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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say i lie about my age on the site cos im embarrassed to admit it right, and im fucking someone im easily old enough to be their mum. Say they know my real age and they dont mind but they r 19. Now say they r a girl and im the first woman theyv slept with. Do u think if i continue to meet them then there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does age really matter?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

if it doesnt matter to them, or you, then unless its illegal, i cant see an issue.

people often have relationships with people that are old/young enough to be kids/grandkids, so its your choice.

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Age is, at the end of the day, only a number

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By *ady n the trampCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

if you both enjoyed it why worry, and looking at your verifications of each other you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say i lie about my age on the site cos im embarrassed to admit it right, and im fucking someone im easily old enough to be their mum. Say they know my real age and they dont mind but they r 19. Now say they r a girl and im the first woman theyv slept with. Do u think if i continue to meet them then there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx"

Nope.

As long as you are happy and the lass in question is also happy then I think carry on and enjoy each other.

All I would say is that some younger people that I have met can get quite attached to you very quickly and that in itself can become 'messy'

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

If you say you are concerned about doing the right thing then that should start with telling the truth. From what you say and what is on your profile, I can't make out if you are over 30 but pretending to be 30, or if you are 30 pretending to be a teenager again. Can't tell where the lie starts or ends.

Second thing, if you want people's advice, then it would be nice to write in a way that people would enjoy reading, i.e. in proper English.

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"If you say you are concerned about doing the right thing then that should start with telling the truth. From what you say and what is on your profile, I can't make out if you are over 30 but pretending to be 30, or if you are 30 pretending to be a teenager again. Can't tell where the lie starts or ends.

Second thing, if you want people's advice, then it would be nice to write in a way that people would enjoy reading, i.e. in proper English."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's look at things logically.

You both know each other's ages, are quite happy to see each other and are both adults so can make your own minds up. I've had meets with ladies of her age and ladies the same amount of years older and on no occasion have I felt any guilt whatsoever.

As for putting a different age on your profile than your real age I know several people on here that do that, yet are always honest in conversation so I don't think they or you are doing anything wrong. Looking through profiles the amount of fab users proportionally who are 39, 49 and 59 compared to all other ages is quite staggering! Maybe human beings get extremely frisky every ten years or so, resulting in a baby boom, who knows?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

O, well thats a relief... I suppose i dont wanna lead anyone astray but thats not really the case anyway i dont think. Were all grown ups on here even 18 yr olds. I really do hav a 16 yr old daughter so maybe thats why im a bit dodgy about it. Anyway really guys, thanks for the good advice everyone. I guess its ok then - which is good as shes ever so hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is the bullshit capital of the world so I really wouldn't worry about it.

You're not the first and certainly won't be the last to tell a little white one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you say you are concerned about doing the right thing then that should start with telling the truth. From what you say and what is on your profile, I can't make out if you are over 30 but pretending to be 30, or if you are 30 pretending to be a teenager again. Can't tell where the lie starts or ends.

Second thing, if you want people's advice, then it would be nice to write in a way that people would enjoy reading, i.e. in proper English. "

i am over 30 just to clear that up. And i think its really nasty of u both to drag up the spelling grammar issue when im only trying to ask for help,

i write in this way in all my messages and noones eva complained before, probly as i make myself quite understandable to anyone who can actually Read. I do fab on my nokia thats why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to Cardiff and trust me, nobody is concerned about it

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester


"If you say you are concerned about doing the right thing then that should start with telling the truth. From what you say and what is on your profile, I can't make out if you are over 30 but pretending to be 30, or if you are 30 pretending to be a teenager again. Can't tell where the lie starts or ends.

Second thing, if you want people's advice, then it would be nice to write in a way that people would enjoy reading, i.e. in proper English.

i am over 30 just to clear that up. And i think its really nasty of u both to drag up the spelling grammar issue when im only trying to ask for help,

i write in this way in all my messages and noones eva complained before, probly as i make myself quite understandable to anyone who can actually Read. I do fab on my nokia thats why "

Good reply!

As for your age, I doubt anyone cares too much and infact probably half expects a woman to 'fib' about her age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is, at the end of the day, only a number "

I hear this all the time and soooo disagree, if age is just a number then the elder has missed out on many opportunities.

Age is Experience

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe


"Age is, at the end of the day, only a number

I hear this all the time and soooo disagree, if age is just a number then the elder has missed out on many opportunities.

Age is Experience "

Nah it's true look 1,2,3 see numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is, at the end of the day, only a number

I hear this all the time and soooo disagree, if age is just a number then the elder has missed out on many opportunities.

Age is Experience

Nah it's true look 1,2,3 see numbers "

It's experience, or should be.

I got quite close to a girl of 19,I found her very attractive, she needed someone in her life to help guide her through a tough time, on several occasions after a few drinks together she pretty much offered herself to me, for me it was the wrong thing for me to take advantage as I realised my part in her life and it wasn't getting my dick wet with a young pretty woman. at 19 I would have rattled her bed out that window, but at 38 I had enough experience to recognise that was the wrong thing to do.

I don't regret turning her down several times, I would regret if I took her up on it.

Age is experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say i lie about my age on the site cos im embarrassed to admit it right, and im fucking someone im easily old enough to be their mum. Say they know my real age and they dont mind but they r 19. Now say they r a girl and im the first woman theyv slept with. Do u think if i continue to meet them then there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx"

If you are both happy and content carrying in then fine, if there are any doubts such as how your daughter would feel if she found out, or anyone else for that matter, then think seriously about it, pro's and con's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx"

How can you spell ethical considerations, but not would?

That's my thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx

How can you spell ethical considerations, but not would?

That's my thought."

Who gives a shit? and why?

There's my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx

How can you spell ethical considerations, but not would?

That's my thought."
as i said i use fab on my phone, predictive, and trying to shorten the number of keys i use whilst makin sure i can still be understood. If i abreviated ethical considerations u wud not know what i was on about. Shortenin wud is not confusing. Im not a great speller, if i get it nearly right then predictive saves me. Otherwise probly i make mistakes. But i can do advanced calculus... Can my critics? Sum ppl lol. Dont like me dont read me! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would never lie about my age just to shag someone and if I found out someone had lied to me, I would be seriously pissed off, and I would never ever consider someone out of my age range no matter how hot they are. For me age really is a number and shagging someone I am old enough to be the parent/grandparent off is revolting, nsa doesn't come into the equation at all. And if I did find out that someone had lied to me, I would consider them to be untrustworthy, after all if they have lied about their age what else have they lied about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your excusess and leave alone.Hell he could choose the home you go to.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I would never lie about my age just to shag someone and if I found out someone had lied to me, I would be seriously pissed off, and I would never ever consider someone out of my age range no matter how hot they are. For me age really is a number and shagging someone I am old enough to be the parent/grandparent off is revolting, nsa doesn't come into the equation at all. And if I did find out that someone had lied to me, I would consider them to be untrustworthy, after all if they have lied about their age what else have they lied about "
fair point im thinkin on that hun. But i dont lie to get a shag. I lie cos im embarrassed bout my age. She wrote me first i said actually im thirtywhateva i am so too old for u and she said no yr not so it went from there... :-/ x

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Does age really matter? "

+1

Do we ever really know a ladies true age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never lie about my age just to shag someone and if I found out someone had lied to me, I would be seriously pissed off, and I would never ever consider someone out of my age range no matter how hot they are. For me age really is a number and shagging someone I am old enough to be the parent/grandparent off is revolting, nsa doesn't come into the equation at all. And if I did find out that someone had lied to me, I would consider them to be untrustworthy, after all if they have lied about their age what else have they lied about fair point im thinkin on that hun. But i dont lie to get a shag. I lie cos im embarrassed bout my age. She wrote me first i said actually im thirtywhateva i am so too old for u and she said no yr not so it went from there... :-/ x"

Couple of things!... If it's who I think it is based on verifications, her profile says straight??? And the fact that everyone is working out who she is, does she know about this post?

But I say if you both have been open and honest with each other then go for it, if the spark is there then don't pass it by!!! have fun kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have been interesting to see the responses if it had been a guy lying about his age in order to sleep with an 18 year old girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She doesnt know bout it not said anythin about her except i wanna do rite by her. I didnt expect ppl to go lookin up veris!! Cool... Point taken bout lying im gonna put a line on my profile payin im not really thirty pls message me for the truth. Is that ok lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She doesnt know bout it not said anythin about her except i wanna do rite by her. I didnt expect ppl to go lookin up veris!! Cool... Point taken bout lying im gonna put a line on my profile payin im not really thirty pls message me for the truth. Is that ok lol xx"

I wouldn't have thought about veris either but someone further up mentioned they'd looked! Lol Theyre stalkers!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say i lie about my age on the site cos im embarrassed to admit it right, and im fucking someone im easily old enough to be their mum. Say they know my real age and they dont mind but they r 19. Now say they r a girl and im the first woman theyv slept with. Do u think if i continue to meet them then there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx"

come on girl get a grip lol

she knows your age, she enoyed the meet and would see you again, then why worry??

there are no ethical issues to consider, you are both consenting adults, end of story..

do you think many men would be that bothered about fucking a girl young enough to be their daughter???

jeez, girl get in there and enjoy it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there mite be some ethical considerations? Yr thoughts wud be welcome as im concerned to do the right thing. Pls dont shout at me for lying about my age tho as i always tell ppl i meet my real age first im just coy to hav it publicly displayed. And i look thirty hehe xxx

How can you spell ethical considerations, but not would?

That's my thought. as i said i use fab on my phone, predictive, and trying to shorten the number of keys i use whilst makin sure i can still be understood. If i abreviated ethical considerations u wud not know what i was on about. Shortenin wud is not confusing. Im not a great speller, if i get it nearly right then predictive saves me. Otherwise probly i make mistakes. But i can do advanced calculus... Can my critics? Sum ppl lol. Dont like me dont read me! X"

have i stumbled into a spelling bee competition by mistake!!!

hoo the hell reeds fourem powsts and then piks up the poaster on theare spelin?????

WTF iz thatt al abowt???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never lie about my age just to shag someone and if I found out someone had lied to me, I would be seriously pissed off, and I would never ever consider someone out of my age range no matter how hot they are. For me age really is a number and shagging someone I am old enough to be the parent/grandparent off is revolting, nsa doesn't come into the equation at all. And if I did find out that someone had lied to me, I would consider them to be untrustworthy, after all if they have lied about their age what else have they lied about fair point im thinkin on that hun. But i dont lie to get a shag. I lie cos im embarrassed bout my age. She wrote me first i said actually im thirtywhateva i am so too old for u and she said no yr not so it went from there... :-/ x

Couple of things!... If it's who I think it is based on verifications, her profile says straight??? And the fact that everyone is working out who she is, does she know about this post?

But I say if you both have been open and honest with each other then go for it, if the spark is there then don't pass it by!!! have fun kids... "

I have not looked at her profile nor her verifications so I have only commented on what she has said

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

age is only a no but but could never sleep with someone same age as my kids oldest one is 23, same as when 21 year old daughter as friends in house getting ready to go out of a night i still see them as daughter friends and could never look at them and think of sex , just wrong .

same as i would hope if my daughter at friends house getting ready to go out i would hope friends parent could not look at her and think of sex etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never lie about my age just to shag someone and if I found out someone had lied to me, I would be seriously pissed off, and I would never ever consider someone out of my age range no matter how hot they are. For me age really is a number and shagging someone I am old enough to be the parent/grandparent off is revolting, nsa doesn't come into the equation at all. And if I did find out that someone had lied to me, I would consider them to be untrustworthy, after all if they have lied about their age what else have they lied about fair point im thinkin on that hun. But i dont lie to get a shag. I lie cos im embarrassed bout my age. She wrote me first i said actually im thirtywhateva i am so too old for u and she said no yr not so it went from there... :-/ x"

Then don't lie about your age, simple! Don't quite understand why anyone would want to do that, I am 51 yrs old and I may look younger than 51 but I have a birth certificate if anyone wants to see it as proof.

And your age is nothing to be embarrassed about

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