FabSwingers.com forum: When is a voyeur...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...not a voyeur?

We're starting to think about having a regularish voyeur for safe distance meets. Part of our buzz is to know how much they're enjoying watching.

But as things get a bit safer and 'proper' meets are back on, if we decided to finish the guy off together, does that mean the guy was probably never a voyeur to begin with?

Surely, if his thing is watching couples, he'd not enjoy being played with? Interested to hear from actual voyeurs and what they think about this. Can you be both a voyeur and a participant - or is that sort of thing frowned upon by experienced voyeurs?

Jake and Becky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of young single men like to watch and participate but you will find some mature voyeurs who just like to watch and will only play if you ask them too.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Interesting!!!!! I am a voyeur and love watching in clubs. But yes your right if I was on a socially distance voyeur meet (can be done), I would like to be player with as well later

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Most of young single men like to watch and participate but you will find some mature voyeurs who just like to watch and will only play if you ask them too.

Happy to just watch but will play if invited

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Love to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the dynamic of the people inviting me. I will purely sit and enjoy the view if that’s what I’ve been invited to do. I have no desires or expectations beyond that if those boundaries are in place.

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

Watching is a definite turn on and getting an invite to play is the icing on the cake

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By *eanieggMan
over a year ago

UXBRIDGE

i love to watch couples play at clubs and parties but i will play if invited .. i was in a pub garden on a date 3 days ago and a couple sat opposite me .. the lady looked at me then opened and closed her legs and crossed them regularly .. just a glimpse of pantie.. she knew i was watching .. it was very erotic

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By *ibble969Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Love to watch couples, as have voyeur tendencies and its great when noticed with a wink or smile. Can happily watch all evening at a club, but its always a great bonus when get an invite to touch or even join in, but never expect anything and just enjoy the moment.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A voyeur is just a handjob away from being a participant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeur always especially in a gang bang scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching is half the fun

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

warrington

I guess its down to setting boundaries beforehand, if theyre happy to watch and not have any interaction, but dont mind of the couple want to finish them off, then i guess thats where the voyeur boundaries are

If theyre there and expect that interaction then they were never a voyeur in the first place :D

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By *umshootistMan
over a year ago

Sapcote

I love to be a voyeur for a couple ......always their rules and boundaries

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Being new to this watching and not actively participating is a stress free way to start. Obviously if we all get into it and I'm asked to join in then that's a different matter. However if it when I break my swinging duck, I'd like to do it watching rather than participating.

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Most of young single men like to watch and participate but you will find some mature voyeurs who just like to watch and will only play if you ask them too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of young single men like to watch and participate but you will find some mature voyeurs who just like to watch and will only play if you ask them too.

These are the ones we want!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"A voyeur is just a handjob away from being a participant! "

Quite

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Most of young single men like to watch and participate but you will find some mature voyeurs who just like to watch and will only play if you ask them too.

These are the ones we want!"

Where do I apply ? ??

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I love being a voyeur... Sitting and watching in growing frustration really turns me on.

It also pleases me to be a couples sexual butler and to earn any potential rewards and favours.

It is a real turn on to meet with hope and anticipation and not expectation.

If the voyeur was to relieve himself he would still be a voyeur... If he had to obediently and respectfully just watch he would still be just a voyeur. If you were to reward him bt relieving his frustration he would become a lucky voyeur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being a voyeur above all else, and I am more than satisfied if nothing else happens. But, if anything else were on offer, I probably wouldn't turn it down.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Happy to watch and take photo's if required, would accept relief from the female but not from the male.

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By *tuYorksMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Love being a voyeur above all else, and I am more than satisfied if nothing else happens. But, if anything else were on offer, I probably wouldn't turn it down. "

What he said

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By *tuYorksMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Love being a voyeur above all else, and I am more than satisfied if nothing else happens. But, if anything else were on offer, I probably wouldn't turn it down.

What he said"

Caveat - From the female only

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Love being a voyeur above all else, and I am more than satisfied if nothing else happens. But, if anything else were on offer, I probably wouldn't turn it down. "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We realy want to watch a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We realy want to watch a couple "

Same here, we were watching porn last week and I was touching Tanya at the same time and she said she would love me to do that while we watched a real life couple.

John

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I do like watching will only touch if asked to or agreed to prior

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