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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

this is a kind of follow on from the women who think they are gods gift.

So do plenty of men on here. Our joint profile or single men has had much abuse from impatient men who expect a reply immediatly the second the message has been read and we have been called all sorts of names and even been called the lower level of society by some it goes like water off a ducks back to us but some people in general need to learn some manners on here if you dont get a reply immediatly its not the end of the world maybe earn some patience and you might get further. I by no means think we are anythign special but do get fed up of threads slagging off women for being rude or couples for being too picky but you need to remember in a couple there are two people who need to approve a meet and they arent always together when messages are read. Rant over now i can breathe and go get some sleep before a fun filled sunday monday and maybe tuesday at chams where single men are always lovely and polite to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the profiles and messages read like shopping list x

And I agree some men do think we are waiting for them lol

Enjoy yourselves at chams x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

didnt you post a thread about a bad experience from a roping man at chams before...so not always nice lol

people are rude no matter where you interact with them, its how you deal with it that affects you.

i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol"

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic "

Or reply and just agree with everything they say

Yours fat

I know

You're only on here cos no one will shag you in the real world

True. Thank god for fab!!!

Guys don't respect you when they shag you

I know, they are probably thinking of their wife at the time!

Usually results in them blocking you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic

O

Or reply and just agree with everything they say

Yours fat

I know

You're only on here cos no one will shag you in the real world

True. Thank god for fab!!!

Guys don't respect you when they shag you

I know, they are probably thinking of their wife at the time!

Usually results in them blocking you haha

"

Both replies are excellent!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it funny that these impatient guys are the same ones who haven't read the profile.

It often follows to saying that what we're looking for isn't as valid as what they are. As if we need or want their approval.

We know it's not for everyone, but then nothing is. We have our reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think both replies are brilliant, but I do just block and forget about them.

That said I do avoid fabs at weekends, it seems everyone is more 'available' then and people forget the working week isnt mon - fri for everyone

Still plenty more fabilicious people out there & the filters work

(then you get a message from a bloke saying I'm outside your age range , but they arnt and they were able to email me so it just shows they dont read your profile lol)

I have worked out a way of controlling the numbers in my inbox, I wont share it here

it's a secret lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, given the messages I have had, males are no different to females or couples. However the title of arrogant belongs more to the 20's age group than those my age as they do think that as they are better looking and slimmer I and every other woman on here, will automatically drop their knickers for them Thanks to the message filters, I don't have to put up with them any more, its just a shame it doesn't block them from looking too as I have several on my looked at list that have appeared a few times each day for over a week, do they think I will change my filters just for them? Nope not a chance

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"didnt you post a thread about a bad experience from a roping man at chams before...so not always nice lol

people are rude no matter where you interact with them, its how you deal with it that affects you.

i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol"
It was the female from a couple but well remembered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse

gets classic "

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over a year ago

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

i tend to reply giving a piece of my mind and correcting them then block them that block button is lovely but it does make me laugh how many get arsey when you pull them up on basics such as reading a profile or even a status. Think i might be trying some of those replies out tho it will definately make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel embarassed to be a male after reading all of these posts!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic "

Lol you have an evil streak

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By *ord n Lady LoverocketCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


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i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic "

I agree but Lordy blocks them!!!!

We have a code word in profile so ones who don't put this as a header obviously haven't read profile & are purely perving at pics!!!!!!!

We don't answer unless you use code lol then usually get secondary mess saying oh sorry forgot to put code word lmaooooooo

Lady L

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By *ord n Lady LoverocketCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Ps the other thing is talking to couples on here & arrange to meet in clubs then when you do the female half doesn't have a clue who you are!!!!!!!

So you never know WHO you are chattin to !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that many .... and to be honest the block works so you shouldn't have to worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I feel embarassed to be a male after reading all of these posts!! "

Theres more lovely messages sent than rude ones,well thats my experience anyway but thats not scandalous or whinge worthy so no-one really mentions that they get them that often

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"To be honest, given the messages I have had, males are no different to females or couples. However the title of arrogant belongs more to the 20's age group than those my age as they do think that as they are better looking and slimmer I and every other woman on here, will automatically drop their knickers for them Thanks to the message filters, I don't have to put up with them any more, its just a shame it doesn't block them from looking too as I have several on my looked at list that have appeared a few times each day for over a week, do they think I will change my filters just for them? Nope not a chance "

I had too much time on my hands the other day and actually looked at the "looked at me". The average age of the men that looked at me was 29! Some look several times a day.

Thank God for the filters. That said, I've never received a nasty letter from any one. I've had men try to tell me who I should see - bless em - I only block after I get bored of them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i tend to reply giving a piece of my mind and correcting them then block them that block button is lovely but it does make me laugh how many get arsey when you pull them up on basics such as reading a profile or even a status. Think i might be trying some of those replies out tho it will definately make me smile "

I only get arsey with married men who contact me saying it's NSA and I accommodate what difference does their marital status make. I take that back, I'm not arsey I let rip.

To the others, if they're outwith my criteria I ignore, but sometimes to amuse myself I'll reply with, "I'm curious, truly I am. When you read single/sub/local/straight/white/tall, what made you think hmmm...she doesn't mean me, that's for the other fellas!"

Some respond sorry, didn't read the profile, others I read it but I'm desperate!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I feel embarassed to be a male after reading all of these posts!! "

Does your embarrassment stretch to the actions of all men or only those on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This rudeness tends to happen when the guy thinks that their needs overrides your needs and when you don't comply with that viewpoint they get rude and nasty.

Its their problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel embarassed to be a male after reading all of these posts!!

Does your embarrassment stretch to the actions of all men or only those on here? "

Always feel embarassed when I hear of guys being rude and abusive.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think both replies are brilliant, but I do just block and forget about them.

That said I do avoid fabs at weekends, it seems everyone is more 'available' then and people forget the working week isnt mon - fri for everyone

Still plenty more fabilicious people out there & the filters work

(then you get a message from a bloke saying I'm outside your age range , but they arnt and they were able to email me so it just shows they dont read your profile lol)

I have worked out a way of controlling the numbers in my inbox, I wont share it here

it's a secret lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i used to get really bothered by it but now i just let them get on with it...they are the ones geetting frustrated cos i wont fuck them lol

i find it funnier to not block them but let them carry on mailing you but dont reply because it pisses them off even more knowing your reading their messages and still not biting the abuse gets classic "

Don't you bite !! Damn I was hoping you liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel embarassed to be a male after reading all of these posts!!

Does your embarrassment stretch to the actions of all men or only those on here?

Always feel embarassed when I hear of guys being rude and abusive. "
Theres some lovely men here and i have to say i have only ever had two men nasty to me here on fab .

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