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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

Can you remember your very first swinging experience? Feel free you give brief details ??

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City

That memorable then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it was 2 years ago in Xtasia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advert in Manchester Evening News for Xanadu swinger's club piqued my interest.

Went along to check it out. Many adventures later here I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An all female event at townhouse, ending in an orgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was. I and my then husband attended a house party. There were a four other couples there and as the evening wore on I noticed that the various couples were pairing off in to new couplings and disappearing from the main body of the party. We were talking to a couple and the wife started to kiss my husband before pulling his cock out and sucking him off. I was a little surprised as my husband hadn't told me that it was that sort of party but I was not going to miss out and responded to the attentions of the woman's partner as he explored my underwear with his hands. He took my hand, took me upstairs and fucked me good and hard. It started a new lifestyle for me!

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"It was. I and my then husband attended a house party. There were a four other couples there and as the evening wore on I noticed that the various couples were pairing off in to new couplings and disappearing from the main body of the party. We were talking to a couple and the wife started to kiss my husband before pulling his cock out and sucking him off. I was a little surprised as my husband hadn't told me that it was that sort of party but I was not going to miss out and responded to the attentions of the woman's partner as he explored my underwear with his hands. He took my hand, took me upstairs and fucked me good and hard. It started a new lifestyle for me! "

I like the sound of that

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Back in the days before the internet, I used to use phone chatlines for late night/early hours meets - and got talking to a woman in Leeds one night, who invited me to visit her the following evening...

....only after arranging a time and giving me her address did she tell me was married, which wasn't a great shock, as I'd already played with a few wives - except she then casually asked if I'd be OK with her husband watching...

....that was something completely new to me, but I said yes - I was very nervous, and didn't know how I'd 'perform', but everything went well, and the rest, as they say, is history!

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Not a good start for us. On the promise of meeting both, we met a single guy as his partner wasn't available at the time. Turned out a scam, he was using the woman as a means to get meets for himself. We had even spoken to her on the phone and chatted online. Caught them out when the distance on her profile was way off from where he claimed she was.... Luckily we had many fantastic meets afterwards where I was also involved.

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"Not a good start for us. On the promise of meeting both, we met a single guy as his partner wasn't available at the time. Turned out a scam, he was using the woman as a means to get meets for himself. We had even spoken to her on the phone and chatted online. Caught them out when the distance on her profile was way off from where he claimed she was.... Luckily we had many fantastic meets afterwards where I was also involved."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont recall my first time at all i just fell into it think it started with threesomes long before i even knew what swinging was.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

threesomes foursomes and same room fun where my first experiences

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

it was with a friend and his FB, long story short he invited me round saying that his FB really wanted to try a MMF.

When I got to his flat he answered the door naked with a massive erection....they had started without me but as soon as I walked into the bedroom was told to strip by the girl.... the best 60 minutes of my life .......

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

he also introduced me to bi sucking and wanking

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

it has also been almost impossible to replicate sadly ... but I am open to offers

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By *igh N Mighty OP   Man
over a year ago

City


"it has also been almost impossible to replicate sadly ... but I am open to offers "

We all are pal lol

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

It was a well run hot tub party for me. I loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My very first experience was just before lockdown started. I’d been flirting with a guy for a while and he came over for a social/coffee. Ended up getting fucked over the side of my living room sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pulled a woman in a night club in Leeds. Was with her hours. The she asked me if I wanted to go home with them I asked who them was and she pointed out that her husband had been watching the whole time. She asked me to come back and fuck her while my he watches. I was nervous but she was gorgeous so did it. I was nervous but put up a good performance

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I pulled a woman in a night club in Leeds. Was with her hours. The she asked me if I wanted to go home with them I asked who them was and she pointed out that her husband had been watching the whole time. She asked me to come back and fuck her while my he watches. I was nervous but she was gorgeous so did it. I was nervous but put up a good performance "

Another first courtesy of a lusty Leeds lady! (See my post a dozen above)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mmf with my ex wife and a guy, organised through fab.

Social drink then back to his.

When it can to play ex got a bit of stage fright. Other guy and I stripped to briefs in front of her. I got get to stand and started undressing her. Other guy was behind touching her and helping undress. In no time she had a cock in each hand and nerves had gone.. very enjoyable meet for all and start of swing journey involving a number of different guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very first meet was a single male. I wanted to prove to Mrs N I was not jealous type and that she was free to play with who ever she liked.

It was OK, the guy was a bit arrogant and a bit disdainful of the effort we'd put in to see it through. I remember him spunking in the condom and after pulling it out handed it to me and brusquely told me that I would know what to do with this. He immediately left. Luckily for me she wasn't put off by it and many many more much better meets followed.

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

I met a lady on here, chatted and arranged a meet in a pub then onto a club if all went well.

I was nervous as we approached Mingles, but in i went. After a quick drink and chat with others , we had a quick tour. We ended up playing on a huge bed.then another guy joined in. Awesome blowjob for me. Spent rest of the evening socialising. Then back to hers for a very memorable night of naughty fun.

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border


"It was. I and my then husband attended a house party. There were a four other couples there and as the evening wore on I noticed that the various couples were pairing off in to new couplings and disappearing from the main body of the party. We were talking to a couple and the wife started to kiss my husband before pulling his cock out and sucking him off. I was a little surprised as my husband hadn't told me that it was that sort of party but I was not going to miss out and responded to the attentions of the woman's partner as he explored my underwear with his hands. He took my hand, took me upstairs and fucked me good and hard. It started a new lifestyle for me! "

I cant blame him for taking you upstairs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social in a local pub. Talked about kink and the possibilities of what one might do in the swinging scene with the kinds of kinks we share in common. Got a bit hot and heavy in his car afterwards. Still friends over two years later.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Mine was after a social. I'd been on a swinging site for a few months and had gone to a few socials, but always returned to my hotel alone.

Then after one quite small social where I had spent much of the night talking with a lovely couple, they invited me and a couple of the other more sociable people to their room. Drinks and further conversation turned into much more. It was a very good night.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Woman’s partner was a very lucky man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged over Gumtree. Married couple. He filmed from the corner of the hotel room. She was a foxy brunette in sexy undies and quite, quite voracious. The whole thing was almost wordless. I still get tingles thinking about it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a threesome with a ex-fwb and her new boyfriend - was incredible and got me more intrigued about the scene! so glad that happened and I got into doing that further

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By *isshorny247Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

I give sum bloke a bj and I was in my partner car and he was watching as I give this lad bj had my partner all turn on

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By *etsplay68Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield


"It was. I and my then husband attended a house party. There were a four other couples there and as the evening wore on I noticed that the various couples were pairing off in to new couplings and disappearing from the main body of the party. We were talking to a couple and the wife started to kiss my husband before pulling his cock out and sucking him off. I was a little surprised as my husband hadn't told me that it was that sort of party but I was not going to miss out and responded to the attentions of the woman's partner as he explored my underwear with his hands. He took my hand, took me upstairs and fucked me good and hard. It started a new lifestyle for me! "
lucky fella , your hot as hell x

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By *isshorny247Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

My partner used to be on Craig list

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Guy had a bnb in Tenby he had Jane and we had a free weekend

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sue had a thing for her masseur and over time encouraged his sensual advances..he was an experienced swinger and was gentle and understanding .....through him being so informative and "nice" we started our journey really well and still see him 6 yrs on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17 years old, my then boyfriend's boss was turning 23 and he asked his wife if he could have me as his birthday present.

A week before his birthday she asked me if I would do it and separate room swap as 2 couples. I discussed it with my boyfriend and we both happily agreed.

The night came and his wife took me to the bathroom, undressed me, and presented me to her husband. We went off to the master bedroom as my boyfriend and his wife stayed in the next room.

We spent over 3 hours playing to return to the others who hadn't connected and didn't play. Instead they sat next door being made to listen to us.

Needless to say it caused tension as friends, it caused huge issues for my boyfriend and I and we split up 6 months later. As far as I am aware the couple stayed together, thankfully.

It didn't put me off swinging

Her x

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I'm not sure whether this true story falls within the subject matter of first experience "swinging" but I will recount it anyway.

Although I have always known that I have a bi side I didn't act upon it till a few years back when I was in my early 50s. I'd been married with kids for about 30 years and I found I was becoming very curious about having some fun with another guy. One day while having my lunch break at a local viewpoint just outside Cheltenham I was sat in my car and eating my sandwiches minding my own business. Now I'd heard that people would often meet outdoors with the intention of picking other people up for sex and the whole sex with strangers was intriguing to me.

As I sat in my car a guy approached my car and looked in and asked "what do you like ?" . I said sorry but what do you mean ? He repeated the question "what do you like ? " in all honesty I didn't have a clue what he meant such was my naivety but to break the ice and introduce a little humour into the situation I said. Well I like Coronation Street and Eastenders. He said you know what I mean as he pulled down his trackie bottoms to reveal his semi hard cock which he proceeded to wave in my face. Do you want to suck it he said. Not quite sure what my response should be I said yes anyway.

He said come on then and invited me into his car and proceeded to drive into some nearby woods. Once parked up he pulled his trackie bottoms down around his ankles and said "suck it' but on this occasion I felt I had to decline his kind offer. Suck it he demanded but to be honest I was taken aback and felt not scared but very apprehensive as I'd never found myself in that situation before. He soon realised that I was a lost cause and told me he'd take me back to my car.

I remember that when I returned to the office I felt so mixed up and a little dazed. When I told a mate of mine what had happened he couldn't believe it and said I could have been attacked or even worse. I have always been able to look after myself and didn't think that I had been in any danger.

The story is 100% true and though it was not a conventional swinger initiation I hope that you folks could see the funny side of it. I have since settled into a swinging lifestyle which I enjoy with other like minded people. That's all.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I was 17 years old, my then boyfriend's boss was turning 23 and he asked his wife if he could have me as his birthday present.

A week before his birthday she asked me if I would do it and separate room swap as 2 couples. I discussed it with my boyfriend and we both happily agreed.

The night came and his wife took me to the bathroom, undressed me, and presented me to her husband. We went off to the master bedroom as my boyfriend and his wife stayed in the next room.

We spent over 3 hours playing to return to the others who hadn't connected and didn't play. Instead they sat next door being made to listen to us.

Needless to say it caused tension as friends, it caused huge issues for my boyfriend and I and we split up 6 months later. As far as I am aware the couple stayed together, thankfully.

It didn't put me off swinging

Her x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it was amazing

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

shared a flat years ago with a good friend.One night we both pulled......back at out flat drinkies and snogging...i got carried away with my gF and we started fucking in the chair. We finished and then both watched my mate fucking his girl.

My GF went to the loo. i was getting hard watching and started wanking. his girl reached over and grabbed my cock wanking me. She climbed off my mate he looked startled just AS MY GF WALKED back he grabbed her and welcome to swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt a bit scared, horny, worried a bit. My old boy friend and I met this guy at a service station and all agreed to go back to his. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was taken by a great friend to chameleons club.. never looked back

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