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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them" this for me. Majority of my meets I havent kissed people. 121 is a little different but it certainly hasnt been an issue. I cant and wont kiss everyone x | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them" you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are | |||
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"Essential to me. Lots and lots of kissing, cuddling, fucking it all makes the ideal meet " Perfect! | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are" A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences | |||
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"I thought it would matter not snogging. But I had a steamy fuck without kissing because he had a cold sore and didn't want to spread it" That was quick thinking! | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences " Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. | |||
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"Kissing is hot and essential." I couldn't agree more! Now pucker up and brace yourself. | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. " I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out " You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it | |||
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging." I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like. I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance. | |||
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging. I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like. I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance." No, I meant that I didn't understand the process. | |||
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging. I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like. I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance. No, I meant that I didn't understand the process. " In what way? | |||
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"No kissing no meet and if that include kissing hubby ,step to the front of the queue ,,, " I'd love to snog your hubby | |||
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"Is a good snog essential to anyone else? I love a good snog, male female or trans." Most definitely,no play without that for me. | |||
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"Love a deep French kiss..." I cannot agree more. With m or f | |||
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"I struggle to understand how sex can happen without snogging. I struggle to understand how people can not understand why not everybody likes what they like. I love kissing other women, but I have no desire to kiss any man other than my partner. Sex certainly doesn't have to be romantic, but for me kissing is romantic. I swing for sex not romance. No, I meant that I didn't understand the process. " It's not a process, once you get that you get how people can have sex without kissing | |||
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"I thought it would matter not snogging. But I had a steamy fuck without kissing because he had a cold sore and didn't want to spread it That was quick thinking! " tbf we wanted to fuck eachother for ages, so getting down to it with no traditional foreplay like kissing and touching didn't matter as the sexual chemistry was really present | |||
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"Is a good snog essential to anyone else? I love a good snog, male female or trans." Not essential but I do love a good snog with a kissing compatible companion. (Why do my lips fit so perfectly with some people and not with others?). I think I would rather have a really sexy kissing session with some passionate groping than almost anything. | |||
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"Snogging is ace, sensual, and essential." To some people anal sex is essential, but certainly not to everyone, so perhaps you should say "essential to me". Also the sex I have is always sensual, but the sex itself is enough. I don't need intimacy to enjoy it, neither have any of the men, or groups of men, I've played with. Intimacy is for me and my partner - I can have great sex without it, just as I can have great sex with a vibrator, and I don't need to kiss that either! | |||
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"Wow How cold and awful would sex without kissing be .. Totally not natural. " :shrugs: it's not cold and awful and completely natural. | |||
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"Wow How cold and awful would sex without kissing be .. Totally not natural. " That is totally your opinion but I can assure you that, for me (and those we have met) sex can absolutely be both hot and amazing without them kissing me on the mouth. I don't want or need that intimacy from a third person joining us. I get all the intimacy I need from my partner. No complaints as yet | |||
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"Kissing is an essential part of our play" Same. I’d rather not meet somebody than meet without kissing. | |||
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"Kissing is an essential part of our play Same. I’d rather not meet somebody than meet without kissing. " You clearly wouldn't be compatible with someone who didn't want to kiss. The question of meeting wouldn't even arise. | |||
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"Yes we love kissing and cuddling." Same for us. Don’t think we’d enjoy a meet without it to be honest.... | |||
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"Wow How cold and awful would sex without kissing be .. Totally not natural. That is totally your opinion but I can assure you that, for me (and those we have met) sex can absolutely be both hot and amazing without them kissing me on the mouth. I don't want or need that intimacy from a third person joining us. I get all the intimacy I need from my partner. No complaints as yet " | |||
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"Important part of a meet for me " Good to know snogging and kissing in general is essential | |||
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"Dam right it is ....with the right man gets me wet and wanting more" Me to with the right lady | |||
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"Yes best part of erotic fourplay, love kissing and teasing, wont meet folks that state no kissing " Me to | |||
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"I'm a big kisser on meets. It is important xx" I agree. Love it | |||
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"Essential to me. Lots and lots of kissing, cuddling, fucking it all makes the ideal meet " Yes really essential | |||
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"On a meet it is an absolute must for me. I adore kissing ... a massive turn on. " Same here love it | |||
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"Cant have sex without a good old fashioned snogging session ????" Nice to here enjoy as I do | |||
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"Kissing is hot and essential." Very very true impo | |||
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"Absolutely. If the kissing doesn’t work, that’s the end of it for me " So true and important for me to | |||
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"Definitely a yes for us......" Kissing is amazing and always works wonders downstairs LOL. | |||
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"It is for me Great kisses to the front of the q " I'm in the cue lol. | |||
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"No kissing no meet and if that include kissing hubby ,step to the front of the queue ,,, " Lol can I be at front please | |||
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"Love a deep French kiss..." Deep slow and soft and gentle the better for me. | |||
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"Yes I couldn't meet anyone who didn't like kissing It's the build up to everything else On our couple profile, we wouldn't meet others who don't kiss " So true | |||
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"Its a must for us... " Love it. No kiss no fuck lol. | |||
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"A good snogging is absolutely amazing but I’m very picky about what counts as “good”. Too many guys I’ve been with just face smash Good snogging is a real talent but when it’s done right it can be the best thing about a meet " So true. Nice and slow and easy. | |||
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"Yes pls . We absolutely love kissing and snogging ." Its so good. | |||
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"Oh yes. It is a must x " Love it to. | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it " From the many, many threads I’ve seen on this topic over the years, rule of thumb seems to be that for most ‘genuine’ singles it’s essential - totally understandable as meets, for many of us, are as much about intimacy and affection as they are about damned fine sex. Couples seem to be a split - also understandable. They already have someone to share that intimacy/affection with so may feel it inappropriate to share that intimacy with someone else. As long as the person/people they’re meeting are aware of this from the outset, I see no issue with it. | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences Absolutely agree. There is no need to throw insults because someone prefers not to kiss. I'm used to it. My favourite is "only prostitutes don't kiss" along with "sex with you must be cold and clinical". they should be so lucky to find out You are so right. We've had some mindblowing meets and not one kiss (on the mouth) was exchanged between anyone other than me and my other half - and there was nothing cold or clinical about it From the many, many threads I’ve seen on this topic over the years, rule of thumb seems to be that for most ‘genuine’ singles it’s essential - totally understandable as meets, for many of us, are as much about intimacy and affection as they are about damned fine sex. Couples seem to be a split - also understandable. They already have someone to share that intimacy/affection with so may feel it inappropriate to share that intimacy with someone else. As long as the person/people they’re meeting are aware of this from the outset, I see no issue with it. " If only other people approached it from your point of _iew. | |||
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"Kissing is an essential part of our play" Its so nice. | |||
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"I'm a big kisser on meets. It is important xx" With a tongue like yours I bet the kisses are awesome ?? | |||
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"Yes we love kissing and cuddling." Me to love kissing to start with. | |||
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"I'd pay good money for a good snog today " LOL shame your not in bedfordshire today | |||
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"Love a kiss/snog" Its just real real nice. If you can't get excited with a nice kiss. Give up impo lol | |||
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"Depends on the kind of meet...but a good kiss can turn me on so much!!!!!! " Essential for me and a big turn on. | |||
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"I adore kissing. Rather essential. Here is the sad bit. I haven't been kissed by a sober person in 5 or 6 years. The d*unk lady, who kissed me in this period, is a friend and she was quite d*unk so I put her to bed. It is immensely sad and I physically hurt when my wife doesn't kiss me more than a peck." Your not alone re PECK let me tell you. | |||
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person. " Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest | |||
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person. Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest " People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. | |||
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person. Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. " We prefer kissing but have had meets that dont and in the throws of meet etc didnt notice too much but we do ask for kissing now but respect if others dont its all about each others choices ,hubby and i share a guys cock etc ,but its not everyones thing each to their own i say especially on here // | |||
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"Kissing is such a big part of a sexual meet for me as I'm not a wham bam person. Neither are we. Not kissing does not necessarily equate to a wham bam meet as I'm sure those we've met will attest People make all sorts of assumptions about those of us who choose not to kiss. We prefer kissing but have had meets that dont and in the throws of meet etc didnt notice too much but we do ask for kissing now but respect if others dont its all about each others choices ,hubby and i share a guys cock etc ,but its not everyones thing each to their own i say especially on here // " Agreed. You rarely find people who don't kiss making wide ranging assumptions about people who do but it seems quite acceptable the other way round. I've never understood why. | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences " was reading thay back just now and thought why did i put chair of all things haha, i respect peoples decision might not always agree with them but that just one of them things i suppose humour is the turn on for me but ive not met a woman yet that turns down a good session of tonsil tennis lol | |||
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"I thought it would matter not snogging. But I had a steamy fuck without kissing because he had a cold sore and didn't want to spread it" now i can understand that ive had a simulat experience | |||
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"It's not essential to me but I fully respect that it is to other people although I would never meet them you must be that one that is a chair, kissing is 1 of the best ways to get a person to arousal and knowing how turned on they are A chair? It's not the best way to arouse me. I like someone with imagination and respect for my preferences was reading thay back just now and thought why did i put chair of all things haha, i respect peoples decision might not always agree with them but that just one of them things i suppose humour is the turn on for me but ive not met a woman yet that turns down a good session of tonsil tennis lol" I think you put chair to imply that people like me are cold and unfeeling like a piece of furniture. | |||
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"Kissing is the icing on the cake that makes the experience special" Its also the cheery on top and the rich fruit inside it impo | |||
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