FabSwingers.com forum: Success rate?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we are new and yet to meet anyone. But we are really keen and just keep chatting to time wasters. When it comes to meeting or even just getting on a call with all 4 of us they disappear like it was all just a game to them.

How often does everyone actually get chatting to legit people that turn into something genuine?

1 in 10? 1 in 20? Anyone have better odds than that?

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Near enough always chat to genuine people you soon get to know how to

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

All i meet are genuine people i always make the efort and themselves also that it worth keep the friendship with honest genuine and trustworthy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we are new and yet to meet anyone. But we are really keen and just keep chatting to time wasters. When it comes to meeting or even just getting on a call with all 4 of us they disappear like it was all just a game to them.

How often does everyone actually get chatting to legit people that turn into something genuine?

1 in 10? 1 in 20? Anyone have better odds than that?"

1 in 20

Because after chatting on day 1 , couples lose interest and they expect you to initiate chat the next day

Well good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 1 in 100 I'd say.

Somewhat higher batting rate with couples in the sense that fewer of them are time wasters but similar proportion of play meets as there are usually more complications to overcome with couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Near enough always chat to genuine people you soon get to know how to"

Not sure it about "How" but rather "who". We feel like they are genuine and then turn out to be a lonely guy or a couple who just aren't ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"About 1 in 100 I'd say.

Somewhat higher batting rate with couples in the sense that fewer of them are time wasters but similar proportion of play meets as there are usually more complications to overcome with couples."

This seems more like what we have experienced. Not spoken to 100 yet and hopefully this is an exaggeration but yeah, more time wasters than not so far...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often does everyone actually get chatting to legit people that turn into something genuine?

1 in 10? 1 in 20? Anyone have better odds than that?

1 in 20

Because after chatting on day 1 , couples lose interest and they expect you to initiate chat the next day

Well good luck OP"

We think this is a thing because maybe the couple is in the mood on the night and then work and kids and life happen, before you know it days have passed and the interest is lost. Maybe???

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We tend to only meet couples with public verifications, it’s still hard work though. We have the best results when we quickly move it to WhatsApp and arrange a meet fairly quickly , suggesting this also gets rid of time wasters fairly quickly, because confident couples dint mess around, they know what they want , they know straight away if there’s likely chemistry and are happy to meet up to make sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We tend to only meet couples with public verifications, it’s still hard work though. We have the best results when we quickly move it to WhatsApp and arrange a meet fairly quickly , suggesting this also gets rid of time wasters fairly quickly, because confident couples dint mess around, they know what they want , they know straight away if there’s likely chemistry and are happy to meet up to make sure "

Aye, the verification is key. Its hard to expect this from people when we don't have any yet so it's just about getting a few to start. Thanks for the tips though xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Meeting isn't possible at the moment via the site anyway. We'd say that of the people we chat to quote a high percentage used to lead to a social at least. 99% are genuine but if we don't click on either side we accept that

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Initially we struggled, but now we have a pretty good sense for where the conversations going.

Dirty talk straight away in the first message, it’s a guy jacking off.

One word or short messages, they’re just using shotgun approach and will lose interest quickly.

Verifications are obviously good but even then not too much of an indication.

When’s we see a profile we like, We generally send a message out with what we’re looking for, bit of an introduction and our pics. We get a reply maybe 90% of the time. And from there would actually end up meeting a small percentage, but that’s due to not clicking or being attracted or it just being difficult logistically rather than time wasting. First reply or two you should know how it’s going to end up.

It can be tough on here, when the world is normal we just check in here to meet new people, majority of our fun is with existing friends or in clubs.

Good luck and keep the faith!

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