FabSwingers.com forum: threesome dynamics in a full swap

By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We initially presumed that a literal swap was the thing to want, to be doing this right, but after a few successful threesomes we found the dynamic of a single, collective experience was soooo much better than 2 pairs of people on opposite sides of the bed. But when there's 4 of you that just seems to happen more. It just works differently.

Do you manage to keep it all together in one awesome thing? How?

I guess for bi threesomes it's easy for one person to drop out whenever they feel like it, have a drink, or just enjoy the scene before getting involved again, but if you've already paired off to some extent, taking a break is harder, right?

By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Hi Untrepid. Some of your fellow couples have said that they prefer a foursome to a threesome. Some have said they like both equally. I had even posted a thread about it, I think, months ago.

From my own perspective as a participant in past threesomes and the occasional foursome, I would say either/or is great, depending on how you bond with everybody. Chemistry is the paramount thing and not the numbers as such. I don't know if I've answered your post constructively X

By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We've played in mini orgies and managed to stay together.

P1 is totally straight so will NEVER play with a guy. I'm bi so, play with whoever I find attractive.

We never want to be apart and we've managed it so far. You just need to stay close, lots of stroking and kissing. You'd be surprised how much hotter it gets when it's a group of bodies Vs 2 swaps.

By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It's natural in a full swap to have periods where one person takes a break and the partner joins the other two. Just watching the action will usually make the fourth person horny again and then you'll have a glorious heap on the bed rather than two separate pairs.

Then there's positions that require three like spitroasting or DP where the two ladies can take turns, one watching while the other is playing with the two men.

By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well maybe I'm making up this distinction in my head, and our next proper bi(curious) mmff will be a wonderful experience...