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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Cant be just us who get random s asking for a meet how do you politely decline or do you tell them straight, interestedXxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get asked this all the time from guys who clearly haven't read our profile. I used to message and say no thanks but now I just block and delete the message.

John

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Looks like the block button it isXx

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you're getting messages from guys and don't want messages from guys you need to work out how to use the site better. So many profiles scream about NO SINGLE GUYS!! when it's so easy to block them messaging at all. Just makes them look a bit... simple... to me.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Bloke the ones to don't want messages from in the first place using message filters. And if you receive a message from someone that's not for you we normally just say "sorry but we don't think it's something we would be interested in but thank you anyway, happy fabbing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete straight out 99.9% of the time.

I don’t jump into bed for random meets and don’t feel like telling everyone who asks the same thing. X

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i ignore, report then block

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Most of them haven't read my profile, so I don't feel bad deleting them

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

if they have read ir profile we usually reply if they just fancy a fuck chancers we ignore and block we do look for and meet single men so don't want to block them all

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doesn't hurt to say thank you but not for us. I only block guys who persist or are abusive.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

If they have strung a coherent sentence together are polite and respectful then . A polite reply saying no thanks Not meeting at this time .. usual suspects mailing “wanna fluck” Just get blocked

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Wouldn't know havent had a message of note since January

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Filtered and blocked,were just here to find like minded people, simple as thatXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a simple delete from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hit them with the sorry not interested happy swinging

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Some dont give you chance to reply Xx

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"If you're getting messages from guys and don't want messages from guys you need to work out how to use the site better. So many profiles scream about NO SINGLE GUYS!! when it's so easy to block them messaging at all. Just makes them look a bit... simple... to me. "

Yep

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A simple no thanks is always the polite approach.

I see couples all the time who moan that guys send silly messages such as hi or what you up to etc which understandably get deleted, they make a ponit about saying read our profile and put XY or Z as the subject heading.

The amount of times i've sent a nice polite message including face pics the works just to have it deleted without even a no thanks.

If your going to ask for the above and bloke actually takes the time to read your profile and send a decent message with face pics then surely we deserve a no thanks.

Ask yourselves this would you prefer a simple no thanks that takes 2 seconds to write as we should treat others how we like to be treated ourselves

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Can of worms,erm openedXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say 'sorry you don't match my preferences' and they've been pretty fine with that so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some dont give you chance to reply Xx"

That’s so true xx

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Weve changed our profile and settings now,had to block at least 3 yesterday, come on people this is supposed to be fun and naughtyXxxM&HXxx

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