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Ten or 12 years older than ya pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not clever thinking you look like you did in 2008 .

Why do people do it .??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to.

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

Fab ages - amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not clever thinking you look like you did in 2008 .

Why do people do it .?? "

I know, bars were a lot more busy back in 2008

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I walked away from someone who had clearly lied about his age and height. I was fuming as my time is too precious to waste plus i had travelled 30miles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's got its own actual term .. age fabrication.

Should be one for using out of date pics that make you think either they are top notch at airbrushing or the grandparent turned up instead

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I don't get this either, if you want to meet people then they'll see what you look like so just be honest.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's why we prefer clubs (when they were open). You can see them and they can see you before committing to play. Age doesn't matter as much as mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one of the main reasons my upper age limit isn’t much above 40 despite almost being 41 myself. The amount of people who’ve stated they’re 41 or 42 and have been 50 at best is amazing.

Do they think people will just be too polite to mention it when they see them in the flesh?

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Because I'm now old, obese and ugly instead of just being ugly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not clever thinking you look like you did in 2008 .

Why do people do it .?? "

because they think they will get away with it but with most people they wont fall for it ... ive had it the other way around were they show you an older pic then turn up only for me to say no chance there are some on here who are 20 years older than they say...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

To be fair if they uploaded the pic in 2008 I don’t think it’s deceiving. Just historical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair if they uploaded the pic in 2008 I don’t think it’s deceiving. Just historical. "

even when i ask for an upto date pic ...i think not lol as said most people aint fools

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I got a message from someone with pics years old, I'd ask for some recent ones. If they wouldn't send I'd strop contact.

I had a social year's ago, he claimed to be 36, more like 56 when he turned up.

Nothing came of it, not because of his age, but because he'd deceived me.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"It's got its own actual term .. age fabrication.

Should be one for using out of date pics that make you think either they are top notch at airbrushing or the grandparent turned up instead "

Ah I see what you mean, the date wasn't shown as been years old sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's got its own actual term .. age fabrication.

Should be one for using out of date pics that make you think either they are top notch at airbrushing or the grandparent turned up instead

Ah I see what you mean, the date wasn't shown as been years old sorry. "

i never go by profile pics i always ask for up to date if they are that interested then it takes a few mins to do with a phone..

but i also see where you are coming from too x

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We had one sent to us which was obviously dated and even had a date stamp in the corner from 2004. God knows what he was expecting to say should we have met.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Our wedding pics are 10 years old but we have others from a few weeks ago and videos from a few days ago. Our pics are varied to try to show our personalities. That we like to laught and that we are totally in love with each other. And we have been lucky in the fact that most of those we have met from fab have actually been better looking in person than their pics

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I get that some may be gorgeous photos and I don't have an issue with it if there are others that are up to date.

I've only ever had one social on here where when the guy turned up he looked like one of those aged-up CGI things the police use when someone goes missing.

He leaves and sets up a new profile quite often, and I think the photos he uses are the same ones from when he first joined (and were quite old at that point).

It's a shame, he wasn't a bad looking fella or anything but I was quite annoyed that he thought I wouldn't notice his being 15 years older than he said. When I explained why I wouldn't be taking things further he blamed my age filters - had I not had an upper age limit then he'd have been able to be more honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not clever thinking you look like you did in 2008 .

Why do people do it .?? "

I don't know why,I certainly wouldn't be happy though

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By *bwlover19Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Because I'm now old, obese and ugly instead of just being ugly! "

No your fit as f**k

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

But I look just the same as I did in 2000. Especially if I take my glasses off before I look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair if they uploaded the pic in 2008 I don’t think it’s deceiving. Just historical. "

That's not what I meant.

I mean people who use ancient pictures in the vain hope they still look as good as they did at granny's 80th back in 08 and send them in 2020 thinking they look exactly the same .

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By *pearmint RhinoCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We’ve got pictures dating back to 2009 on our profile and ones taken the other week. Our Fab timeline if you like. Proves we’re genuine if you ask me

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"We’ve got pictures dating back to 2009 on our profile and ones taken the other week. Our Fab timeline if you like. Proves we’re genuine if you ask me "

That’s what I was meaning but I think I understood the original post wrong xx

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Has it happen to us before don't get it we always swap pics from last 12 months we're clearly ten years older than pics and what they were claiming

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Trust is paramount.

If you lie about your age to get round someones preferences, what other boundaries are you willing to ignore?

I can think of other elements I would amend instead of my age, just a shame that those too would be quickly found out!

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

I'm far hotter now than I was 12 years ago anyway! It would only put people off ifI used old pics!

I haven't experienced it yet though, but we haven't had too many meets. I suppose even in 'real life' people provide a filtered (sometimes literally) view of themselves....but I would certainly be shocked if I showed up to a meet expecting one thing and getting something else entirely.

C (her)

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

They simply put up photos they are happy with without thinking it may be misleading. Others put them up hoping to get a social and that you'll still fancy them. Some profiles have such a weird mix of clearly old and recent photos !. One couple we met, her photos must have been around 25 years old and she did not look good !, we walked away even though they repeatedly attempted to persuade us to play

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Give me a pic from 2008 over them stupid filtered pics with bunny ears i actually prefer the silhouette pic

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