FabSwingers.com forum: Tips to encourage a F to enjoy a ffm

By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just remember it’s as much about her as just finding somebody to join you both. The women we play with are first and foremost friends, you need to have that relationship otherwise the trust and connection isn’t there and then it’s no fun at all.

Granted In a club when they open you just need to speak to people, if the attractions there it can soon get naughty very quickly, but that’s part of that fantasy as opposed to a private meet.

Bear in mind that “I want you to join me to fuck my boyfriend” isn’t the most attractive of prospects or fantasy material for most people, there needs to be a mutual and all round thrill for group sex to work.

Good luck and have fun

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Just remember it’s as much about her as just finding somebody to join you both. The women we play with are first and foremost friends, you need to have that relationship otherwise the trust and connection isn’t there and then it’s no fun at all.

Granted In a club when they open you just need to speak to people, if the attractions there it can soon get naughty very quickly, but that’s part of that fantasy as opposed to a private meet.

Good luck and have fun

We agree completely with this. Nobody is here to fulfill your sexual fantasies.

In our experience, the best way to go about this is to talk to people because you like talking to them. Meet people because you like meeting them. Expect nothing more and you won't be disappointed, but you will also avoid giving somebody the impression you want to treat them as a sex toy, which is a real mood-killer.

When you find people you get on with, opportunities can open up by themselves. That's what has happened with us. For us it's friendship first and see what follows without trying to push sn agenda. As a result we have easily found options open up for us that other people say they really struggle to find, and we literally never tried.