FabSwingers.com forum: Ever been in a situation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any of you been in a meet when it’s gone a step to far and you have been asked to do something that totally ruins the moment and you have had to stop for any reason

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

As soft swingers It’s fairly frequent that we will get asked in clubs to go further than we normally do. Usually no offence taken and we just carry on with the night as before.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Have any of you been in a meet when it’s gone a step to far and you have been asked to do something that totally ruins the moment and you have had to stop for any reason

I’m curious what made you uncomfortable ?

And yes it’s happened. Usually when it’s been discussed before hand and then they carry on pushing. Usually with me it’s wearing a condom and they won’t and when challenged they say they hoped I would just get caught up in the moment

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

same with _nked_kitten, I told and reminded few times that it has to be safe sex and one person took it out middle of the play despite my request so I got up, get dressed and left. Blocked the person here and moved on. I don’t take any disrespectful behaviour lightly especially I warned them more than one time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is a normal night in there for you two

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"same with _nked_kitten, I told and reminded few times that it has to be safe sex and one person took it out middle of the play despite my request so I got up, get dressed and left. Blocked the person here and moved on. I don’t take any disrespectful behaviour lightly especially I warned them more than one time

Iove this as it shows what a strong lady you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single...many, many times! And worse!

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

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good for you! People must be respectful.....

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sadly it has happened a few times, with single males and couples, despite having discussed things fully beforehand and being very clear about & agreeing boundaries etc, they seemed to think that once in the situation they could be pushy and shift the goal posts.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

You should have reported them to admin (assuming they're members here) for stealthing. It's a nasty, despicable thing to do if you insist on safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have reported them to admin (assuming they're members here) for stealthing. It's a nasty, despicable thing to do if you insist on safe sex."

Admin won't remove a profile or ban someone based on one report and unfortunately naming and shaming are against the site rules.

It's far too easy for people to get away with this kind of thing.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I had a different experience. I met a couple at a well known sauna venue in Brighton. Went upstairs to a rest room for some fun. In the middle of the fun, hubby announced that the wife would only be able to climax if we both urinated over her lying on the bed!

Naturally, that put me off, and I politely declined!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a different experience. I met a couple at a well known sauna venue in Brighton. Went upstairs to a rest room for some fun. In the middle of the fun, hubby announced that the wife would only be able to climax if we both urinated over her lying on the bed!

Naturally, that put me off, and I politely declined!"

What a piss take

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes. From another site, a bisexual woman who insisted many times that she was happy to play straight stepped way over the mark with me.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

You should have reported them to admin (assuming they're members here) for stealthing. It's a nasty, despicable thing to do if you insist on safe sex."

Unfortunately they don’t do anything if they have other good verifications etc. I can handle the insisting, even that is also crossing a line but taking it off while I’m not in the position of watching and thinking I won’t realise was unacceptable. Luckily I heard it before he was able to carry on like that and I could just hope my response thought him a lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he tried to say he was allergic to condoms so it was thanks and bye.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You should have reported them to admin (assuming they're members here) for stealthing. It's a nasty, despicable thing to do if you insist on safe sex.

Admin always act if they can verify a report, a person's verifications aren't significant.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few times .

When we were new ,we used to meet cpls for Socials but have some frisky fun in the car for ten min as a taster.

We set the rules as just 10 min, no nudes and no sex ,just kissing and chatting .

We met a mixed cpl ( eastern European woman and Asian guy living together)

We found that guy was nearly choking my throaty,trying to undress me and saying he like to fuck me in the car .

Then he was saying " You meet single guys ,so let's meet up. Give me your number and you don't need to tell your husband and my partner . We will meet for some fun "

By this time hubby came out and tapped on the window saying times up.

We came home and told hubby about it . He messaged him in strong words and we blocked them. But they are still around meeting people .

After that we stopped our car fun and meeting mixed cpls and fuckbuddies.

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