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Genuine reason for no veri

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes "

for me theres not much excuse to get verified either by meet or photo we can all do 1 of them within 12mths

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes "

Verifications don't really prove much really other than a person with a user name exists. I wouldn't get too hung up on it

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes "

I consider you're being a bit unfair to a lot of people.

The past 6 months have been tough for all the obvious reasons. People haven't been meeting at all, hence no Verifications.

Or in my case, in pre-Covid times, I was out of action due to medical issues for 10 months. That meant no meets at all, so zero Verifications in those months, though I did possess Veri's from previous years.

Thus, there can always be underlying considerations to be taken into account.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am also referring to being photo verified. At the start we was naive to how many fake accounts there would be and got duped a couple of times before filtering out people that hadn't been verified (which includes just photo-verified).

It's not that hard at all to become photo verified no matter what the circumstance really

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Perhaps some don’t want everyone to know who they have been with it doesn’t mean they are fake

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP? "

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

So you dont show veri and your not photo verified ??? So your fake ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you dont show veri and your not photo verified ??? So your fake ???"

Well that's what I'm presuming unless someone that isnt photo verified OR verified in person comments on the thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has no photo veri... decided i could not be bothered to do one.... plus means trying to get a pic of the fella with us holding a bit of paper up twice (we have 2 accounts)...and tbh i just couldnt be bothered trying to sort it out.... but we have other veris so no bother to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"has no photo veri... decided i could not be bothered to do one.... plus means trying to get a pic of the fella with us holding a bit of paper up twice (we have 2 accounts)...and tbh i just couldnt be bothered trying to sort it out.... but we have other veris so no bother to me"

If you have veris, I dont think your fake.

I'm talking about not having one OR the other

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake "

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster? "

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep i couldn’t be arsed With the paper bit and holding up etc etc

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Seems you're lucky to get a meet veri so quickly.

For the majority (single guys), it's hard enough getting a reply to messages, and even harder to get a meet, even if a social.

There are plenty of fake profiles here who are photo/meet verified. And make who write fake verifications too.

I judge individuals on their reliance of interaction rather than whether they're verification or not.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Simply pass them by then ... if they aren’t verified or a pic ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some people don't want to photo veri as they are not happy having a face or full length nude of them sent to whoever Fab admin are?

Maybe some people want to take their time with before meeting or have difficulty arranging meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems you're lucky to get a meet veri so quickly.

For the majority (single guys), it's hard enough getting a reply to messages, and even harder to get a meet, even if a social.

There are plenty of fake profiles here who are photo/meet verified. And make who write fake verifications too.

I judge individuals on their reliance of interaction rather than whether they're verification or not."

Not trying to rub it in that weve had meets.

I just dont understand why for over a year you cant demonstrate you're not a fake by providing at least a photo veri if you cant get a meet veri.

Anyways, we cant recieve messages if you dont get verified. Just wondering if anyone had a genuine reason for not doing it at all

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Do we need a genuine reason not to display a verification or be photo verified yes it probably limits the people who will chat or even message you but not everyone on fab is looking for meets some like myself just browse the forums and check out the pics and videos I’ve no interest in meeting anyone from here tbh well at the moment for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do we need a genuine reason not to display a verification or be photo verified yes it probably limits the people who will chat or even message you but not everyone on fab is looking for meets some like myself just browse the forums and check out the pics and videos I’ve no interest in meeting anyone from here tbh well at the moment for obvious reasons "

Our first genuine reason...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri "

You know the verification system isn't fool-proof.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Do we need a genuine reason not to display a verification or be photo verified yes it probably limits the people who will chat or even message you but not everyone on fab is looking for meets some like myself just browse the forums and check out the pics and videos I’ve no interest in meeting anyone from here tbh well at the moment for obvious reasons

Our first genuine reason..."
hence I’m in stealth mode at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

You know the verification system isn't fool-proof. "

It certainly helps though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you’ve been on here for a couple of weeks and got some veris. So what.

Everybody has their own reasons for not having veris. It’s not for you to try and berate them for choosing not to do something that you don’t like.

If it affects you that much then ignore them and move on.

Why do you not display your veris? Probably because you don’t want to. See, this is how the site works. Personal choice!

Rant over..

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We were talking to a young lady a couple of weeks ago who wasn't photo-verified. When I asked her why she said she didn't know anything about it. I told her how to do it and why it helps be taken seriously and she was verified within a few hours.

That the only legitimate reason I've come across for not doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you’ve been on here for a couple of weeks and got some veris. So what.

Everybody has their own reasons for not having veris. It’s not for you to try and berate them for choosing not to do something that you don’t like.

If it affects you that much then ignore them and move on.

Why do you not display your veris? Probably because you don’t want to. See, this is how the site works. Personal choice!

Rant over.."

Your rant has missed the point entirely of the original post. I wasnt berating in the slightest. Genuinely curious as to their reasons...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have had my time wasted a few times on here by people are well verified.

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

First off op is rude af and no matter how many Veris you have you could still be a damn serial killer so veris mean sod all

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It’s all down to personal choice I guess but my thoughts are:

I really don’t see why someone can’t get photo verified. The picture isn’t public so privacy isn’t the issue.

In the UK you aren’t able to meet but Skype, Zoom and Fab chat rooms provide verification opportunities.

I do fully understand why people might not publish verifications as we know only too well that our veris have been a source of prospects for others.

Back to personal choice, it doesn’t really matter to us as we never contact or reply to anyone who’s not verified.

Mind you it would be nice to find some way of stopping the army of single men pretending to be couples

Mark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First off op is rude af and no matter how many Veris you have you could still be a damn serial killer so veris mean sod all "

Am I??

You would trust someone without at least being photo-verified.

And I believe you're the one who appears more rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s all down to personal choice I guess but my thoughts are:

I really don’t see why someone can’t get photo verified. The picture isn’t public so privacy isn’t the issue.

In the UK you aren’t able to meet but Skype, Zoom and Fab chat rooms provide verification opportunities.

I do fully understand why people might not publish verifications as we know only too well that our veris have been a source of prospects for others.

Back to personal choice, it doesn’t really matter to us as we never contact or reply to anyone who’s not verified.

Mind you it would be nice to find some way of stopping the army of single men pretending to be couples

Mark

"

Thank you Mark for your thoughts! I agree with you entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most here seems to have taken the OP the wrong way. It was just a curiosity question.

For us, we are the same as the OP. We don't believe it's hard to get at least photo verified. We're still new and haven't had any meets yet but it takes literally 2 mins to become photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake "

Why do you think you are entitled to a "good reason" as to why people do things you don't approve of?

If it's such an issue for you then simply don't communicate with them and leave them to run their profile how they want to.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster? "

It doesn’t - photo verifications prove couples are couples and women are women. If someone’s had an account for a year and isn’t verified in some way they are highly likely a fake or fantasist / time waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most here seems to have taken the OP the wrong way. It was just a curiosity question.

For us, we are the same as the OP. We don't believe it's hard to get at least photo verified. We're still new and haven't had any meets yet but it takes literally 2 mins to become photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

It doesn’t - photo verifications prove couples are couples and women are women. If someone’s had an account for a year and isn’t verified in some way they are highly likely a fake or fantasist / time waster "

Exactly

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We are not photo verified but are meet verified couldn't see the point in photo verifed as we got told you can fake that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

Why do you think you are entitled to a "good reason" as to why people do things you don't approve of?

If it's such an issue for you then simply don't communicate with them and leave them to run their profile how they want to.

"

Never claimed it was a big issue. Was just curious if there was a genuine reason or not.

We dont recieve messages now from people that arent photo or meet verified; dont have at least one public photo; also not a site supporter. So it isnt an issue at all anymore as we dont see them profiles.

When we first joined, we got duped by a guy pretending to be a girl, and a man pretending to be in a couple and from then on have become more savvy at spotting fakes. So thought it was a valid question to post.

Apologies to anyone finding that disrespectful in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri "

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris."

I would argue that the guy should make a new single profile and let people know maybe, but it is a fair point and a genuine reason.

But it has kind of proven my point because it is you, and not someone without a PV or other Veri commenting that.

Genuinely not overthinking it. People need to stop thinking I am. Was light hearted curiosity. Would possibly rephrase original post if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris.

"

That's a fair example and has been known plenty. You're always gonna get ones that can get around the photo veri somehow unless fab make you do it say 'every 6 months' or something like that.

I'd still say there's less chance of a photo verified profile being fake than not so

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris."

Common sense on a site that is renowned for high numbers of fake accounts is don’t waste you time on accounts without verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris.

I would argue that the guy should make a new single profile and let people know maybe, but it is a fair point and a genuine reason.

But it has kind of proven my point because it is you, and not someone without a PV or other Veri commenting that.

Genuinely not overthinking it. People need to stop thinking I am. Was light hearted curiosity. Would possibly rephrase original post if I could "

Regarding your original post - I know someone on here who's been on the site for several years. He has no veris (pv or otherwise) and yet he's very much real and genuine. He's not bothered with the veris as usually not looking to meet and uses the site for the chatrooms only. Maybe there are others doing similar - just want to look at pics and interact in the forums and chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dubious of accounts active for a year with no picture verification or meets.

I ask myself why they are still using the site after this time as they can't post on the forums.

Then I ask them.

I don't get a reply, but that's just them giving me a polite no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris.

Common sense on a site that is renowned for high numbers of fake accounts is don’t waste you time on accounts without verifications "

Somebody gave you a chance at some point...

I've met a few without veris during my time on here. All of them proved to be very much genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake

How does being photo verified prove that someones not a timewaster?

Doesn't prove they arent a time waster...but proves they are who they say they are surely

E.g. a guy pretending to be a bi girl to see our private pics that has no photo veri or actual veri

Give you an example. A couple: photo and meet verified, been on site for over a year. Split up, the single man still uses the couple's profile although he's on his own now. Is that profile real? What do pv and other veris matter really? Do your own checks and go with your gut and common sense. Don't overthink and overvalue the veris.

I would argue that the guy should make a new single profile and let people know maybe, but it is a fair point and a genuine reason.

But it has kind of proven my point because it is you, and not someone without a PV or other Veri commenting that.

Genuinely not overthinking it. People need to stop thinking I am. Was light hearted curiosity. Would possibly rephrase original post if I could

Regarding your original post - I know someone on here who's been on the site for several years. He has no veris (pv or otherwise) and yet he's very much real and genuine. He's not bothered with the veris as usually not looking to meet and uses the site for the chatrooms only. Maybe there are others doing similar - just want to look at pics and interact in the forums and chatrooms."

again, perfectly valid reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done the photo verification, but got no verifications from others cos Im new and met anyone

Quiet simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same OP. My message restrictions are set so unless you're verified in one way or the other, you cannot message me.

Now, noone is saying being verified means you're not a time waster but, it does generally mean you're not fake.

Also, in this day and age, we all have a smart phone or laptop we can video chat one and therefore, get verified during lockdown wasn't exactly impossible.

No hate on those who aren't verified just, personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I’ve verified by photo but find it hard for couples and single ladies to trust that I am a genuine guy. I’ve spoken to a few ladies and couples on here that in my stupidity thought were genuine but just lead me on. Because of this I don’t have any veris and as such people see that and think your not genuine.....it’s a vicious circle

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm photo verified but, for complicated personal reasons, I choose not to show verifications. Yes, I'm quite sure there are some who will pass me by because I am not seen to be meet verified, but it doesn't bother me & certainly hasn't stopped me getting meets when I want them. I've met some great people on here, several who I consider good friends, they know I'm genuine.

A lot of veris I take with a pinch of salt anyway & fake profiles are usually quite easy to spot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I’ve verified by photo but find it hard for couples and single ladies to trust that I am a genuine guy. I’ve spoken to a few ladies and couples on here that in my stupidity thought were genuine but just lead me on. Because of this I don’t have any veris and as such people see that and think your not genuine.....it’s a vicious circle "

We would generally trust you was genuine if photo verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've done the photo verification, but got no verifications from others cos Im new and met anyone

Quiet simple"

You're verified then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the same OP. My message restrictions are set so unless you're verified in one way or the other, you cannot message me.

Now, noone is saying being verified means you're not a time waster but, it does generally mean you're not fake.

Also, in this day and age, we all have a smart phone or laptop we can video chat one and therefore, get verified during lockdown wasn't exactly impossible.

No hate on those who aren't verified just, personal preference. "

Exactly, not sure why people are not really understanding what I was trying to communicate but oh well

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"I'm the same OP. My message restrictions are set so unless you're verified in one way or the other, you cannot message me.

Now, noone is saying being verified means you're not a time waster but, it does generally mean you're not fake.

Also, in this day and age, we all have a smart phone or laptop we can video chat one and therefore, get verified during lockdown wasn't exactly impossible.

No hate on those who aren't verified just, personal preference.

Exactly, not sure why people are not really understanding what I was trying to communicate but oh well "
that’s the forums for you some are totally blinkered in their thinking and some turn nasty personally I thought you asked a decent question makes a change from the normal garbage like cock size or rate the pic above tripe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the same OP. My message restrictions are set so unless you're verified in one way or the other, you cannot message me.

Now, noone is saying being verified means you're not a time waster but, it does generally mean you're not fake.

Also, in this day and age, we all have a smart phone or laptop we can video chat one and therefore, get verified during lockdown wasn't exactly impossible.

No hate on those who aren't verified just, personal preference.

Exactly, not sure why people are not really understanding what I was trying to communicate but oh well that’s the forums for you some are totally blinkered in their thinking and some turn nasty personally I thought you asked a decent question makes a change from the normal garbage like cock size or rate the pic above tripe "

Our first day on the forum. Been fun. We will learn haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake "

The reason may be that it's their choice. It's not up to everyone else to dictate how they run their profiles. It doesn't necessarily make them fake. Some people choose not to meet certain people, ie, smokers, people over 50 or under 25 for example. Again, that's their choice, doesn't make them fake. Fab provides plenty of filters to avoid those who you don't want contact with, just apply yours accordingly, it's the simplest way to do things.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"I'm the same OP. My message restrictions are set so unless you're verified in one way or the other, you cannot message me.

Now, noone is saying being verified means you're not a time waster but, it does generally mean you're not fake.

Also, in this day and age, we all have a smart phone or laptop we can video chat one and therefore, get verified during lockdown wasn't exactly impossible.

No hate on those who aren't verified just, personal preference.

Exactly, not sure why people are not really understanding what I was trying to communicate but oh well that’s the forums for you some are totally blinkered in their thinking and some turn nasty personally I thought you asked a decent question makes a change from the normal garbage like cock size or rate the pic above tripe

Our first day on the forum. Been fun. We will learn haha"
it’s funny I find arguing with people whilst they are flashing their bits of I find it hard to take them serious whilst sat with their cock out or flashing their clopper of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also referring to being photo verified. At the start we was naive to how many fake accounts there would be and got duped a couple of times before filtering out people that hadn't been verified (which includes just photo-verified).

It's not that hard at all to become photo verified no matter what the circumstance really"

Not everyone wants to be photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?"

This thread is fatality flawed OP. You see people who are not varied by meet/photo cant post on the forums so can't answer your question.

Highly amusing thread though lol.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Perhaps they choose not to have them OP?

Not even being photo-verified though. What good reason do they have if they have been here so long.....unless fake "

I didn't get photo veried for about 3 months why because I just couldn't be bothered to. No other reason. Doesn't mean I was fake. And there are plenty of photo veried accounts that aren't genuine as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This thread is fatality flawed OP. You see people who are not varied by meet/photo cant post on the forums so can't answer your question.

Highly amusing thread though lol. "

Oh hahaha. I'm silly. Bloody newb!

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm photo-veried and need to get a webcam to chat but lots of folk say they dont trust cam verification anyway.

A couple of years ago, with a previous profile, I had two meets but neither woman was veried herself so they couldn't verify me. They both said 'why bother, I get meets anyway?' Now we're in lockdown so meets are out anyway

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes "

I’ve never needed to photo verify hell as a single woman I think I got about 50 messages before I got round to putting any photos on. I don’t do Public nude or face photos so I’m not happy with them ‘out there’ . I’ve got meet veris - I don’t display them as what’s in them is irrelevant it’s the fact that I’ve been verified as genuine by meets that’s important.

Also the least reliable person I’ve ever met from here had the most veris.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"So I would like to ask the people behind the profiles without no verification, not even a photo-veri and been here for over a year. We have been here for 2 weeks and provided a photo-veri as soon as we could. Then had a couple of social meets to become properly verified.

So if you are genuinely not fake, what reason do you have for not being verified?

This will likely not receive any replies as they are all fakes "

They are studying at Sydney university!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 4 meets on here but no one has left a verification.

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

warrington

Im photo verified on here, but as im here to mainly chat to people or on the forums, and dont webcam, i doubt i'll end up receiving any verifications. Specially as the criteria says not to pnly include chat, but must be webcam / in person.

I have no issue with that, nor do the people i have been chatting to over the years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I’ve verified by photo but find it hard for couples and single ladies to trust that I am a genuine guy. I’ve spoken to a few ladies and couples on here that in my stupidity thought were genuine but just lead me on. Because of this I don’t have any veris and as such people see that and think your not genuine.....it’s a vicious circle

We would generally trust you was genuine if photo verified "

Thank you that’s nice to know xx

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