FabSwingers.com forum: SAFE SEX ONLY

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it on some profiles its stated "safe sex only" but the female is more than willing to do oral to completion! whats the difference shooting ones load down the back of some womans throat or shooting it up their pussy? Just curious!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it on some profiles its stated "safe sex only" but the female is more than willing to do oral to completion! whats the difference shooting ones load down the back of some womans throat or shooting it up their pussy? Just curious!!!"

same question was covered only a couple of days ago..

the outcome was that some people deny its a risk, some people say the risk is so small that they accept it and some just got angry because when faced with facts, they still didnt accept they were in denial.. and thought they were being lectured to.

the facts are that there is a risk of cathing STI from oral sex, the risks differ on whether its woman to man, man to man, man to woman etc etc. and obviously the number of different partners you do it with.

the risk is smaller than straight BB sex but is there nevertheless.

i think its just another version of russian roullette but with only one bullet amongst a selection of guns rather than just one gun.

some people think that the odds outweigh the risks and are prepared to take the risk.

and of course some people just deny there is a risk at all..

nuf said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and also why is it that people have safe sex only on profile but quite clearly, from there pictures that they take bareback... and before you say its cos its there partner, there are profiel where it is obvious that its 2 different guys... like one black and one white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos some people lie!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I was at the clap clinic yesterday for my regular tests and mentioned the uncovered oral question (I take the risk). The nurse performing the tests congratulated me for being a good condom user for penetrative sex and agreed that the risk was lesser for oral....combine that with the fact that I've had oral sex with many people over the last 30 years and have only had a dose back in the pre-AIDS days (was that long ago, dunno whether from penetration or oral, but as I didn't use condoms in those days.....) so my personal risk assessment is that I'm gonna keep going down without a condom, and if I have ulcers, cold sores or bleeding gums then it'd be a no go on the oral

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've seen that on a couple of profiles, if they're anywhere near me so there's a chance they might contact me, I make a private note and perve on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find its always best just to ask..if you want to play with them that is,

i will only fuck with condoms...but every now and then i like a bit of BB, and if i do i wont have unprotected sex with anyone else until i've had the all clear from the clinic, so it's still safe! i always assume that someone without a condom will pass an STI.

it would make sense to me that there are more antibodies in the mouth to fight infections..seeing as it's exposed 24/7..

LONG LIVE ORAL SEX!!

(her)

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