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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If you snooze you lose!

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey


"If you snooze you lose!"

Very true. Lovely profile guys would love to meet you for some outdoor fun and pic taking xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue"

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Did they tell you thats why they blocked or are you assuming which ever way it means they no longer want contact from you. Guess good looking guys can have the pick of the bunch and dont need to wait around

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies "

These guys just don't get that most women can couples jave a life outside of swinging and that this is purely for there enjoyment when they want it. Some guys never get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno, never had it happen to me, and I take ages to reply

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

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over a year ago


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By *inchthickMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue"

I hate the way people just block you on this site. I don’t have this problem when I chat with guys but a few times it’s from straight/bi couples.The last one had been pestering me for a face pic, coaxing me with lots of dirty chat, then we I did she blocked me! (I’ve got plenty of public naked pics) I’ve been told I’m pretty handsome but this just makes you feel like shit! I don’t meet a lot of women (usually just play with men). I’d like to but behaviour like this really puts me off. Maybe single women are better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

How do you know that’s the reason ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies "

And? I’ve been blocked for many reasons, way more mundane than taking too long to reply. It doesn’t matter. Would you want to meet someone that impatient anyway?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes it takes me weeks to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

How do you know that’s the reason ?"

That’s nearly 5 minutes *looks at watch*

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies "

yes you could have been in the shower or any of the other things you mention but these men wanted an instant response, you weren't in a position to respond instantly for whatever reason. You aren't compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I’m just grateful if I get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the features of the site are for everyone to use as they see fit, can't say I've had this problem and think it's a bit off to make assumptions they are being egotistical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx"

No they don't.... What is it with assumptions. If a woman blocks its her choice if I guy does it he thinks he's gods gift?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

It is within anyone’s gift to use the block as they wish. Why care?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx

No they don't.... What is it with assumptions. If a woman blocks its her choice if I guy does it he thinks he's gods gift? "

Cause men are shit, and women are amazing. Obviously. That’s what my white knight tells me anyway?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

They may not be impatient.. maybe something put them off ? ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno, never had it happen to me, and I take ages to reply "

That’s because you’re so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx

No they don't.... What is it with assumptions. If a woman blocks its her choice if I guy does it he thinks he's gods gift? "

Totally agree!!!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

You snooze you loose, them hot men they got things to do, they cant be waiting round for them replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you aren't monitoring your inbox at all times every day Jas? Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

I didn’t block you xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Happened to us. Didn't care. Next!!

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Its mostly women or couples up there own arse i find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx

No they don't.... What is it with assumptions. If a woman blocks its her choice if I guy does it he thinks he's gods gift?

Cause men are shit, and women are amazing. Obviously. That’s what my white knight tells me anyway?!"

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies "

We are in an age where everything is available on demand, people won't wait 5 minutes for a response.

Just like people can block you, without needing to give a reason.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Did they tell you thats why they blocked or are you assuming which ever way it means they no longer want contact from you. Guess good looking guys can have the pick of the bunch and dont need to wait around"

Good looking people - men or women - don't have to wait around for whatever they're looking for. If you don't want to / can't give what they want or expect, they can soon find someone else who can / will

It's only us uglier people who have to wait around, or use wit and personality to ensnare someone, or capitalise on the other person’s fear of dying alone....

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies

We are in an age where everything is available on demand, people won't wait 5 minutes for a response.

Just like people can block you, without needing to give a reason."

modern mentality sucks lol I remember the days where we used to pay phone booths and pagers

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By *inchthickMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Its mostly women or couples up there own arse i find"

So true! I talk to men and women and couples are the worst!

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By *inchthickMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Its mostly women or couples up there own arse i find"

So true! I talk to men and women and couples are the worst!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Sucks to be blocked hai na

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

It was just the one time woman!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

If this is because I blocked you I'm sorry but you know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its cos they are fake and really ugly women pretending to be men I thought everyone new that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they are just self filtering on your behalf?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Its cos they are fake and really ugly women pretending to be men I thought everyone new that. "

Why ugly women pretending to be a man?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Surely they are just self filtering on your behalf? "

Yes that's definitely the positives. I can't be doing with really impatient people

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

If this is because I blocked you I'm sorry but you know why "

again no clue why you did... we never spoken before etc

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Sucks to be blocked hai na "

Being blocked isn't the issue... is being blocked extremely quick before I could get a chance to reply as I actually was interested but just didn't have the right time to reply properly. I don't like rushing responses

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"You mean you aren't monitoring your inbox at all times every day Jas? Blocked "

I'm sorry you feel that way about me... I need to drop everything for every man who messages me...

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Well, at least I know I’m not one of those annoying really physically handsome chaps! Phew!

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I had a newbie guy block me last night because I wouldn't go on WhatsApp to verify I was real.

Guys who come on here demanding stuff never stay long so don't worry about it

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Sucks to be blocked hai na

Being blocked isn't the issue... is being blocked extremely quick before I could get a chance to reply as I actually was interested but just didn't have the right time to reply properly. I don't like rushing responses "

I know what you meant, I was just pulling your leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I instantly block is,....

They haven't read my profile

I can't read / understand the message

They are not what Iam looking for

They have been on for years with no verification

Stupid 1 line message

I don't like e mail ping pong, just makes it easier to block

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I had a newbie guy block me last night because I wouldn't go on WhatsApp to verify I was real.

Guys who come on here demanding stuff never stay long so don't worry about it "

I know! It’s terrible. Must be 6’, must send a face pic, must be gym fit, must be a repeater, must be a heavy cummer, must be a Greek god, must be 11” plus, must have hair, must be shaved.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I had a newbie guy block me last night because I wouldn't go on WhatsApp to verify I was real.

Guys who come on here demanding stuff never stay long so don't worry about it

I know! It’s terrible. Must be 6’, must send a face pic, must be gym fit, must be a repeater, must be a heavy cummer, must be a Greek god, must be 11” plus, must have hair, must be shaved.

"

What's his username? just want to check how terrible he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking like ghosting is just part of internet life. It’s a way of declaring non interest in someone without having to tell them why. Usually the true reason would hurt the person and even though people say they would rather be told. In truth they wouldn’t. For example “you had a very smelly slime discharge from your vagina” vs ghosting/ blocking. So people’s reasons are just nicer ways of avoiding the truth. Obviously doesn’t have to be as grim as my example but maybe after messaging they see something in a pic they hadn’t noticed before or read something they hadn’t and that was enough for them to back out.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The only time I instantly block is,....

They haven't read my profile

I can't read / understand the message

They are not what Iam looking for

They have been on for years with no verification

Stupid 1 line message

I don't like e mail ping pong, just makes it easier to block"

what about not replying back in 5 minutes?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Blocking like ghosting is just part of internet life. It’s a way of declaring non interest in someone without having to tell them why. Usually the true reason would hurt the person and even though people say they would rather be told. In truth they wouldn’t. For example “you had a very smelly slime discharge from your vagina” vs ghosting/ blocking. So people’s reasons are just nicer ways of avoiding the truth. Obviously doesn’t have to be as grim as my example but maybe after messaging they see something in a pic they hadn’t noticed before or read something they hadn’t and that was enough for them to back out. "

We winked at eachother. he messaged me. i quickly read his "hi" message. went to toilet. returned back to find i was blocked... isn't that abit hasty?

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Blocking like ghosting is just part of internet life. It’s a way of declaring non interest in someone without having to tell them why. Usually the true reason would hurt the person and even though people say they would rather be told. In truth they wouldn’t. For example “you had a very smelly slime discharge from your vagina” vs ghosting/ blocking. So people’s reasons are just nicer ways of avoiding the truth. Obviously doesn’t have to be as grim as my example but maybe after messaging they see something in a pic they hadn’t noticed before or read something they hadn’t and that was enough for them to back out.

We winked at eachother. he messaged me. i quickly read his "hi" message. went to toilet. returned back to find i was blocked... isn't that abit hasty? "

Ahhh sounds like you’re ‘being a guy’ on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out "

How is he missing out? You have to want something, to miss it. If someone blocked me, they clearly don’t want me, so they’re not missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out

How is he missing out? You have to want something, to miss it. If someone blocked me, they clearly don’t want me, so they’re not missing out"

If I blocked you (I wouldn’t) then are you not still wonderfully fabulous, sexy and incredible? Yes of course you are. My blocking you doesn’t change you. It does though mean I the miss out on seeing just how fabulous sexy and incredible you really are.

So I am missing out. My loss

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands

I block if messages are read and no response. I delete messages if they have not been read for 5 days, but not block. The reason for blocking is to avoid sending further messages in error.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

No idea op. What makes you block people? I block very rarely - and only if people are highly abusive. X

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out "

in that example, I know exactly it was because I didn't respond.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

No idea op. What makes you block people? I block very rarely - and only if people are highly abusive. X"

i block people who continually message me over long period of time the same message about 10 times or if they really abusive. I think men block for different reasons by the sound of it. As i never block someone just because they didn't reply back to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block Women that are rude and arrogant ... no place in my world for that ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out

in that example, I know exactly it was because I didn't respond. "

A guy who is that impatient and likely can’t take no either. I’d say you’ve a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

men have ego's?

the women are worse because they know they are in short supply.

get over yourself.

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

Happens with couples. We were just chatting with a reasonably local couple, all going well, they have a verification, good hour of chat then mid conversation blocked for no reason it seems. Maybe just another guy pretending to be a couple. Seems to be more and more of that. Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I instantly block is,....

They haven't read my profile

I can't read / understand the message

They are not what Iam looking for

They have been on for years with no verification

Stupid 1 line message

I don't like e mail ping pong, just makes it easier to block

what about not replying back in 5 minutes?

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If they block me for not replying in 5 mins then

Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your profile, I would say it is their loss, missing out on a gorgeous woman like yourself. Personally I dont block, however I do delete after two weeks if they are on regularly. If they havent answered by then I am sure they have no intention

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

People always say that ladies are at the top of the food chain on fab, but in actual fact they're not, and I think you might have just discovered who is OP

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

They just don't want to hang around and get blocked themselves, it hurts their pride.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

See... patience does work .... i messaged you aboit 6 months ago and didnt block.... i know youre busy and will reply someday

Im joking btw... i know youre not replying

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

No idea op. What makes you block people? I block very rarely - and only if people are highly abusive. X"

People block for loads of reasons, one line message, too many pictures of a cock on the profile, fabbing your pictures, smoking, liking 420, any reason they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even think I have used the block button, no one has wound me up that much. Not that, that is an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Looking at your profile: in the words of Matthew McConaughey, " I call bullshit! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

They get scared and chicken out in case you would reply.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"People always say that ladies are at the top of the food chain on fab, but in actual fact they're not, and I think you might have just discovered who is OP "

well statistically, I still believe women are on top in every way in fab... its his ego and impatience that made him lose out as I was going to reply back to him after going to the bathroom.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Looking at your profile: in the words of Matthew McConaughey, " I call bullshit! " "

sorry I don't know the line

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out

in that example, I know exactly it was because I didn't respond.

A guy who is that impatient and likely can’t take no either. I’d say you’ve a lucky escape "

yes definitely.. he probably the type to expect me to be at his beckon call 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People always say that ladies are at the top of the food chain on fab, but in actual fact they're not, and I think you might have just discovered who is OP "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Five minutes is a tad short gents! I give it 24 hours then I’d block as a filter measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it takes me weeks to reply "

Perhaps state on your profile in that case

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Anyone who’s not interested gets a block. Not because I don’t like them or have anything against them.

I don’t want to be the type who appears to be pestering, when actually I’m sending an unwanted second message by mistake.

Simply and admin thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can learn a lot about folk on this thread

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm continually messaged by 1 line boring profiles with no public pics, so I haven't messaged anyone in about 6 months

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

.......

I'm not sure I've ever blocked anyone. Maybe I'm too lenient lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think they are god gift i always wait for a reply can be five mins could be weeks after i messaged a lady would really like to chat with you as your a very sexy woman xxx

No they don't.... What is it with assumptions. If a woman blocks its her choice if I guy does it he thinks he's gods gift? "

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

Jas don’t worry about it. Plenty more. Least they took care of the blocking for you. Who knows why anyone on here does what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Premature blocking, I‘d generally give it at least 6 month before I realise I’m not getting a reply, God loves an optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People always say that ladies are at the top of the food chain on fab, but in actual fact they're not, and I think you might have just discovered who is OP

well statistically, I still believe women are on top in every way in fab... its his ego and impatience that made him lose out as I was going to reply back to him after going to the bathroom. "

Yet you're the one who made a thread about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected...... "

That would be a first. I’ve never heard them mention it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Looking at your profile: in the words of Matthew McConaughey, " I call bullshit! "

sorry I don't know the line "

Funny enough the film was called: How to loose a guy in 10 days, with Kate Hudson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

That would be a first. I’ve never heard them mention it before "

It’s the first time I’ve seen a lady complain about it, I must admit. I’m sure there were plenty of other offers.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected...... "

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Looking at your profile: in the words of Matthew McConaughey, " I call bullshit! "

sorry I don't know the line

Funny enough the film was called: How to loose a guy in 10 days, with Kate Hudson "

Hehe

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

That would be a first. I’ve never heard them mention it before

It’s the first time I’ve seen a lady complain about it, I must admit. I’m sure there were plenty of other offers."

don't worry I'm not losing sleep or short of offers.... i found it shocking to be blocked after 5 minutes because i didn't reply back instantly

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too"

How could he explain if he'd blocked you?

Back to that Matthew McConnaghey quote by the sound of it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed the only thing being blocked here is a cock...

Sorry where are my manors

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

How could he explain if he'd blocked you?

Back to that Matthew McConnaghey quote by the sound of it.... "

easily... explain why he blocked me before he blocked me... not exactly rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Women and couples are doing this to, lets not kid ourselves

I like the old, they wink, you say hi, then they delete your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Stick with us ugly feckers, you won't get a block from me! Dad bods rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just the Adonis's.... I committed the crime of not replying to a couple within an unspecified time limit and got a free insult and block last weekend. Lucky me!

The fact I was at work and got called out as I was reading the message was neither here nor there apoarantly

There's not legislating for other peoples perception of time - or their own ego.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

How could he explain if he'd blocked you?

Back to that Matthew McConnaghey quote by the sound of it....

easily... explain why he blocked me before he blocked me... not exactly rocket science "

You never said he messaged you twice.

Or was it a Mission Impossible kind of thing where this profile will block you in 5 minutes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is instashag, didnt you realise?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Because this is instashag, didnt you realise?"

oh course, drop my knickers, dripping wet, tight and ready for round two or his mate... sure

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

How could he explain if he'd blocked you?

Back to that Matthew McConnaghey quote by the sound of it....

easily... explain why he blocked me before he blocked me... not exactly rocket science

You never said he messaged you twice.

Or was it a Mission Impossible kind of thing where this profile will block you in 5 minutes? "

in 5 minutes I was sent two messages. first was polite. second one after 5 minutes not so polite then blocked. So it's not a cryptic situation, clear as day what happened. just found it amusing how people can be that impatient on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "
Honestly, because most guys don’t know how to be patient anymore, they need instant gratification! (See also....most men are dickheads!) Makes it so much more difficult for genuine blokes. James x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? Honestly, because most guys don’t know how to be patient anymore, they need instant gratification! (See also....most men are dickheads!) Makes it so much more difficult for genuine blokes. James x"

I know the genuine guys get a rough time because there's too many idiots on here ruining the karma. But I believe in karma, so patience is the key. when you're least expecting, great things will come to you if you remain kind and considerate.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Stick with us ugly feckers, you won't get a block from me! Dad bods rule "

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Not just the Adonis's.... I committed the crime of not replying to a couple within an unspecified time limit and got a free insult and block last weekend. Lucky me!

The fact I was at work and got called out as I was reading the message was neither here nor there apoarantly

There's not legislating for other peoples perception of time - or their own ego. "

Thank you... I knew I wasn't the only person on fab to get blocked because I didn't reply quick enough.

Sorry you had to go through the same.

it doesn't bother me as plenty fish in the sea. Just amused the reason for the block

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I block if messages are read and no response. I delete messages if they have not been read for 5 days, but not block. The reason for blocking is to avoid sending further messages in error. "

i do understand why men block to stop themselves messaging again. tbh i wish more men did that because getting the same copy and paste message over and over is grating but I don't want to feel bad for blocking. But nowadays, after the third same copy and paste message, I block. I did find out women and men block for different reasons. As I never blocked a guy just because they weren't interested.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Did they tell you thats why they blocked or are you assuming which ever way it means they no longer want contact from you. Guess good looking guys can have the pick of the bunch and dont need to wait around"

yes he said before i was blocked the reason... yeah no biggie, if he's got plenty of women. So have women but way more than men. I heard men are really happy to get 5 messages a day. Where women are happy to get over 500 messages so they have more of a choice who they can decline. TBF, I generally search for profiles and just chat to them. My success rate is 9 out of 10 are interested in chatting so not bothered about the guy block. Just find it incredible people don't have any patience

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I sometimes get messaged/winked from ladies and couples I find really attractive and this makes me happy but then when I click back on their username to check out profile in a few mins, I am left disappointed to only find out I am blocked. I think there could be many other reasons for blocking other than being impatient such as maybe they messaged the wrong person or they managed to sort out a meet with someone else in those few mins. I suppose the person who does the blocking only really knows the true reason for blocking.

However, as the common saying goes 'everything happens for a reason' maybe you will find another attractive guy who's more suited to you.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Did they tell you thats why they blocked or are you assuming which ever way it means they no longer want contact from you. Guess good looking guys can have the pick of the bunch and dont need to wait around

yes he said before i was blocked the reason... yeah no biggie, if he's got plenty of women. So have women but way more than men. I heard men are really happy to get 5 messages a day. Where women are happy to get over 500 messages so they have more of a choice who they can decline. TBF, I generally search for profiles and just chat to them. My success rate is 9 out of 10 are interested in chatting so not bothered about the guy block. Just find it incredible people don't have any patience "

It’s not so incredible if he’s bi. He probably had someone sucking his cock in 5 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too"

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages? "

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient? "

Self vetting. Saves you loads of time before you find out they are pricks.

It hints at they don't understand the concept that there is a world outside of Fab and people do live there

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages? "

Probably not, the second message, explaining why he was about to block her, didn't exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived.."

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member "

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just the Adonis's.... I committed the crime of not replying to a couple within an unspecified time limit and got a free insult and block last weekend. Lucky me!

The fact I was at work and got called out as I was reading the message was neither here nor there apoarantly

There's not legislating for other peoples perception of time - or their own ego.

Thank you... I knew I wasn't the only person on fab to get blocked because I didn't reply quick enough.

Sorry you had to go through the same.

it doesn't bother me as plenty fish in the sea. Just amused the reason for the block"

I was more puzzled as to their train of thought. As you say, plenty more non self-absorbed fish in the sea. Self-vetted indeed!

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Best is when they reply with 'Xx'. Just move on lol.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I have noticed the really physically handsome men on here have this ego issue, if they don't get an instant reply like within 5 minutes from me, I get blocked. Why are they so impatient?

Maybe they want a quick response for some reason and block to make sure they don't contact you again. I don't think its an ego issue

But i could of been in the shower, on the phone to parents, out with the dog, cooking dinner, driving etc

it's pretty unreasonable to expect instant replies

These guys just don't get that most women can couples jave a life outside of swinging and that this is purely for there enjoyment when they want it. Some guys never get that "

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you"

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been blocked but had guys message us to have a go for not replying straight away. So I tell them where to go and block them.

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.....when you get as many messages as these knees....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police "

If that's what you'd like to call me yes, Just trying to protect the thread from the usual "This is our private room" clique, Carry on with the topic now guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think your not interested and block so they don't bother you again.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police

If that's what you'd like to call me yes, Just trying to protect the thread from the usual "This is our private room" clique, Carry on with the topic now guys.."

Thank you very much for standing up against the usual unnecessary nonsense. We should be encouraging more new members to post on forums. So it can reduce the cliquey attitude that some members have; I believe that jealous kind of behaviour has no place in forums

I wanted to share and discuss my recent experience to see if others experienced it, which I have found they do so thank you to all that given supportive and kind responses.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Maybe they think your not interested and block so they don't bother you again."

Sure that's the reason... but within 5 minutes is hasty in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police

If that's what you'd like to call me yes, Just trying to protect the thread from the usual "This is our private room" clique, Carry on with the topic now guys.."

It’s an open forum, I’m more than welcome to post here I’m afraid. I haven’t gone off topic, been mean, or anything of the sort.

And I hardly venture into swingers chat anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police

If that's what you'd like to call me yes, Just trying to protect the thread from the usual "This is our private room" clique, Carry on with the topic now guys..

Thank you very much for standing up against the usual unnecessary nonsense. We should be encouraging more new members to post on forums. So it can reduce the cliquey attitude that some members have; I believe that jealous kind of behaviour has no place in forums

I wanted to share and discuss my recent experience to see if others experienced it, which I have found they do so thank you to all that given supportive and kind responses. "

Lord I’m out

If you can show me where I was being ‘jealous’ or spouting some ‘unnecessary nonsense’ I’d more than gladly apologise.

And I’m forever including ‘newbies’. You OP, aren’t a newbie, and I’m still including you, by responding to your post!

I have a feeling, you’re probably annoyed because I didn’t white knight. I do apologise, here it goes.

Men? Blocking you? How dare they! They’re missing out on someone like you OP. Idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9/10 of the motivations for being like this likely make them the sort of person that you don't want to meet anyway.

Just think of it like social/swinger darwinism hahaha

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Imagine the fellas on fab started to write a thread when they were rejected......

no the point of this thread is someone blocking me within 5 minutes of them messaging me... he explained why he blocked me too

soooooo you’re technically discussing private messages?

Here we go the threadkiller clique police have arrived..

Hey!

I’m no police

Just a thread killing clique member

Who isn't needed here, Thank you

It seems YOU have become the self-appointed thread police

If that's what you'd like to call me yes, Just trying to protect the thread from the usual "This is our private room" clique, Carry on with the topic now guys..

It’s an open forum, I’m more than welcome to post here I’m afraid. I haven’t gone off topic, been mean, or anything of the sort.

And I hardly venture into swingers chat anyway "

Do the thread police get a sexy uniform?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9/10 of the motivations for being like this likely make them the sort of person that you don't want to meet anyway.

Just think of it like social/swinger darwinism hahaha"

Whichhhhhh is what I said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they didnt mean to message you in the first place op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely but it’s your assumption he blocked because of your response time. Could simply be something else completely. Don’t let it bother you. After all let’s be honest it’s very much he who is missing out

in that example, I know exactly it was because I didn't respond. "

How do you know that for sure though, did he message telling you he was blocking you because you didn't reply?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

If everyone started a thread complaining about another blocking them (for whatever reason) the forum will be full up of just that

Accept someone wanted to block you ( for whatever reason as it is their choice ) and move on please

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