FabSwingers.com forum: Nobody is here to fulfill your sexual fantasies.

By *teveanddebs OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just seen this phrase posted on a thread but is it true?

We've had some seriously good times acting out other peoples fantasies, finding things we hadn't considered before seriously hot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're here to fulfil sexual fantasties and that requires other people. You could say we're all here to fulfil other people's fantasies.

Well we were then covid came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its the mainstay of D/s

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I understand your point, but in the situation you are describing, their fantasy becomes yours and you act it out because you want to.

Could you honestly say that that you would carry out somebody else's fantasy even if you weren't interested, just so they could have their fantasy fulfilled? Maybe somebody you are really close with and do things you enjoy with them too, but this issue usually comes up when people are searching for people they haven't met before.

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By *teveanddebs OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Could you honestly say that that you would carry out somebody else's fantasy even if you weren't interested, just so they could have their fantasy fulfilled? "

Yes we have, It wasn't something that repulsed us and as long as it's not a hard limit I can't see what harm it does. As I said, we've done this and sometimes it has worked really well, others it has been a bit meh!. If the latter you just don't do it again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always ready to listen to other people’s fantasies before I say no.

Sex should always be about mutual pleasure but if you don’t try anything new then how do you know you won’t love it?

Sexuality should be a fluid journey in life not a rigid position. Over the last years I have discovered some things I now love and some things that happy to do but not essential for my pleasure.

However I steer clear of people that contact me just because they want to experience one particular thing, like anal - I like to be treated as a person not a performing doll.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Could you honestly say that that you would carry out somebody else's fantasy even if you weren't interested, just so they could have their fantasy fulfilled?

Fair enough then, but I suspect that's a very unusual approach on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the idea of fulfilling the fantasies of others as long as we like the sound of them enough!

Happy yo be flexible to put a smile on some faces and some cum on ours

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have mine and if they match someone else’s great

But I do find most of my messages are from horny guys just wanting a quick shag, not to do something more that would spice up the meet a little more. Always asking if I’d dress up ‘slutty’ when very few of my photos are of a slutty nature. I actually have fantasies on my profile but as guys generally don’t read them

However I live in hope

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By *teveanddebs OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

"We love the idea of fulfilling the fantasies of others as long as we like the sound of them enough!

Happy yo be flexible to put a smile on some faces and some cum on ours

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