FabSwingers.com forum: Who’s blocked you..?

By *ig Chris75 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Was having a scout around last evening and clicked on a couples profile locally yogi d I was blocked by them - despite not ever knowingly communicated with them previously.

I’m sure lots of us have found ourselves randomly blocked.

Wouldn’t it be great if we could see a list of who we were blocked by - and/or even just the reason for blocking...?

Dickhead, Perve, Live 3 doors down so would be “awkward”, I’m their spouse etc. Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't think it would be a good idea. The reason people block is because they don't want you to see their profile or to be contacted by you. After that it's irrelevant.

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By *ig Chris75 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

It was a slightly tongue in cheek post - hence the “reasons for blocking”.

Totally understand your point - though sometime it would be just nice to know...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It was a slightly tongue in cheek post - hence the “reasons for blocking”.

Totally understand your point - though sometime it would be just nice to know..."

I don't think I want to know.

. I can only imagine the comments."too bloody old"

"stuck up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use block as a filter....sometimes when we go back through the list something we were looking for before may have changed and we unblock. Also use block for people we know we won’t play with, either our choice or theirs, but stops us seeing them. Sometimes it’s a block because they are too persistent after a no. And we block unverified accounts with no pics etc we suspect may be fake.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've noticed we have been blocked by people we have never interacted with. I can only assume they may have disagreed with one of our forum posts?since theres been on dialogue between the accounts.

In honesty, its peoples choice, so if they want to block us,or anyone else thats absolutely fine

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Who cares? Wht would anyone be interested in people that don't want to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to know why someone blocked me. Different people have different preferences. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All Christians!

Jokes on them though as they will be going to hell for not loving thy neighbor

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By *argaret James200TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Was having a scout around last evening and clicked on a couples profile locally yogi d I was blocked by them - despite not ever knowingly communicated with them previously.

I’m sure lots of us have found ourselves randomly blocked.

Wouldn’t it be great if we could see a list of who we were blocked by - and/or even just the reason for blocking...?

Dickhead, Perve, Live 3 doors down so would be “awkward”, I’m their spouse etc. Lol"

I just assume everyone is a time waster and is going to block me at some point, that is until they prove me wrong, had it happen yesterday supposed young lad whose divorced neighbour wants a threesome with a trans person, straight away I think "SURE" he gets in touch on k.i.k sends pics and everything then when it comes to arranging a meet he's blocked me on fab and stopped messaging on K.i.k. "it's what it is" a fantasy site. We are out clubbing on sat Me and four transitioning girls a guy wants to have a drink with us, I know he will not turn up but if we fulfilled his fantasy then good luck to him we will still have a great night between us (no sex on our girls nights).

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Blocking someone at times makes me laugh, as they attend a social event and want to be friendly and chat to you.

Which to me is a bit hypocritical, or do I see this in the wrong way?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

i block 99% of the people i message who are not interested meeting me, i find it easier, the other 1% its just a matter of iv missed them and ill probably end up blocking them eventually anyway plus id encourage anyone who i contact to block me if theyv no interest in meeting me

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I block people who'll never want to meet me anyway, such as bi guys, people outside my age range, black cocks, extra large cocks, etc. Was a bit surprised to be blocked the other day by someone who I'd had a very positive conversation about watching his wife and her friend fucked by a couple of black guys whilst he and I watched. Suddenly he was gone, still, his loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the block button should have 10,000 volts running through it so the blocker really must want to block you bad to do it.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I think I've only ever blocked on person since I been here. As for those who blocked me well I'm not to fussed to know why, I'm sure they must have a good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve definitely seen the behaviour of being blocked without ever being aware of an interaction.

Usually put it down to people using it as a form of filtering. And remember many people view profiles “hidden”.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We just use it as a filter.

First on the list is anything bareback - Straight to block.

Then we filter out people we don’t want to constantly see on searches.

Occasionally we’ll block someone too local to us.

Persistent PITA will be blocked without a thought.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We might though unblock someone if we met them socially at a club and clicked with them or found them interesting..

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Pretty sure we have been blocked by some we haven’t spoke to.

It’s not a problem. Either they don’t like something we have said on the forum or maybe they just don’t like what they see in our pictures.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Pretty sure we have been blocked by some we haven’t spoke to.

It’s not a problem. Either they don’t like something we have said on the forum or maybe they just don’t like what they see in our pictures. "

couldn't imagine what they didn't like!!

but iv said it before and ill say it again the old fab rule no.1... thick skin is needed to join!

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By *outhWalesCouple2019Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We’ve only blocked one user up until now as on the whole there have been no issues using the site.

But the other day we received a message from a couple saying that they would like to meet. I (Mr) politely replied that we were not meeting at the moment due to covid.

Had what I thought was a tongue in cheek reply about it being ‘our loss’ with a ‘lol’ on the end. Went to reply a thanks for messaging us and low and behold we were blocked.

Found it a bit weird too be honest as they initiated the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wouldn't want to know who has blocked me, I understand they must have their reason for it and finding out why is not something I need or want to know.

I clicked on a profile recently and found I was blocked, although initially I wondered why but then that thought didn't last long before disappearing from my mind.

Her x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Nah I wouldn’t want to know I clicked on someone that chats on the forum recently to find they had blocked me Iv never communicated with them at and I actually found it upsetting that they blocked me

I wouldn’t want to see a list

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