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Kind of new, with no luck

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi everyone, I have been on here for a good few months with no luck.

I would welcome any and all constructive criticism people have to share.

Happy fabbing to all.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

It takes time to get a meet. And with the way things have been, even harder. Just hang in and it will happen.

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks man, do you have any advice for my profile?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, do a forum search for all the other advice post and read them

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thanks man, do you have any advice for my profile?"

Oh and what profile?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest your profile doesn't really say much about you....its says more about what you want and having a shadow for an avatar isn't really good.

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks for your advice,

I never really know what to write about myself.

I dont want to come across as vain.

If you know what I mean lol

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Is that a sly dig at the lack of content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man, just add a few more basic photos just so people can get a bit of a feel for you, what you’re about, maybe add what you do yourself in your spare time without going into detail, just any little talents or hobbies that are basic conversational points you can slot in. Because you’re a Male unfortunately you are a numbers game. So standing out is the main point. Construct your messages around the profile you’re messaging and make sure it’s an actual message rather than a sleazy request of what you want. Not saying you do this, but the multitude of messages women get I’m assuming this comes in a lot. Add a recent face picture to messages will potentially help. This is what I’ve learnt my short time being here and it’s probably all wrong!

Most importantly don’t put it down to ‘not having much luck’ you’re here for enjoyment, not to feel down about it, have fun and worst case scenario every one in the forums is lovely for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With covid still about you will find it very difficult

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thank you very much, all you people have been wonderful help.

You are right I have felt more warmth from the forums than in my profile.

Again you guys are great thank you

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Thanks man, do you have any advice for my profile?"

When you have none legal waffle (that makes you look like you believe anything ) that makes up 70% of your profile, then you dont really have a profile.

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By *ier89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"With covid still about you will find it very difficult "

Not looking to meet at the moment obv just chats and maybe a few more profile views to bolster my confidence

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

All you are telling people is that you're a man looking for women, what woman do you think will be enticed with that?

ZERO!

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By *heeky-gingerWoman
over a year ago

Not meeting

In my opinion the single most important thing for a profile is a profile picture that isn’t the default silhouette. There are lots of other important things too, but if there’s no profile pic I’m unlikely to even open the profile to see anything else. Your messages are also much more likely to get buried in someone’s inbox if you have the same silhouette picture as a load of guys sending “fancy a fuk” messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion the single most important thing for a profile is a profile picture that isn’t the default silhouette. There are lots of other important things too, but if there’s no profile pic I’m unlikely to even open the profile to see anything else. Your messages are also much more likely to get buried in someone’s inbox if you have the same silhouette picture as a load of guys sending “fancy a fuk” messages"

Will fancy a fuk work for me since I’m not a silhouette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks man, do you have any advice for my profile?"

What profile?

Without the absolutely pointless warning there isn't much of a profile, is there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate there's good advice here, along with countless forum threads on the same subject.

Lose the legal rubbish and extend your profile. Perhaps a selection of photos?

All the best

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