don’t say it on here. The old “ fancy a fuck or wanna smash your back doors in” is about as sexy as getting slapped by a semi defrosted haddock

I think the biggest sexual organ on a lady is her mind. You need to turn her mind on before anything else.

Be honest, coz if you slip up, she will know instantly. And all your effort counts for jack shit.

Competition for ladies is huge on here, just be yourself. Good luck , fellow fabber

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

If they are demanding, or there bio is nothing but a rant with 1000s on do nots (there profile so they can write what they like) . But then and we probably wouldn't have much of a conversation with these kinds of people. Also if they are come across as self Centred or a bit of a ego maniac then that will be a thanks but no thanks from us

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