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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been 'with' someone for over 3 years and we've reached a point where it's not working. Physically it's fantastic but emotionally it's just not working so I called it off. He wants to be friends I think we should have a clean break.

Has anyone been in a similar situation and managed to be friends after the sexual relationship ended?

I should add that I'm still friends with previous FB's but the guy I've just split from was way more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been 'with' someone for over 3 years and we've reached a point where it's not working. Physically it's fantastic but emotionally it's just not working so I called it off. He wants to be friends I think we should have a clean break.

Has anyone been in a similar situation and managed to be friends after the sexual relationship ended?

I should add that I'm still friends with previous FB's but the guy I've just split from was way more than that.

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It sounds rather like Charlie and myself, we were FWBs. He is also on dating sites I want something more and his actions/words cause me too much pain. So currently I have walked away. Being friends would not work, so we are currently not in contact. Although I don't rule out seeing him someday in the distant future, hence keeping profile as hidden. I also think a clean break is best. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been 'with' someone for over 3 years and we've reached a point where it's not working. Physically it's fantastic but emotionally it's just not working so I called it off. He wants to be friends I think we should have a clean break.

Has anyone been in a similar situation and managed to be friends after the sexual relationship ended?

I should add that I'm still friends with previous FB's but the guy I've just split from was way more than that.

It sounds rather like Charlie and myself, we were FWBs. He is also on dating sites I want something more and his actions/words cause me too much pain. So currently I have walked away. Being friends would not work, so we are currently not in contact. Although I don't rule out seeing him someday in the distant future, hence keeping profile as hidden. I also think a clean break is best. X"

I've got a profile with him that I've hidden too. We're both married so there was never any desire from either of us for a 'real-life' relationship but even so it was complicated X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Clean break is always best x or you end up being the booty call in my experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what you feel about not seeing him again at all and what he means by friends or if he thinks benefits always go with being friends. Talk to him ask him but go with what your head says ultimately.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you don't want to be friends, don't be. It's no more complicated than you make it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

cut ties your both married you where only fuck buddies they dont last forever

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Clean break is always best x or you end up being the booty call in my experiences "

Sometimes that can work if you are both mature , there’s on ex here I see 3-4 times a year and it’s cool. It depends on the person , guys are often worse than girls for getting all attached though.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It can work sometimes. Im friends with a couple of ex's. Booty calls can work both ways

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Im still really good friends with 2 guys that i used to fuck we quickly realised that we werent what each other wanted sexually but that we had lots in common in other ways so remain friends i would actually go as far as saying one of them is actually my best friend the one that i tell everything too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cut ties your both married you where only fuck buddies they dont last forever"

We were definitely not just fuck buddies. No dispute about that

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