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How did you get into swinging?

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By *rs_pegging_mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We're both very new to this and haven't actually done anything with anyone else yet, due to discovering our desires just before lock down. Would love to hear how others got into it and any top tips or great stories.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Her Mum told us to try it!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

And BTW instead of screaming on your profile about not wanting men, just change your messaging settings so they can't get in touch at all.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I am bi so I played as a single female for a while, then my husband joined me in this lifestyle.

I still play alone with other ladies as well as with my husband, and we meet couples and more. This lifestyle is perfect for us and I feel my life is complete and living life as the 'real' me.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The story of our first meet is linked to at the end of our profile...it was all thanks to Fab, and what an experience! It was something we’d discussed for a while, and when we finally took the plunge it was a lot easier to find a woman than we thought it would be. Although a few years later, think we just got very lucky!

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By *rs_pegging_mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

WOW amazing story. Here's hoping we get to do something soon

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Got dumped. Decided to look for something that was the opposite of a relationship.

Never looked back. That was like 15 years ago.

My vagina has had some beeaauuttiful adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend introduced me to it all 13 years ago, I was only 18. Been here ever since and met J through fab. Swinging is part of my lifestyle and probably always will be now.

Lu

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"A friend introduced me to it all 13 years ago, I was only 18. Been here ever since and met J through fab. Swinging is part of my lifestyle and probably always will be now.

Lu "

That’s it. You’ve got the nail on the head. It’s a lifestyle. My whole social life and friendship circle. It’s amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend introduced me to it all 13 years ago, I was only 18. Been here ever since and met J through fab. Swinging is part of my lifestyle and probably always will be now.

Lu

That’s it. You’ve got the nail on the head. It’s a lifestyle. My whole social life and friendship circle. It’s amazing "

Yep! Same here! I have very few vanilla friends and most of my closest pals are people I've met through the swinging/fet scene.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"WOW amazing story. Here's hoping we get to do something soon "

Thanks, it was an amazing time...happy to say we’ve had even better meets since then, and all have been arranged through Fab. Let’s hope things change soon and it can begin again.

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By *rs_pegging_mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Wow that's awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just went to a club one night and watched others having fun on a rather large bed. Joined in. The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started by wanting to watch my wife get fucked

That led to us both wearing stockings during sex

Then led to us looking for a male to play with us who all wore lingerie together.

The best nights sex was me wife and X dresser together

Hard to find X dresser that's a man who wants to fuck whilst dressed and not a sissy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked for years about it went to a club and got really turned on by what we seen the rest his history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I many years ago had an impromptu mmmf with my, at the time, girlfriend.

When Licky and I got together, this cropped up in a conversation and she loved the idea, so we got ourselves a profile on Fab, a membership at Chams and as they say, the rest is history!!

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

We’ve been together since being teens, a few years in we had a friend round and we were getting a little playful with each other. It got hot and he got included.

MMF has been something we continued on and off whenever the opportunities came up, swapping and exploring more came up in conversation a few years back so we joined SH and found FAB through that.

Wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging got into me

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Got told about this place as I wanted to explore my bi curiosity with other women

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

Through contact mags in the 70s. Pics only in black and white and everything done via sending letters/polaroids to potential players through the post. Long winded but oh, so 'underground' and sexy in those days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d been on fab for five years just lurking looking at pictures as I’ve no interest in meeting women.

Working away and Carol sent me a tit pic which blew me away which of course I told her how fucking hot it was and her being the shy low esteemed person she is didn’t believe me.

So I told her to set an account up on here which she did and then we were off and running.

T

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) tried out the scene about eight years ago when I was in a sexless marriage. My wife said I wouldn't get it from her so I should go and get it somewhere else.

I went to a club and was advised to join Fab. Over about three years I had a few adventures with two regular swinging partners.

My marriage collapsed and I started talking to Hannah. We weren't looking for or expecting to end up in a relationship together but we talked openly about our experiences and desires. I said that if I ended up in a relationship again I wouldn't want an ordinary monogamous one. As things developed between us we talked about what a relationship might look like. She was also interested in something more open than the traditional sort of thing. We wanted to be able to explore our fantasies for real with each other, and some of them involve other people, so we joined Fab together.

Not a whole lot has happened yet because she was working overseas a lot last year and then lockdown kicked in, but we have been chatting with some lovely people and met some socially. There's plenty of scope for things to develop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a few d*unken mfm's with a few friends of ours. We had a long chat one day after mr discovered this site. Set up an account and never looked back. Best decision we have made. It has opened up so many opportunities to explore each others kinks and fantasies and made us a lot closer as a couple as well. I didnt think it would have worked out as good as it has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A d*unken night out chatting to a friend and she mentioned she was here. I joined up shortly after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a park down the bottom of my hill

and I went on the swings

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

Me and partner sharing fantasies then finally bit the bullet not turned back since although this site can be very testing at times x

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By *rs_pegging_mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Wow loving these stories

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Visited my local porn cinema.

I came across a woman there (literally!) She was obviously impressed as she invited me to a get together at hers. Met a couple more and it took off from there.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"We're both very new to this and haven't actually done anything with anyone else yet, due to discovering our desires just before lock down. Would love to hear how others got into it and any top tips or great stories. "

I just toddled into a swingers club one night and the rest is history.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Seven years ago my partner suddenly amd unexpectedly dumped me a few months after meeting even though everything was going extremely well. I pestered her to explain her very strange behaviour and she eventually revealed she was into this lifestyle but thought I was too decent to be interested !!. I put her straight and we immediately resumed the relationship and joined FAB soon after

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"We're both very new to this and haven't actually done anything with anyone else yet, due to discovering our desires just before lock down. Would love to hear how others got into it and any top tips or great stories. "

You may not have met anyone yet but it looks like you’ve been quite busy with yourselves

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