FabSwingers.com forum: A question for those into TV/CD’s

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m a convincing TV who takes time and effort in preparation for meets, social or otherwise. Shaved within an inch of my life, getting the skin super soft, full make up, lashes, choosing the right outfit... etc... etc... it’s sometimes a lot of time effort and part of the fun in heading out to a club night! But, it can be a right old faff!!!

Sometimes I just fancy a meet, you know those spur of the moment meets, when you just click with someone and feel super horny! But I haven’t got the time to get ready..... Sometimes I’d like to head out in male mode, but it appears that’s not good enough, because my profile states I’m a TV/TS.

So, would anybody out there meet me in male mode and not make me feel like I’m cheating them?

After all I’m still the same chilled, reliable, nice person.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes I would. I kow what you mean about the faff but for me I have to be dolled up as I feel more horny and have better orgasms.

I have my get ready quick kit if I'm in a rush seems to have got be through a few episodes, may be that might be a solution for the more spontaneous meet.

You look so good dressed to be anything other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I would. I kow what you mean about the faff but for me I have to be dolled up as I feel more horny and have better orgasms.

I have my get ready quick kit if I'm in a rush seems to have got be through a few episodes, may be that might be a solution for the more spontaneous meet.

You look so good dressed to be anything other.

Thank you for the kind words gorgeous. I know what you mean, dolled up makes me feel sexy too.

I need better planning ....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I understand totally I prefer sex dressed up with same sex meets, but often can’t be bothered as I’d have to put on the slap etc...just fancy wearing the clothes instead and acting girly....but one must maintain the illusion

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

"Yes I would. I kow what you mean about the faff but for me I have to be dolled up as I feel more horny and have better orgasms.

I have my get ready quick kit if I'm in a rush seems to have got be through a few episodes, may be that might be a solution for the more spontaneous meet.

You look so good dressed to be anything other.

Thank you for the kind words gorgeous. I know what you mean, dolled up makes me feel sexy too.

I need better planning .... "

Responding to requests for spontaneous meets can be a bit of a challenge, but if I pare down my makeup { no false lashes! } I'm good to go in 30 mins

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Since you're all so good looking dressed, there has to be a half decent looking guy undressed. So it would be thumbs up from the Ireland judge.

F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 modes and depending what meet intales and with what sex the meet is with

Man mode I will only meet woman and couples if man hafe dose not want to play

natalie Mode witch I will meet men woman and couples

And a hybrid mode witch is man top and jeans and shoes and stuff with lingerie and stocking on underneath only meet woman and couples who want an social meeting first and see whare the night takes us but bit apprehensive about siting in a pub or restaurant with me In full dress xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i was meeting id have had no problem meeting in male mode. Maybe put something on your profile to explain

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"So I’m a convincing TV who takes time and effort in preparation for meets, social or otherwise. Shaved within an inch of my life, getting the skin super soft, full make up, lashes, choosing the right outfit... etc... etc... it’s sometimes a lot of time effort and part of the fun in heading out to a club night! But, it can be a right old faff!!!

So, would anybody out there meet me in male mode and not make me feel like I’m cheating them?

After all I’m still the same chilled, reliable, nice person.

To be honest people are people regardless of gender and looks. Only difference between a tv and ts is lifestyle choice anyway. So yeah if someone likes you should not matter how you appear hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im thinking of joining as tv/cd to so can choose if prefer me as a guy or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since you're all so good looking dressed, there has to be a half decent looking guy undressed. So it would be thumbs up from the Ireland judge.

F x"

Are you sure about that? 90% out of the wig and makeup look quite bad and totally different as men, it really is shocking. That is why I snigger when men rave about ‘gorgeous’ TVs yet the reality is they are not gorgeous once it is all scrubbed off. Brutal but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I understand totally I prefer sex dressed up with same sex meets, but often can’t be bothered as I’d have to put on the slap etc...just fancy wearing the clothes instead and acting girly....but one must maintain the illusion

True!!! It’s the shaving and the make up that takes the time..... grrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, would anybody out there meet me in male mode and not make me feel like I’m cheating them?

After all I’m still the same chilled, reliable, nice person.

Very true! It helps xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 3 modes and depending what meet intales and with what sex the meet is with

Man mode I will only meet woman and couples if man hafe dose not want to play

natalie Mode witch I will meet men woman and couples

Good planning. Yes there’s another problem when people want to meet for a social at their local pub and we are dressed to the nines looking right out of place. Not everywhere is accepting of a TV who is 6’7” in heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 3 modes and depending what meet intales and with what sex the meet is with

Man mode I will only meet woman and couples if man hafe dose not want to play

natalie Mode witch I will meet men woman and couples

It’s so true but you beautiful no matter what but yes good planning is a must and usely give people the option off what mode they like expect men really but may start because it is a pain take me like 2 hours to get ready for a meet and most want wam bam think you mam one round and gone and dose leve me going hum 2 hours for a 5 minute shag definitely not worth it xxx

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"Since you're all so good looking dressed, there has to be a half decent looking guy undressed. So it would be thumbs up from the Ireland judge.

F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes. From your pictures I bet you are very attractive in man mode x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"100% yes. From your pictures I bet you are very attractive in man mode x"

Thank you!! That’s really kind.

Just googling a flight to NI to come and see you

hugs xx

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

You mean they wake up and half there face is still on the pillow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean they wake up and half there face is still on the pillow.

That happens with women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, would anybody out there meet me in male mode and not make me feel like I’m cheating them?

After all I’m still the same chilled, reliable, nice person.

I would. I like the person not the outfit. I want to meet a human not a sex toy.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I wouldn't expect you to be dressed all the time so would have no issues with meeting you irrelevant of what you are wearing.

Actually laundered clothing, and recently showered, ya know is important whether it's jeans or a dress

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

Couldn't agree more. It's the expectation people have which is especially acute on a site like this. The persona you use on here has a lot to do with the attraction that occurs during a meet. Being upfront from the start is never a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

I do somewhat agree with that but see the thing is most men want to meet now and expect me to be sitting around all day ever day shaved with full face on just waiting cock and them message me

Trying to say to one look can’t meet just now but can in to days time seems like it’s not good a nuff for them

And if the do wait and meet it’s wam bam thank you man 5 minutes splat and run out the door

Mean sorry but it’s just took me day and odd to shave tan and get ready for a meet 5 minutes isn’t worst that hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's a damming indictment of us fellas is they get upset or annoyed you can't meet at the drop of a hat or if you do they are managing only a few minutes

I can see the frustration and annoyance at that but sadly this place can attract those chaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that's a damming indictment of us fellas is they get upset or annoyed you can't meet at the drop of a hat or if you do they are managing only a few minutes

I can see the frustration and annoyance at that but sadly this place can attract those chaps"

Sadly that’s the reality off things I always state befor I meet that it least takes me 2-3 hours to get ready I least expect 3 hours off fun

Always make a light harted home by saying

I don’t do quick meets as it takes me 2 hours to get ready so I do expect a 3 hour meet not a total bitch though I do allow for 5-10 minutes brakes inbween rounds xxx

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I have met a few TVs who get changed when they arrive. traveling in male mode it can be difficult to leave the house dressed in sight of neibours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that's a damming indictment of us fellas is they get upset or annoyed you can't meet at the drop of a hat or if you do they are managing only a few minutes

I can see the frustration and annoyance at that but sadly this place can attract those chaps

Sadly that’s the reality off things I always state befor I meet that it least takes me 2-3 hours to get ready I least expect 3 hours off fun

Always make a light harted home by saying

I don’t do quick meets as it takes me 2 hours to get ready so I do expect a 3 hour meet not a total bitch though I do allow for 5-10 minutes brakes inbween rounds xxx"

5-10 minutes...how kind!

I think for some that instant gratification of a quick meet is what they want and sadly more rare is an unrushed meet. You are more than right to expect something more than a 5 min wonder but as was mentioned earlier I think some chaps expect to meet the lady in the photos no a lady in guy mode as it were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that's a damming indictment of us fellas is they get upset or annoyed you can't meet at the drop of a hat or if you do they are managing only a few minutes

I can see the frustration and annoyance at that but sadly this place can attract those chaps

Sadly that’s the reality off things I always state befor I meet that it least takes me 2-3 hours to get ready I least expect 3 hours off fun

Always make a light harted home by saying

I don’t do quick meets as it takes me 2 hours to get ready so I do expect a 3 hour meet not a total bitch though I do allow for 5-10 minutes brakes inbween rounds xxx

5-10 minutes...how kind!

Exactly if thay want to meet the lady in the pics then that better be prepared to give me a cupple off days notice and a 3 hour meet uther wise no meet

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

I do somewhat agree with that but see the thing is most men want to meet now and expect me to be sitting around all day ever day shaved with full face on just waiting cock and them message me

Trying to say to one look can’t meet just now but can in to days time seems like it’s not good a nuff for them

And if the do wait and meet it’s wam bam thank you man 5 minutes splat and run out the door

Mean sorry but it’s just took me day and odd to shave tan and get ready for a meet 5 minutes isn’t worst that hassle "

Sorry Natalie, but you are talking about men specific meets, the OP was asking everyone. So I answered as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

I do somewhat agree with that but see the thing is most men want to meet now and expect me to be sitting around all day ever day shaved with full face on just waiting cock and them message me

Trying to say to one look can’t meet just now but can in to days time seems like it’s not good a nuff for them

And if the do wait and meet it’s wam bam thank you man 5 minutes splat and run out the door

Mean sorry but it’s just took me day and odd to shave tan and get ready for a meet 5 minutes isn’t worst that hassle

Sorry Natalie, but you are talking about men specific meets, the OP was asking everyone. So I answered as a couple.

Wasn’t geting on at you was just saying that it can be quite hard for us to look the way we do and people just expect us to sit around all day ever day waiting on a message comeing though to meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, would anybody out there meet me in male mode and not make me feel like I’m cheating them?

After all I’m still the same chilled, reliable, nice person.

I would. I like the person not the outfit. I want to meet a human not a sex toy.

Kind words lovely lady. That’s good to hear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

Absolutely agree and I would never turn up as a guy if I chat as a TS. What I guess I mean is that sometimes I’d like to play as a guy and it allows more spontaneity. Maybe a profile update is in order!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have met a few TVs who get changed when they arrive. traveling in male mode it can be difficult to leave the house dressed in sight of neibours "

Which is really nice of you ... yes saves the walk of shame past the neighbours dressed in a tiny skirt, huge heels and fishnets!!

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

I do somewhat agree with that but see the thing is most men want to meet now and expect me to be sitting around all day ever day shaved with full face on just waiting cock and them message me

Trying to say to one look can’t meet just now but can in to days time seems like it’s not good a nuff for them

And if the do wait and meet it’s wam bam thank you man 5 minutes splat and run out the door

Mean sorry but it’s just took me day and odd to shave tan and get ready for a meet 5 minutes isn’t worst that hassle

Sorry Natalie, but you are talking about men specific meets, the OP was asking everyone. So I answered as a couple.

Wasn’t geting on at you was just saying that it can be quite hard for us to look the way we do and people just expect us to sit around all day ever day waiting on a message comeing though to meet x"

I know you are not getting at me Natalie.

It also take Sarah 3 bloody hours to get ready

I was merely pointing out, if we were going to meet a TV/TS then we would expect to meet a TV/TS. If we wanted to meet a guy, then we would just message a guy without any confusion. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think if someone is expecting to meet a TV/TS then that's exactly the persona they should be meeting, and that is the reason they are conversing with you in the first place.

If you have already stipulated beforehand that you will be meeting in male mode then that's obviously very different.

It's similar to if you are arranging to meet a couple but only the guy turns up, it's not what you expected.

As I say, just a personal view.

I do somewhat agree with that but see the thing is most men want to meet now and expect me to be sitting around all day ever day shaved with full face on just waiting cock and them message me

Trying to say to one look can’t meet just now but can in to days time seems like it’s not good a nuff for them

And if the do wait and meet it’s wam bam thank you man 5 minutes splat and run out the door

Mean sorry but it’s just took me day and odd to shave tan and get ready for a meet 5 minutes isn’t worst that hassle

Sorry Natalie, but you are talking about men specific meets, the OP was asking everyone. So I answered as a couple.

Wasn’t geting on at you was just saying that it can be quite hard for us to look the way we do and people just expect us to sit around all day ever day waiting on a message comeing though to meet x

I know you are not getting at me Natalie.

It also take Sarah 3 bloody hours to get ready

I was merely pointing out, if we were going to meet a TV/TS then we would expect to meet a TV/TS. If we wanted to meet a guy, then we would just message a guy without any confusion. x "

Aww ok sorry my bad I picked yous up wrong xxx

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Maybe a little tweaking would help Harper.

To play with a TV/TS could probably be called a fetish or an adventure into something different for a lot of people (including us). When your meeting a TV/TS you are expecting a (hopefully) very feminine person, who looks like a beautiful lady but with a dick, that's the attraction.

Every guy has a dick, we all know that and that's a separate attraction for Sarah only, I'm not interested in that.

I hope you understand the point I'm trying to make? I'm not saying it's the correct one. x

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

I think it's reasonable to expect someone with a TV profile to dress for a meet. I've actually had a few contact me and ask to meet in ' male mode ' or have me dress and make them up!

If I'm asked to meet at very short notice I explain that ' full glam ' makeup won't be possible and I will arrive in something more pared down { minus false lashes and more basic eye make-up } Most understand that { A cis female isn't likely to be sitting at home in full slap and the same goes for me } I think people would rather you appear a little less glam than wait for two hours while you painstakingly transform to match your best photos

Given notice I relish the opportunity to look as fabulous as I'm able to and agree it's disappointing if you go to that effort and a guy has it in mind to bend you over and screw you 5 mins after you get through the door { and worse if he cums 2 mins after that! }

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"You mean they wake up and half there face is still on the pillow.

That happens with women too.

Yeah course happens with us all

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